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Old 09-08-2014, 11:11 AM
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so our bs continues. after the emotional crap we have been putting each other through , he just got arrested again . he will be home 4 months this week and now we are into court dates, detox, rehab again. apart of me wants to walk away (actually run) from this man, but my darn heart is having issues. ... im not sure what to do im so tired of him lieing ( i dont believe a word he says anymore), im so tired of his drug use, im just so sick of it. i keep telling myself ill stand by him till this is over and he is again on his own feet, cause i do know for a FACT, he will never stop using drugs. he sits there crying how much he loves me,needs me cant live without me, he is so sorry (please dude) . like if he is sorry then stop doing this shit.
just had to vent before i lost my mind, thank u for listening
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Old 09-08-2014, 01:10 PM
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Oh man that sucks! I feel for you, my husbands in after me waiting last time. Did 2 1/2 years didn't make it 6 months was out on bail then caught a bunch more cases (drugs). Now he's in for 5yrs. Totally sucks he's on tough love, for my saniety's sake.
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Well, Barbie, you don't trust him, you don't believe him, you're convinced he will continue using. I'm not sure why this is attractive, but you know he's lying about loving you more than anything, because first place in his life is held by drugs.

Go to NarAnon or AlAnon meetings and get yourself a support network! It will help you more than you know. It will help you clear your feelings, and maybe help you develop clear boundaries and methods of enforcing them.
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so our bs continues. after the emotional crap we have been putting each other through , he just got arrested again . he will be home 4 months this week and now we are into court dates, detox, rehab again. apart of me wants to walk away (actually run) from this man, but my darn heart is having issues. ... im not sure what to do im so tired of him lieing ( i dont believe a word he says anymore), im so tired of his drug use, im just so sick of it. i keep telling myself ill stand by him till this is over and he is again on his own feet, cause i do know for a FACT, he will never stop using drugs. he sits there crying how much he loves me,needs me cant live without me, he is so sorry (please dude) . like if he is sorry then stop doing this shit.
just had to vent before i lost my mind, thank u for listening
He hasn't been putting you through anything at all. Not a thing.

YOU are putting yourself through every single bit of whatever you are going through. You're just doing it and blaming him.

There's a joke about a city woman visiting a ranch and seeing a horse getting broke in... the horse tied to a post in the middle of a corral, losing her mind, bucking, pulling, just going through hell.

The city gal tells a nearby cowboy how awful and horrible and inhumane that is.

The cowboy just slowly looks up and says, "She can make it stop hurting any time she wants to."

Best of luck.
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Old 09-08-2014, 08:32 PM
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"The cowboy just slowly looks up and says, "She can make it stop hurting any time she wants to."

Well put.
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