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Old 04-07-2011, 07:18 AM
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Hello Ladies! i know we all are in a bit of a horriable spot right now with our other half being gone....how long is yours away for? and how do you deal with him being gone? whats the best way you think that is to help make the time go by faster ? makin convo ladies so come on dont be shy we all are in the same boat here and this is a time we all need friends new and old.
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Old 12-08-2011, 10:23 PM
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my husband is doing 25 to life. he has alot of time but i am dealing with it well. i am fortunate that we have trailers and i can see him almost every week. at first it was hard but now i think i am numb to it. I know i need to be strong for him. he can't have no weak chick. so me knowing this i remain strong everyday.
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Old 12-08-2011, 10:48 PM
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We talk on the phone and write like crazy.
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Old 12-08-2011, 10:52 PM
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my husband is doing 25 to life. he has alot of time but i am dealing with it well. i am fortunate that we have trailers and i can see him almost every week. at first it was hard but now i think i am numb to it. I know i need to be strong for him. he can't have no weak chick. so me knowing this i remain strong everyday.
Trailers? Like conjugal? Man oh man I wish we had those here. Haha I only have 2 years left so it's not insanely horrible.

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Old 12-09-2011, 10:47 PM
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Me too. We have not kiss since we was 15.
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Old 12-09-2011, 11:17 PM
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Me too. We have not kiss since we was 15.
Oh wow...u just made me grateful the last time I kissed my husband was this year

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Old 12-10-2011, 04:04 PM
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Oh wow...u just made me grateful the last time I kissed my husband was this year

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Me too!!! I used to feel so sorry for myself that my man was going to be gone for 3 years. But damn I should be smiling everyday when I think ONLY 3 years.

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My man has only been gone two weeks but it feels so long. At least I saw him like a week ago although it was no contact I hate those booth visits but I was so happy to see him. He is trying to get bailed out so I'm praying for him and trying to get sum money together. I kinda just keep myself busy nd I stay on here until he calls. This site really makes me feel better speaking to women who dont judge me for the choice I made

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I took on a second job...not only for the extra money but also to keep busy to make the time go by faster...i visit him sometimes 3 or 4 times a week when I can or at least every weekend...he calls when he can...right now hes in reception so the phone calls are minimal....mine is only doing 16 months and we have 13 months left....he tells me to look at it like everyday the sun goes down thats one more day closer til he comes home....also he always says a year of pain and hard times for a lifetime of happiness....the letters help a lot...I read them sometimes when im really missing him...I'm so thankful for this website...its been so helpful because this is the first time I've dealt with anyone in this situation..the information is so helpful and to know theres others that you can relate to in a tough situation like this when you feel alone is amazing!!! Sometimes people just dont understand how you can love someone who is serving time but I guess they dont understand the meaning of unconditional love...loving someone with their faults and all....try to take it one day at a time and be thankful each day the sun goes down!!!
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We have several children that keep me busy and he calls me every day. We go to see him as often as we can but he keeps getting further away and gas keeps going up....
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