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View Poll Results: When will your inmate be back?
3 months or less 106 29.61%
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1 to 3 years 85 23.74%
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Old 02-16-2013, 01:38 AM
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Old 02-16-2013, 06:15 AM
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We are going to take it one day at a time. Of course he will spend time with his family and children but beyond that all he wants to do is go camping.
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Old 02-16-2013, 07:35 AM
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Since his time is really short (May), I'm flying into NY to help his mother get the house ready for him. We have to put stuff in storage, buy certain things, and anything else she needs. I want to make sure he is very comfortable with his surroundings once he's home. Him and I talk about I everyday.
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Old 02-16-2013, 09:47 AM
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Plan to finish my degree up, goal s are to lose some weight, save money, start this new job, waiting at the gates when he's released .!!!

Gonna take a short vacation, and come back to our state and give him time to get his ID, DL, etc. look for employment, housing isn't a issue. That's all set up.
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Make babies! Ha, I'm kind of kidding but I'm really not. We have plans to get into business for ourselves and have a family, something we both do not have. Traveling is on the list too.
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My boyfriend comes home in less than three months! I'm beyond excited!!!! All he talks about is how much time he wants to spend with me and his son! He's changed a lot and I'm so proud of the man he has become! As for me ive lost some weight and saved up some money for us!
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Old 02-16-2013, 09:13 PM
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Old 02-16-2013, 10:01 PM
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I have so much stuff to do before he comes home. I need to start making room for all his stuff. I can't wait until my baby comes home! I love him so much. Xoxo
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13 years down and just a short 3 months to go. My plan is get a new place in a few weeks. Then to do lots of fun simple stuff and traveling, and continue to make this marriage a romance of a lifetime. His main focus is finding a job and getting me preggers.
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Goal before he came home, to get him out of the doors and deal with him in another city. How to get phone to him as soon as possible and needed things. Now, it is to get him home or get us up there. So far, everything has been good but we have some major obstacles to jump across(job/housing) and that is our first priority.
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Old 02-18-2013, 10:45 PM
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My man comes home April 2013, less then 50 days to go! Since he's been in I haven't really been able to get much done, taking care of 2 toddlers, but I have managed to buy a new car and get accepted into college. I'll have money saved as well so we can do things as a family when he is released. The main goal is to get back to normalcy, the best we can and have the kids bond with him. I'm beyond excited to start over a new life and hope we can make it work!

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I still have a lot to do before he comes home June 10th. I need to make room in the closet for his things and get the house spotless. I have slimmed down 26lbs and it wouldn't hurt to lose a few more. I am taking a 2 week vacation so we can bond as a family then we will work on settling into married life together.
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Old 02-20-2013, 08:32 PM
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We plan on sex, sex, more sex, babies and more SEX!! lol Of course the typical job, car, activley planning a wedding for 2014 in TYBEE Island but he also wants to spend time with the kids. Thank God July2013 is when he comes HOME!!!!!
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work, take the extra class needed to be CNA in Florida, saving for my move to Duval and buy him a few things... that's jus a small portion of the things im doin before sept 2nd
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He comes home oct 2014.

We plan on going back to they way our lives were before all of this mess. Of course it will take time but hopefully, one day at a time, we can get back to where we were or maybe even better!!
We do plan on taking the kids somewhere on vacation
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My husband won't be home until the year 2019, so we have a while to get our lives together before his arrival. I will graduate from college in 2014 and hopefully I will have a good paying job to support our family until he can get back onto his feet. I have a feeling as soon as he comes home it will feel as if he never left. My goals before he gets home would be to lose the weight I know I will put on while he is gone and be more financial stable.
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I have 21 days before I get to hold my husband in my arms again. I dont want to overwhelm his with things, but i do want to have a BBQ with friends and family. Take a drive in our convertable and just watch as he enjoys his freedom.......
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We have a year left. And my baby will be home. I plan to lose weight, get my own apartment and save up money for us. All he wants to do is be with me and his son & family. I want to help him get on his feet and just enjoy him. 5 long years coming to an end. Thank you!
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I have 5 1/2 months left I can't believe in two weeks we will be at 4 months I'm gonna have to buy all his own necessities move out pick up him up on day of. He thinks he's going to drive but I don't think that's a good decision lol
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Less than three months left!!! His family and I will be picking him up and he wants to go straight to IHOP to have breakfast lol. I'm in the middle of buying a new bedroom set for our bedroom. Already booked the dj and venue for his welcome home party. Just finished buying his coming home outfit and some extra clothes for him. Surprising my kids by picking them up after school, then going to the movies and dinner afterwards! I already have summer family outings lined up for us. We're gonna go look at the two venues we have to choose from to have our wedding at. We get to celebrate our two year anniversary together a week after he's home! So we're going out to a nice upscale restaurant in the city to celebrate. So many things.... I am the queen of outings and traveling, so we'll be all over the place if possible lol. Can't wait! Right now, I'm just getting ready for our next conjugal in four days!
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We have just under 6 months left! I gotta get his clothes from his momma's, get him a few more outfits,some sneakers, some manly hygene things, and thats about it. I want to loose some weight. I am in the process of getting my teeth fixed and hes very supportive of that. Just wishes he can be here to physically help me. Clean the house and car really good! Make room for his stuff. I have a lot to do but not really. I'm not stressed over it....yet...anyways. lol.
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We have just under 6 months left! I gotta get his clothes from his momma's, get him a few more outfits,some sneakers, some manly hygene things, and thats about it. I want to loose some weight. I am in the process of getting my teeth fixed and hes very supportive of that. Just wishes he can be here to physically help me. Clean the house and car really good! Make room for his stuff. I have a lot to do but not really. I'm not stressed over it....yet...anyways. lol.
I'm also planning something nice for him when he comes home we have 10 months left and every month I'm more excited , I got clothes need to get more he's so big it's hard finding clothes a 3XL LOL I also need to loose some weight get in better shape for this handsome man,
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Well he was starting his own business before he was locked up, so I plan to help him finish that. I get the feeling that he wants to move in together, but i'm not really feeling that. Ive never lived with anyone. We dated for 3 yrs before he went away and we had separate places. I'm afraid of that moment when he asks. I would hate to tell him no...
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