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He said he is the only one that he sees.
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Dunno, he never mentioned it.
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04-22-2009, 01:56 PM
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Is he the only one with a good woman where he is?
Is he the only one with a Woman riding HARD by his side?
Boo told me it aint too many dudes in there where he is with a woman at all. A few of them brag about chicks on the streets but they get no mail and no visits so he kinda doubts that talk.
He said dudes are always commenting about “Damm man you got a rider for real, your wifey is holding you down like no other!”
So tell me did he ever mention that he is the only one with a good woman holding him down or are there others with good women within his circle?
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It's crazy that you say this now because we were just talking about it. He said the same thing to me. He told me he feels so blessed to have me by his side. He said that so many men in there are stressing over what their girl is out here doing and he is so happy he don't have to worry about that, because he knows what he has with me.
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04-22-2009, 02:04 PM
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good to him,
Yes!!
My king gets that all the time  however Masha'Allah (god has willed it) I do stand hard and firm behind my man, I write to him send him what he needs and he only ask for what he needs, you know he has also had others tell him that I was only doing it because I felt sorry for him. but we know that they are just upset because they dont have a good women.
I tell my baby that I am here for him, no matter how long, we are true women in love with our Kings.
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actally my baby says the opposite he claims that these dudes are lames and most of the women are willing to ride with them but they just start using them . thats messed up. My husband knows Im a rider. He just says alot of guys arent that stand up and loyal anymore. they are just looking for a RIDE INSTEAD OF A RIDER
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He has said there are a few but very few that have been there as long as I have... the guys always ask him what I am up to now.... they just shake their heads when he tells them...
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Sometimes it really seems that way..... he has friends and assosiates in there who never get any mail or visits from their so called girlfriends.... and then of course the ones who see that my man gets mails and visits on a regular by me hate on him alot... saying things like "she probably out there with jody" or "you think u have a good girl but they are ALL sneaky , trust me man" .. but he knows what he has....to make a long story short our men are VERY lucky to have us by there sides... because there are many men on the inside with no one to help them or hold them down at all
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He comments on how the men treat their women using them for money and calling them bytches n hoes behind scenes. He thinks that is very disrespectful to a woman who loves you and is here for you.
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wow this is crazy, because me and my fiance speak about this all the time, and just last week I asked him baby told me there are a few that get mail, but they do not get mail like him. I cannot visit alot because of my job. I am a Registered Nurse I have 2 jobs, but I hold him firm on everything else. Baby knows that I take care of him on all aspects. With me it is automatic. There are so many men in there wished they had what our men have. That is loyalty,devotion,respect and value the relationship. I sometimes feel very sad for men who do not have someone in there corner.My baby will be home in July and I am so excited.What we share is true love, by the way there are alot of men that tell my man, your lucky. Baby states no I am blessed, we are true to each other.
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weve never really talked about this too much but I can tell you I see the same people visiting there men so there are a few good women like us out there.
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My husband said that 3 out of 50 guys had someone there - to the end - mail, visits, calls etc.. Then tack on another 10 that had women there but he would shake his head wondering why they were staying. He said he would be talking to me and the guy beside him would be saying things like "I told you to get that money in my account bitch." He said it was horrible to hear guys do that and more horrible to think that someone was putting up with that.
I was known for never missing my weekend visits when he was close. I was just expected at visiting. I remember being sick as a dog and showing up there and the front guard mentioned how sick I looked but how he wasn't surprised to see me.
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04-22-2009, 03:09 PM
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my husband and i tend to talk about us and the kids mostly so he has never really said i will ask him tho i know there is a fried of his there who is a guy local to whose wife and mother is hanging in there hard with him ,too.
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I just went to go see my boo this Saturday and that conversation came up! He actually almost cried telling me that i meant the world to him and that he was so happy to have met me.. But instead of guy's telling him negative stuff about me. they are actually happy for him.. But No Matter What I'm Always gonna Be here For Him Im His Queen And He's My King!! I'm gonna be here til the wheels fall off. 
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My man tells me stuff like that all the time.How can you just stop loving someone.He says it's really sad.I have gone out of my way for an inmate friend of his and sent him divorce papers because no one wanted to get involved!His own FAMILY!! I believe everyone needs someone no matter what.
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dang it babi...why u gots to start "hard thinking hat on" thread...gee...now in few mins i gots to go to work...now my mind will be on him...lol...as always,
btw, i chosed dunno, he never mentioned it, b/c i chose to believe he knows that I'm that RIDER...
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I've never asked and we've never talked about what others have said. He does say a lot of dudes aint got no one, not even family. That's really sad.
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