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Loving a Violent Offender Discuss the issues of having a violent offender as part of your life. Please keep in mind that some of us are married to violent offenders. Please remember that these offenders are human, and as such, can change... just like anyone else.

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Old 11-06-2011, 06:11 PM
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I recently ended a 2 yr engagement and got all dressed to go out to the club with a gf of mine and he friends. Well her bf call my husband told him to meet us there that there was a chick (me) thus was kat as crazy as him and he needed to come check me out haha. He came tried to flirt I turned from him bc he looked like a bad boy like my ex and I was tryin to take a different road. The girls went in club boys stayed outside chillin...I came outside with ma shoes in ma hand he said want meto hold ur shoes. I laughed gave them to him and that's when I got interested. We never asked one another out but one night we were talkin and I was going out...he said to me don't make me kill u...that's when I knew we had stepped over the friends line. I loveeeee ma baby boy!!
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Old 11-09-2011, 07:55 AM
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Old 11-19-2011, 12:38 PM
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On the first day of 7th grade 23 years ago, I turned around to tell this annoying kid to shut up and I was met with the most beautiful smile that I couldn't even remember my name!! 2 1/2 years later we gave ourselves to eachother for the first time for either of us...and 23 years later we got married, he's been in for 12 with at least another 8 to go and I'll be holding it down for life & longer!!
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Old 12-07-2011, 12:02 PM
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he dialed my home # via payphone & asked for another girl by mistake when i was 15, thing is - his friend was in love with me yet seeing another girl,- G asked for the other girl which set me off!!! our mutual friend was livid & years later G told me that he knew exactly what he was doing
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Old 12-15-2011, 08:16 PM
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We where in my moms foster home together. He was 8 I was 11. It was love at 1st site. but it look me 10 years to get his trust. And on may 1 2008 he told me he was in love with me.

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Old 12-15-2011, 08:23 PM
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at 15 yrs old we were both in foster care and we were in a temporary home together...i only lived there less than 2 weeks but we were inseperable after that....now 10 yrs later and 2 kids and we are still holding on strong
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Old 12-15-2011, 08:28 PM
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I was on top of his best friend, beating her in the face with a 40oz of crazy horse malt liquor. He pulled me off of her and sat me on the hood of a car and talked to me for the next 4 hours. I left him with my phone number and went home at 2am. At 8am he called me and invited me to breakfast, by the time I had showered and thrown my hair into a pony tail - he was at the front door, meeting my parents..... That was 20 years ago. His best friend never really forgave me, but she never tested me again.
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Old 12-15-2011, 08:30 PM
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I met my husband while I was bartending. He got my number and we were inseparable after that. Married a year later. 2 kids and a dog Haha now he just needs to hurry and get his ass home!!!!

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Old 12-22-2011, 07:47 PM
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A friend and I went to her brothers to see if wanted to go out with usher wad not there but my hubby opened the door an it was love at first sight.
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Old 12-22-2011, 08:01 PM
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Old 12-29-2011, 09:34 PM
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We met thru FaceBook! Lol. Apparently we were stalking eachothers page at the same time. One night I posted a stat.....he commented. So i inboxed him......at the exact same time he inboxed me. A few days later we met up and I havnt been able to get rid of him since! Nor do I want to. I love him to death!
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Old 12-29-2011, 09:42 PM
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I met my Husband when I was 11 and he was 13... We lived next door from me... I could not stand him at first he was soooooooo cocky but once I got to know him he was a cool dude... He remained friends until I was 19 and started dating
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Old 12-30-2011, 03:02 PM
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Me and my husband met in 10th grade. We were both having a hard time getting to school & staying there all day:/ so we were sent to a school that picked us up and dropped us off back home. We still argue about who approached who he says it was me I deny it but I'll tell you all the truth I told my friend he was cute she told him so yea I guess I kinda approached him
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I had shit luck with guys after I broke up with my ex of almost 3 years. Then my best friend brought me around his other group of friends, and I liked one of the guys, And there was another one (D) that would sit in the corner and fade to the background. After almost 2 months the one. Became more of a brother than anything and I was hanging out with both of them and a group of friends and someone yells "long hair don't care" D goes to echo them and realizes he cut his hair and now it's short so I put our heads together Abd said we could share. Then he spent the rest of the night playing with my hair because "it's so soft." a few days later he texts me "so you want to get to kno Cheech?" and I said "sure" "so it's a date?" "maybe".... We kissed for the first time that night and we started 'dating' like 3 days later.
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Old 01-15-2012, 04:13 PM
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I met him almost 7 years ago through my daughter's father. They actually used to be friends. Of course we see that ruined the friendship...but I couldn't help falling head over heals in love with this man.
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Old 01-23-2012, 06:30 PM
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i met my future to be hubby on moco space lol
lol me too >.<
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Old 01-23-2012, 06:40 PM
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Are you in love with your blood brother.
I would really like an answer to this....
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Old 01-23-2012, 07:36 PM
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I met my hubby a week after I tried to commit suicide. We met in a mental hospital. Him for suicidal thoughts and me for trying. He walked by my room the day I got there and said 2 words to me and I knew right then he was going to be mine ... 2 years later we got married ... Before our 3 month anniversary he got called to court ... Now serving 10 years ...

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I met my hubby a week after I tried to commit suicide. We met in a mental hospital. Him for suicidal thoughts and me for trying. He walked by my room the day I got there and said 2 words to me and I knew right then he was going to be mine ... 2 years later we got married ... Before our 3 month anniversary he got called to court ... Now serving 10 years ...

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Old 01-23-2012, 08:56 PM
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Thread idea!
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We met almost 9 years ago at a bar in the neighborhood we lived. When we first met I wasn't serious about anyone that I was talking to, but he was so easy to talk to and had so much in common and he supported me. I have Loved him ever since thru it all.
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Old 01-23-2012, 09:13 PM
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Lol!! Theres already a lot out there about that type of situation!!!
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Old 01-23-2012, 09:14 PM
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Lol!! Theres already a lot out there about that type of situation!!!
I never see them!! Well if that's the case then I just made another one!!
I always see responses in threads like this but never seen a thread dedicated to it!
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Old 01-23-2012, 09:23 PM
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I never see them!! Well if that's the case then I just made another one!!
I always see responses in threads like this but never seen a thread dedicated to it!
O well mayb not dedicated to it but its a lot of talk about it on here! & a lot of it is not good talk either
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