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Old 08-28-2010, 03:17 PM
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Default HELP! Why am I Scared?/MWI's release is coming up

This is going to sound absolutely insane! But the reality of the man I love coming home in 168 days has hit me! And it's hit me HARD! I'm now all of a sudden Scared, more than scared I'm terrified! I can't explain why, I know I LOVE this man, and I want him Home, like yesterday! And no amount of fear is going to keep me from being with him!
Is it because I have no idea what he's like outside? Can anyone shed some light on why I'm feeling this way? Any words of inspiration? LOL!
I feel like I'm back in high school!
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Yep, its scary & exciting all at once! It also quite normal. Is he paroling to your home? My Mr & I are MWI, he paroled to my (now "our") house and it was hard on both of us at first. I'm not sure "hard" is the right word, let's just say: scary & exciting Coming Home from prison is chock-full of adjustments anyway, then you get to figure out and adjust to each others quirks. Be patient, take your time getting to know each other "out here" & give him his space--coming from prison there will be times he'll want to talk and there'll be times he's so quiet that you're just sure you've offended him. That's normal too. Relax & go with the flow.....it'll be fine
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Paroling is something we are discussing right now. We are of the opinion currently that since he has a job outside of the prison, he should stay where he's at and keep his job. So I would be going to him. He got some really confusing info today about paroling out in Ellsworth but he was told to speak to his supervisor at work who has been known to help inmates being released with gettin a place in town.
I would LOVE for him to come to me, but I don't have a place for him to come to.
Thanks Sooo Much Patchouli! I was really wondering if I was the only one out there! LOL! Feels good to know it's Normal..
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