i had a friend and he lied to me he was talking to other women and all that didn't want me to see him why he was having others come see him and when he got out he is back with his ex wife and totally used me so we all need to put stop to all of this it has been hard for me understanding all of this to be honest
sorry you had to go through that. you really need to know your guy if you are going to put your life on hold and stand by them while they do time. its too hard a thing to do for just anyone.
there are some signs that they arent on the up and up . lke not wanting you to visit or wanting you to do things for them that could get you in trouble. face it if they were all totaly honest they wouldnt be there.
YOU NEVER KNOW HOW STRONG YOU ARE UNTIL BEING STRONG IS THE ONLY CHOICE YOU HAVE
Hebrews 13:3 - Remember those in prison as if you were their fellow prisoners, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering.
Aww Bekita, I am so sorry to hear this. You have been there for him for a long time. BUT, please look at this in a positive light. You could be married to him and he did this. He could have moved in with you, got you pregnant and then left. It really could be worse. I am not trying to make light of your pain, but know one thing - you found out now and your damage is less than it could have been. The best thing is - you are free to find someone who will be good to you and you aren't still stuck with someone who lies to you.
You can't change other people, you can only change how you react to them
so sorry you are going through this. It is difficult when any relationship ends--especially with lies and betrayals. Just know that it means there is someone better out there for you ....oh yea and karma is a B*&^%