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Old 04-18-2011, 09:58 AM
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For you ladies who have a boyfriend/husband/fiance incarcerated, are you staying completely faithful to him or are you (or will you) talking to other guys, having sex with other guys, etc? And if so, does he know?

When me & my man have our first contact visit we're going to sit down and talk about all the ground rules of this committed relationship. I know he wants me to stay faithful to him, and that's exactly what I plan on doing. I love him enough to stay completely faithful to him these next 2+ years. I can't predict the future though, so if I do slip-up and hook up with another guy, the first thing I will do at our next visitation is tell him.
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I have been and will remain faithful to him. My ex husband did nothing but cheat on me in the almost 20 years we were married. I could not do that to him, and if he ever did it to me I would drop him on his arse without a backward glance. For us, being unfaithful is a deal breaker.
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Old 04-18-2011, 10:08 AM
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That's very good, and it's good to be very firm on that. Todd knows I wouldn't tolerate cheating from him either... And I couldn't even imagine having sex with another guy while Todd is away. I just couldn't do it, it would make me sick to my stomach!

And I see that your man comes home in 24 days... congratulations!
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I've been faithful and I'll continue to be faithful to my man. The only man that can truly give me what I need and want is him so other guys just don't attract me anymore.
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I refound my husband/baby father after 10yrs and now that i have him in my life again i plan on keeping him there. To be honest the only thing another man can offer me is sex an it's really not that important,i've passed that stage in my life now when it comes to sex iwant to enjoy it not only physically but emotionally. I think when there is true feelings there it's more intensive whether it's soft an lovving or hot an wild.
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That's very good, and it's good to be very firm on that. Todd knows I wouldn't tolerate cheating from him either... And I couldn't even imagine having sex with another guy while Todd is away. I just couldn't do it, it would make me sick to my stomach!

And I see that your man comes home in 24 days... congratulations!
The thought of it also makes me sick to my stomach, I just couldn't even imagine it.

Yes, he is coming home in 24 days and it seems like 24 years. Then I have NO patience either so that doesn't help. I will just be so glad when this is all over.
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i have and will always be faithful. I Need no other man. I was cheated on abused and not that i got someone who loves me and has never hit me or cheated on me i will always be faithful to him. When he first went in we sat ground rules. 1. No Cheating. 2. No going out on dates with any other man. 3. no talking on the phone with any other man besides family. In which they where the same when he was home.
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I find by being faithful to God, I uphold the morals and values, to be faithful in my all relationships.
I can be faithful to my bill collectors, and faithful to the house work, faithful to my education, and faithful to my guy, and his family.

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I am 100% faithful.....no room for slip ups or anything of the kind. My motto is if you wouldnt do it or say it to another man in front of your husband/bf then its cheating.

Plus I am too damn tired to cheat and I adore my R.
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I was just not made that way.
Sex without love means nothing, so no, not going there. My ex cheated on my and it broke my heart, so no, couldn't do to my Dov what almost killed me.
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For you ladies who have a boyfriend/husband/fiance incarcerated, are you staying completely faithful to him or are you (or will you) talking to other guys, having sex with other guys, etc? And if so, does he know?

When me & my man have our first contact visit we're going to sit down and talk about all the ground rules of this committed relationship. I know he wants me to stay faithful to him, and that's exactly what I plan on doing. I love him enough to stay completely faithful to him these next 2+ years. I can't predict the future though, so if I do slip-up and hook up with another guy, the first thing I will do at our next visitation is tell him.
yes always have and always wil no other man could ever replace
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I am 100% faithful. I also don't put myself in the position for a cheat to happen. Probably easier for me cause I am to old to do the club scene or bar hopping. Give me my Netflix and I am satisfied.
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I am definetly staying faithful to him!!!!!! I dont want another man!! I wouldnt be able to live with myself if I ever cheated on him!! waiting these next 7 months will be way worth it because then I will get a lifetime of happiness
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I've been faithful since day one and i continue to be faithful till the end.
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I couldn't even imagine being with another man...I take my vows seriously..through the good and the bad and the ugly! LOL he would never be ok with me having a "friend" so the only friend I have takes to double AA batteries =) I love my baby too much to ever risk losing him.
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For you ladies who have a boyfriend/husband/fiance incarcerated, are you staying completely faithful to him or are you (or will you) talking to other guys, having sex with other guys, etc? And if so, does he know?

When me & my man have our first contact visit we're going to sit down and talk about all the ground rules of this committed relationship. I know he wants me to stay faithful to him, and that's exactly what I plan on doing. I love him enough to stay completely faithful to him these next 2+ years. I can't predict the future though, so if I do slip-up and hook up with another guy, the first thing I will do at our next visitation is tell him.

I am completely, 100% loyal and faithful to him in every way. However, I do have male friends I talk to, he knows them and he writes them too or we talk about what's going on in their lives with each other, so I don't consider talking to other people, male or female cheating. My friendship boundary is a line clearly drawn in the sand with anyone else that I do not cross and if the other guys try, I gently put them back in their friend place.
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I am and will stay faithful to my fiance 110%!! I am perfectly happy with my "boring" life while he is gone! The only people I am around is my family and his family! The only place I go is to church! I knew when I said I would be his wife that meant being with one man, Him, for the rest of my life! And I am perfectly happy about not going out... to be honest I don't even notice other guys or notice other guys noticing me... I am in love and will stay in love with my wonderful hubby-to-be! It doesn't matter if he is in prison or not! I am staying FAITHFULLY HIS!! I actually sign all my letters to him "Faithfully Yours <3"
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I am absolutely, totally and loyally faithful. I have been from day one and I will continue to be from now til forever.
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I have and will forever be faithful to my boyfriend, whether he is in prison or not. I love him and could ever cheat on him . I also dont put my self in situations where I would ever cheat on him...When I decided to stand by his side and never leave him, I made a oath to never ever cheat or leave him..
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i plan to stay faithfull to ma fiance i love him to death n i dont plan on cheating on ma man i cant wait till the our weding day comes so xited.. this 8years are gonna fly n next thing you his gonna be by ma side..... ladys this a song i would love for all of you to hear is callled dedicated to the ladys by lady pink.... this for all of us.... hope ya love it as much i do ma firend dedicated this song to me n i dedicated to all the strong ladys out there....
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