to marry or not?

Meia · #1 08-28-2002, 04:59 PM

I need some help.Me and Zell plan to marry sometime soon..But the only problem is I dont like one of his sisters and one don't care for me actually the one who does not care for me tried to hook him back up with his x-girlfriedn.Should I let that stand in the way?

KRIS_NC · #2 08-28-2002, 07:32 PM

NO I WOULD NOT LET THAT STAND IN YOUR WAY.WE DECIDED OUR LOVE WAS WORTH FIGHTING FOR AND NOTHING OR NOONE WAS GONNA STAND IN OUR WAY OR COME BETWEEN US.GOOD LUCK

horsegal · #3 08-28-2002, 07:43 PM

NO WAY! Does your fiance know that his sister is pulling this crap? But I wouldn't let anyone stand in your way. I don't get along very well with one of my fiance's sisters either so I know that feeling. But you marry your man!! To hell with everyone else.

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freedom anjel · #4 08-28-2002, 07:58 PM

Follow your heart, especially if it is true and you have God's direction. You certainly can't let another human being get in the way. It's between you, your fiance and God. No one else has a say in it. Here's to the bride and groom! May what God has joined togther, let no man put asunder.

michelle · #5 08-28-2002, 08:11 PM

NO WAY!!!! Don't let anyone stand in your way if you really love your man. If you truly love him and he truly loves you nothing will come between the both of you becoming husband and wife, not even his sister!!!!

yanigirl · #6 08-29-2002, 06:34 AM

If I were you no way would I let anyone come between me and my man and the love that we have for eachother.Life is too short so you two do what will bring you happiness.There is always one family member who has to make it tough but don't let her scare you away. Stick with your man and eventually she will have to give you respect. Why punish your man because of his sister's views. She too has a right to her opinion. Unfortunately her's just doesn't matter.

Lyndsey · #7 08-29-2002, 12:17 PM

If there is one leeson that I have learned having a loved on who is in prison....you must follow your own heart and not worry what other people are thinking and saying. If you two love each other and want to be married then go for it and do not let anyone stand in your way!

Shortie · #8 08-30-2002, 09:38 PM

you need to search your heart on this one. No one can answer it for you.. You need to do what is best for you. I would talk with him and tell him how you feel and go from there. If you are not comfortable talking to him that may be a sign that you are not ready.. If you are then talk to him and then decide. I know I did not say yes or no but only you can decide that and you need to do some soul searching and you will have your answer...

Meia · #9 09-01-2002, 03:34 AM

Thank you to all that gave your opion. I do truly love my man with all my heart and after talking to him .I say to hell with the sister.You guys gave the same opion as him. I can't let her or any other person come between what we have been building for the past 10 years.So thanks to all.I check here often so any more view's are certanily welcome..Ms.Sims(thats his last name

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jbmccormick · #10 09-01-2002, 10:53 PM

Hey!

This is NOT a fair question! LOL..... hhmmmm I have NO interest in marrying any man! LOL

Ok, if I read it in the SPIRIT it was intended, then I would say that I would in fact marry the WOMAN I love and that is providing SHE agrees it is in our best interest.

Jim

TONYGIRL · #11 09-01-2002, 11:45 PM

First off, like I was told. Who are you marrying him or the family? I married my husband and my one sister in law did not like me in the beginning, but now since I have been married to him for 4 1/2 years. She can call on me at anytime to help her with anything. I pick up my nieces and nephews for the weekends etc. I let her use my car recently. You can not let what other people say or do effect you love for your man. If I would have done that, I would not be in writing you this. Let you heart guide you, because it will guide you right. I am not close with his other step sisters but they are close with his ex girlfriend. But what is important is the family you and him are going to start together. Go ahead and jump the broom.