Picking The Date....... Married on the Inside

shalove · #1 10-28-2002, 01:12 PM

WELL IT LOOKS LIKE TYRONE WANTS TO DEFINITELY GET MARRIED WHILE HE IS STILL IN. I DONT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT. HE IS MY LOVE, MY LIFE AND MY BEST FRIEND. HE WAS SUPPOSED TO TALK TO THE CHAPLAIN YESTERDAY TO FIND OUT WHAT ELSE WE HAVE LEFT TO DO. BECAUSE WE WERE TO GET MARRIED ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO BUT THINGS HAPPENED. I CAN EXPLAIN LATER. ANYHOW, WE BOTH FEEL ITS TIME. BUT WE ARE HAVING A HARD TIME DECIDING HOW TO PICK A DATE. I KNOW THAT IN PRISON THEY ONLY MARRY ON CERTAIN DAYS. BUT WE JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TIME OF YEAR WOULD BE GOOD. THAT WE WANT TO REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF OUR LIFE. I KNOW ITS JUST A DAY BUT ITS OUR DAY..... AND AS FAR AS THE HONEYMOON. IT MIGHT BE AT THE VENDING MACHINES. BUT WHEN HE GETS HOME WE ARE GOING TO HAWAII. MY PARENTS ARE GIVING UP THEIR VACATION THAT YEAR TO SEND US TO HAWAII FOR OUR HONEYMOON.

emme · #2 10-28-2002, 01:15 PM

Oh, Sheryl, I am so excited for you! This is wonderful news! How lucky you are to have such great parents...

I don't know anything about planning weddings/picking dates, but I know other wonderful people will be along shortly to give you some great advice!

Congratulations!

Love,
Emme

sherri13 · #3 10-29-2002, 11:13 AM

Sheryl-if you want to have some fun-why don't you start a poll and all PTO members can vote on a date-
I think February is a good month, maybe Valentine's Day-then your husband has no excuse to forget your anniversary date in years to come....

Mary S. · #4 10-29-2002, 07:28 PM

Congratulations! You'll know more after Tyrone talks to the chaplain. In NY you have to be interviewed before it's approved. My interview is for Nov.13th. I took it upon myself to choose Dec. 7th for the wedding. I've already got everything ready; not smart on my part but I couldn't wait lol.

shalove · #5 10-29-2002, 11:45 PM

THANK YOU SO FAR YOU ALL. IT IS HARD TO PICK A DATE. BUT I THINK I CAME UP WITH ONE AND I AM NOW WAITING FOR HIS RESPONSE...... I ASKED HIM WHAT HE THOUGHT OF MARCH 24TH....... THE DATE RIGHT IN BETWEEN OUR BIRTHDAYS. I AWAITING HIS OPINION AND TO SEE IF HE HAS ANY OF HIS OWN. HE HASNT TALKED TO THE CHAPLAIN, SHE DIDNT COME IN SUNDAY FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 6 MONTHS. SO HE WILL TALK TO HER AS SOON AS SHE COMES IN. THAT MIGHT BE TOO SOON THOUGH. IF THINGS CHANGED SINCE WE LAST DID EVERYTHING. ALL WE KNOW IS THAT WE HAVE PREMARRIAGE COUNSELING. BUT WHO KNOWS NOW......... WE MIGHT HAVE TO PUSH THE DATE OUT SOME.........