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Old 01-25-2013, 10:26 PM
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So, I FINALLY managed to get a proxy marriage today to m'love. It was a struggle, but I am now Mrs. S.

Me, and another lady who's fiance-now-hubby is also at the same facility, went down to Collingsworth County Texas to get our marriage license, with the intent to go to Wheeler County to get married at 9am. Unbeknownst to us, the Collingsworth County Clerk Office didn't open til 9am, and they are 45 min away from Wheeler County. So, instead the ladies in the Clerk's Office called every judge, justice of the peace, and pastor they could think of to find someone to marry us after we got the licenses and waiver signed. One judge in Childress said she would do it but it would be $100! A pastor said he might but he wanted to talk to us first, but couldn't be there til 12 noon (and if he did it, he wouldn't charge). So, we decided to grab lunch while we waited...they suggested this little diner and we went; after eating, when we went to pay for the food, they said "Mrs. Molina in the Clerk's Office paid for your food." That was soooooo sweet!! Then, when we got back to the Clerk's Office, with 15 minutes to still wait for the Pastor, the ladies gave us each a bouquet of (fake) flowers that they got us while we went to go eat.
When the Pastor showed up, he talked to us, and decided not to do the proxy 'cuz he didn't feel comfy doing a proxy service. So, we ended up having to drive to Childress and shell out an extra $100. By this time it is around 1pm and the visit ends at 4:30pm...and we were like 1 1/2 hours from the prison still....and then we hit a major detour which added another 30 minutes onto the drive...and my GPS took us back some crazy isolated dirt roads...lol was kinda scary. BUT....we got to the facility a little after 3pm, so we still got to visit for a little bit....and we will visit tomorrow and Sunday, also.

This pic is me in my wedding outfit with my bouquet of flowers the Clerk's office got me, but once we get the visit pix back (won't be for a month, 'cuz they are really slow), I will share those as well.
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Congrats, you've had one heck of a day. Try to get some rest tonight and enjoy your weekend with your hubby
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What a lot of trouble you had trying to get married! Best of wishes to you and your hub!
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I'd have had a heart attack with all that going on!!!!!!

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Very happy for you! I know Texas can be a pain in the butt. I got married down in Galveston county and they gave me hell too. But you made it! Have a great time visiting
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Old 01-26-2013, 11:54 AM
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Congratulations on your marriage. It seems like a lot was trying to stand in the way but you overcame everything thrown at you. Enjoy your husband and I hope you two have many happy years to come.
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Congratulations! One heck of a day but all worth it at the end. You are now a Mrs. S., you look pretty.

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omg.
I'd have had a heart attack with all that going on!!!!!!

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oops, I mean Mrs S.
HAHA! Believe me, I was so incredibly stressed....I was in a LOT of severe pain and I think it was the stress exacerbating it. Blah.
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Mashaallah Ukhti! May Allah grant you and M'love everlasting love!...Im so happy to read this. I know it wasnt the way you wanted but Allah(swt) knew best. Best news of my weekend thus far.
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So, I FINALLY managed to get a proxy marriage today to m'love. It was a struggle, but I am now Mrs. S.

Me, and another lady who's fiance-now-hubby is also at the same facility, went down to Collingsworth County Texas to get our marriage license, with the intent to go to Wheeler County to get married at 9am. Unbeknownst to us, the Collingsworth County Clerk Office didn't open til 9am, and they are 45 min away from Wheeler County. So, instead the ladies in the Clerk's Office called every judge, justice of the peace, and pastor they could think of to find someone to marry us after we got the licenses and waiver signed. One judge in Childress said she would do it but it would be $100! A pastor said he might but he wanted to talk to us first, but couldn't be there til 12 noon (and if he did it, he wouldn't charge). So, we decided to grab lunch while we waited...they suggested this little diner and we went; after eating, when we went to pay for the food, they said "Mrs. Molina in the Clerk's Office paid for your food." That was soooooo sweet!! Then, when we got back to the Clerk's Office, with 15 minutes to still wait for the Pastor, the ladies gave us each a bouquet of (fake) flowers that they got us while we went to go eat.
When the Pastor showed up, he talked to us, and decided not to do the proxy 'cuz he didn't feel comfy doing a proxy service. So, we ended up having to drive to Childress and shell out an extra $100. By this time it is around 1pm and the visit ends at 4:30pm...and we were like 1 1/2 hours from the prison still....and then we hit a major detour which added another 30 minutes onto the drive...and my GPS took us back some crazy isolated dirt roads...lol was kinda scary. BUT....we got to the facility a little after 3pm, so we still got to visit for a little bit....and we will visit tomorrow and Sunday, also.

This pic is me in my wedding outfit with my bouquet of flowers the Clerk's office got me, but once we get the visit pix back (won't be for a month, 'cuz they are really slow), I will share those as well.

Gorgeous! Ukhti you look so happy!
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So, I FINALLY managed to get a proxy marriage today to m'love. It was a struggle, but I am now Mrs. S.

Me, and another lady who's fiance-now-hubby is also at the same facility, went down to Collingsworth County Texas to get our marriage license, with the intent to go to Wheeler County to get married at 9am. Unbeknownst to us, the Collingsworth County Clerk Office didn't open til 9am, and they are 45 min away from Wheeler County. So, instead the ladies in the Clerk's Office called every judge, justice of the peace, and pastor they could think of to find someone to marry us after we got the licenses and waiver signed. One judge in Childress said she would do it but it would be $100! A pastor said he might but he wanted to talk to us first, but couldn't be there til 12 noon (and if he did it, he wouldn't charge). So, we decided to grab lunch while we waited...they suggested this little diner and we went; after eating, when we went to pay for the food, they said "Mrs. Molina in the Clerk's Office paid for your food." That was soooooo sweet!! Then, when we got back to the Clerk's Office, with 15 minutes to still wait for the Pastor, the ladies gave us each a bouquet of (fake) flowers that they got us while we went to go eat.
When the Pastor showed up, he talked to us, and decided not to do the proxy 'cuz he didn't feel comfy doing a proxy service. So, we ended up having to drive to Childress and shell out an extra $100. By this time it is around 1pm and the visit ends at 4:30pm...and we were like 1 1/2 hours from the prison still....and then we hit a major detour which added another 30 minutes onto the drive...and my GPS took us back some crazy isolated dirt roads...lol was kinda scary. BUT....we got to the facility a little after 3pm, so we still got to visit for a little bit....and we will visit tomorrow and Sunday, also.

This pic is me in my wedding outfit with my bouquet of flowers the Clerk's office got me, but once we get the visit pix back (won't be for a month, 'cuz they are really slow), I will share those as well.

congratulations to you both. pretty picture by the way and such a beautiful bouquet of flowers.
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Gorgeous! Ukhti you look so happy!
Ameen. Jazak'Allahu khairn sis. Yes, not the way we had hoped to get married, but masha'Allah, it is what it is...the important thing is, that it is done. You know that the Prophet (pbuh) married one of his wives by proxy? I believe it was Umm Salamah. Technically then, it is part of the sunnah, right? lol

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Wow, what a day. Congratulations and I really like the photo. I love the blue detail on your outfit and you look very very happy.
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Congratulations on finally getting it done in spite of all that was against you.
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Congratulations!!!! That sounds like quite a day, but it's done and you are now Mrs. S! So happy for you!
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DETERMINATION prevailed! Congratulations & may you continue to receive your blessings.
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That is great for you... I had been married to my "inmate/man" in 2001 and we have known each other and dated since 1991... and now separated 3 years and want to reunite being married and going for the proxy as i am in Colorado and he is in Maryland.. and then when he gets released he can move to Colorado.. has to be living with a family member.. so.. then we can re do our own thing when he is here.. we really don't want to give the prison system more $$$$ for anything.
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Thank you everyone! This has been a long time coming...we've been trying to get married for a few years now, but distance was a factor. Ha, my car broke down last week, and even the stress of a $500+ repair bill can't even bring me down...still smiling.

Rock Candy...I wish y'all the best! Be sure to come back to this forum and let us know how it all goes for ya.
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