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Old 11-06-2010, 10:43 PM
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Well today I finally got an eyeful. Right next to my honey and I there's a couple that having a jolly ol' time. She's wearing stretchpants and he's got his hand in as far as he can. I'm no spring chick but geesh, come on people! I'm having a hard enough time keeping my own man in check without that extra little argument of "see, they aren't getting caught". Not today, not ever. I'm not about to risk losing my visits for a diddle in the visitation room.

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Old 11-06-2010, 10:54 PM
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I think that's disgusting and completely uncalled for. It's not like every couple in there isn't physically missing the other one but common courtesy and decorum call for some self-control. There has to be something that keeps us separated from animals...

It's people like that who cause all the annoying, aggravating and what appear to be ridiculous rules to be put in place at visitation. I hope they were caught on camera and lost their visits...
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There's really nothing we can do in a situation like that...without bein a "rat". Thankfully, there were no children witnessing.
But, good for you and your integrity, morals and self-esteem for not giving in to that type of situation.
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Nope, no camera. Min camp and at the time only 1 guard supervising about 20 visiting families.

To me it's like you are rolling the dice. My Love is constantly trying to get a boob in his hand. I'm not rolling those dice no matter how horny I am. Believe me I understand the physical needs of these men and women. I just would rather not have to be an audience to it.
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Where I visit, the inmates lost the privilge of being in the vending machine area because a couple was caught on the overhead camera doing the deed, while others blocked the CO's from seeing. The next day, signs up, no inmates allowed in vending area !! Which sucked for the rest of us, it's hard to pick out food when they don't have a clue what's in the machines ... We feed each other hershey bars, our substitute for sex !!
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Ewwwwwww..... Setting aside the potential consequences, what happened to the whole concept of dignity?
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Where I visit, the inmates lost the privilge of being in the vending machine area because a couple was caught on the overhead camera doing the deed, while others blocked the CO's from seeing. The next day, signs up, no inmates allowed in vending area !! Which sucked for the rest of us, it's hard to pick out food when they don't have a clue what's in the machines ... We feed each other hershey bars, our substitute for sex !!
Something similar happened where I visit except it was behind the visiting machine and many couples were using it.Some were blocking intentionally others where blocking by default,in line for the vending machine food.Inmates were still able use the machines though at that time.
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Gross. We all have needs but there's no need to act like animals in heat.

Even grosser: people who do that sh*t also grab the handles to the bathroom doors. And you bet they don't wash their hands _before_ stepping into the bathroom...
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Well today I finally got an eyeful. Right next to my honey and I there's a couple that having a jolly ol' time. She's wearing stretchpants and he's got his hand in as far as he can. I'm no spring chick but geesh, come on people! I'm having a hard enough time keeping my own man in check without that extra little argument of "see, they aren't getting caught". Not today, not ever. I'm not about to risk losing my visits for a diddle in the visitation room.

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Gross. We all have needs but there's no need to act like animals in heat.

Even grosser: people who do that sh*t also grab the handles to the bathroom doors. And you bet they don't wash their hands _before_ stepping into the bathroom...



I think I might have to go throw up now!
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I think that just showed lack of respect for herself, himself and thier relationship...as much as my hubs would love a little something soemthing, there is no way he would to using me in a visiting room...just saying that is really trashy
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Gross. We all have needs but there's no need to act like animals in heat.

Even grosser: people who do that sh*t also grab the handles to the bathroom doors. And you bet they don't wash their hands _before_ stepping into the bathroom...
Now I want to wear rubber gloves all the time and never take them off
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Total lack of self respect for herself and respect for others! I want my husband too, but I would never jeopardize his privileges-our privileges. I would go crazy if I couldn't see him or talk to him...
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That is gross...we all have need but dang..Where i go this one chick got caught in the bathroom her man went in and the let 4 other dudes too....The bad part is two Cos sat there and watched the whole thing.
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That is gross...we all have need but dang..Where i go this one chick got caught in the bathroom her man went in and the let 4 other dudes too....The bad part is two Cos sat there and watched the whole thing.
Let FOUR OTHER DUDES DO WHUTT???? 4 other dudes have a go? Yea ok, maybe i dont even wana know.....
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That's horrid, especially at a min camp. If they get caught it will be visits gone, but perhaps additional time and maybe a shift to med, depending on how that DOC rolls. There would be no way. Stick to your guns it's not worth it for a little now when you can have the whole thing later.
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Well, The hormone were flying...lost in the moment...not thinking about getting caught and losing all privilages...some cannot think past the end of their nose
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That is terrible, I know me an Rhew always say .."nothing to risk visits!" We follow all the rules but I see so much of misconduct it is stressful at times. I dont understand how some ladies are allowed to sit next to their LO but I never attempt it. We are adults if we have to use some self control. Plus I agree with a previous poster, I would rather wait till my man is home.
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Gross. We all have needs but there's no need to act like animals in heat.

Even grosser: people who do that sh*t also grab the handles to the bathroom doors. And you bet they don't wash their hands _before_ stepping into the bathroom...
I agree I would hate to touch the handles! Thats exactly why in public I try not to touch the areas most touched!!! You just never know where someones hands have been! Obviously by that display, that is just "Yuk" how could you do that
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That is so disrespectful to themselves and everyone around them. Unfortunately some people just don't get it. Here they make you sit across from each other on hard chairs that are tied together and can't be moved. Your feet cannot touch you cannot lean forward towards each other, nothing. No kiss on the lips and in pictures the inmate (who in my case was my brother so I could care less but you get my point) had to keep his hands on the shoulders and visible.

They could put you all in danger of having that occur if caught
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I've seen a lot of stuff go down in the visitation room, honestly, as long as its not in front of children, I don't think its that big of a deal. It's their risk, their visits being lost...why pay attention to others in the visitation room anyway? I honestly would rather catch a glimpse of a guy grabbing his girlfriends chest than to hear about the women who bring drugs in through their private areas, and pass them off to the inmate who puts them in his private areas...and then make money off the drug addicts who are struggling in there. Do I condone the inmates having sex and ruining visits for everyone else? No...but a touch here or a feel there...isn't going to hurt anyone. They are in min. for a reason. but hey...thats just me.
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I had this very same thing happen to me back in March and there were kids present; in fact this couple had a little girl about 8-or-9 with them! It was damn near a pap smear; she had on a skirt underneath an overcoat and there was no doubt what so ever as to what they were doing. It pissed me off because my man could see way to much of this action so I reminded Big Poppa not to shake this guys hands EVER. I was so disgusted that I wanted to throw up or better yet beat them up My Honey Bunny would never stoop so low as to try this in a public place. It only takes one nasty horny a$$ couple to make things bad for the rest of us. I'm sorry you had to witness this...Marcia
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Do I condone the inmates having sex and ruining visits for everyone else? No...but a touch here or a feel there...isn't going to hurt anyone. They are in min. for a reason. but hey...thats just me.

I agree

Funny the ones that did all the B!tchin about the "touching" were the ones bringin in all the Drugs at the camp we were at.

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