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Old 04-18-2008, 01:31 PM
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I am about to pull my hair out and everyone else's around me. I need some advice.

I send my man books once in a while thru Books a Million. He will read them and then mail them back to me. I got one this week and it had a picture of a half nude woman in it. It was from Maxium(?) and it appeared to be a book mark. I was so pissed. I mailed it back to him, although he hasn't gotten it yet.

I don't care what kind of crap he looks at in there, but I sure as h%$# don't want him sending it to me. Am I wrong? I feel like I have been slapped in the face.
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Old 04-18-2008, 01:53 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it especially if the girl is from a magazine.

I would be pissed as hell if my man sent me something like that tho too.

He asked me the other day to send him pictures of "ladies" so he can draw them... when he said this i said "WHAT?"... and he was like "oh nothing.." not cool. Im jealous
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Thanks Alfredo's lady. I wasn't sure if it was just me being in one of my moods. I am jealous too and it pisses me off that he sent that.

He always wants me to send him sexy pictures of me. Why should I? Seems to me he already has what he needs.

You said your guy asked for pictures. Does he tattoo? Maybe that's what he wants them for. Mine does tats and is covered from head to toe with them. The ones on his arms he did himself and they are all naked women. I can't say anything to him about them, they were there first. He did tell me one time that he would put clothes on them if I wanted him to. I told him no, it would ruin them.

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awww, your cute.

Yeah, i think they are for tattoos.. because he wants "lowrider" type drawings and stuff.. I get really jealous... but i think im pretty and i know he thinks im gorgeous so i try not and worry about it to much.

Anyways, the half naked flawless girls in the magazines... well my man wouldn't be able to get with them anyways so he can keep dreaming!
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I think you're over reacting. It's no big deal if a man wants to look at pictures of women in a magazine. If it's a personal picture of another female then that's a different matter! It's not like he'll ever meet her or anything and im sure we've all checked out a handsome man in the past ourselves. Men are visual more so than women (apparantly)

Dont take my opinion as being rude or offensive, but they dont have much in there and if it brightens up their days, I have no problem with it. Hell, if I could send my man hardcore porn, I would!
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oy va!!! i would be pissed to but consider where he is. he cant touch anyone. you belong to him. like JLo in "El Cantante" mark anthony was watching a big booty girl (iris chacon) and he was tellijng her to move so he can see her @$$. hert response was this @$$ is yours this @$$ you can have. you cant touch her's this one is yours. LOL!!

i understand but dont be too hard on him.
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awwww! sweetie theres no need to be jealous of the magazine girls. If he knew how you felt about it i'm sure he wouldnt have sent it in the book. Did he even remember leaving it in there? Your making yourself mad for nothing.
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overreaction. if it's just jealousy then you should be glad he sent it to you and didn't keep it for himself!
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overreaction. if it's just jealousy then you should be glad he sent it to you and didn't keep it for himself!
Agreed. HUGE OVERREACTION. My man sends his naked chicks home to me all the time. At least they're coming home and not staying there. Plus its much better he's looking at naked chicks than naked men
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I think once U really allow this to set in a lil more U will see that this is really No biggie whatsoever.
Now sure I realize it was naturally unexpected & shocking right at first as obviously it stung your head & heart a bit as a result of having to see that, But it is actually very typical & extremely healthy & normal in my personal opinion that these men do these sort of lil things inside. & may I make a idea/suggestion here that I myself once did & that is I sent My then BF/now Ex a few pics that I cropped into bookmark sized ones, so that he could have a pic of ME to glance at while he was reading.
By the way Just be grateful it was just a magazine pic VS a REAL pic of a naked or half naked chick. as that would of course be something to then be more understandbly upset over....

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Thanks to all of you for your support. I know it's typical for him to have pictures like that, I just don't want to get them in the mail. Love me 4ever said it perfectly..... it stung my head and my heart. It's still stinging and won't go away. Maybe I should end this relationship. There's to much pain involved.
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I don't think if a magazine picture would bother me, but if it were a real picture, that's a different story, lol. I would be in prison too.
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It wouldnt bother me at all...I know my man looks at any magazine he can get his hands on...men are visual...Id rather he was looking at the magazine than a CO.
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I think you might have overreacted just a tad...It's a mag girl...now if it was a real WOMAN then girl RING THAT ALARM....I wouldn't worry about it too much!!!
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imo, i wouldnt care... they are just magazines, like others said, if it was an actual picture of some chick i would loop it! i understand where your coming from about not wanting it being sent home, although i wouldnt care, i can see where it could bother someone. im sure he didnt do it on purpose and just forgot it in the book, so try not to jump the gun yet.
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I wouldn't care, in fact if the chick was really hot i probably would have pinned it to my fridge or somethin'...LOL
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just from what i understand, i don't think he was sending it directly to you. but you should feel good that it didn't mean so much to him to keep it. obviously it wasn't that big of a deal for him to keep it and it was sent to you accidently. right?
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I mailed it back to him, although he hasn't gotten it yet.

I don't care what kind of crap he looks at in there, but I sure as h%$# don't want him sending it to me. Am I wrong? I feel like I have been slapped in the face.
i know that it would've bothered me, and that's only because i've turned into somewhat of a jealous freak! really tho, i recognize my jealousy is MY issue, and i try my hardest not to displace my insecurities on him. if anything, just let him know how mindless he was for sending you that stuff, that's about the only thing that you can hold against him, right? he didn't do it on purpose, and like some of the other posters said, if it would've been a REAL woman, then it would've been another story!
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little bit overreaction, but I would act the same!

its just a pic from a magazine, not a real woman in his life!
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Thanks to all of you for your support. I know it's typical for him to have pictures like that, I just don't want to get them in the mail. Love me 4ever said it perfectly..... it stung my head and my heart. It's still stinging and won't go away. Maybe I should end this relationship. There's to much pain involved.
Unless I missed something else if a picture of another woman that is from a magazine and not real is worth giving up the relationship for then it might be the best for you.

However you said yourself it looked like he had used it for a book mark. could be true and he just happened to forget he had it in the book.

you have never been walking and pass a nice looking man and say to yourself "he is nice looking"

That stuff is natural. if your jealous of a magazine pisture then your relationship may not just last with jealousy being that strong. jealousy can eat up a relationship.
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Suggestion dear- -one, he just might have made a mistake and sent it to you by mistake, and two, if I were you- -I would write back and simple say, "aren't you glad that I am much better than the picture?"
End of situation.
Men on the inside NEED pictures, some don't have a imagination and truthfully, one can trade those pictures (they aren't supposed to though) for some soups.
Honey, it's prison- -all he sees are over weight female officers, or old ones, and I mean OLD,(like me) or men. Thank heavens he is still looking at females- -but send that one liner i wrote, it will make his day, plus you'll sit back and smile!
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I am about to pull my hair out and everyone else's around me. I need some advice.

I send my man books once in a while thru Books a Million. He will read them and then mail them back to me. I got one this week and it had a picture of a half nude woman in it. It was from Maxium(?) and it appeared to be a book mark. I was so pissed. I mailed it back to him, although he hasn't gotten it yet.

I don't care what kind of crap he looks at in there, but I sure as h%$# don't want him sending it to me. Am I wrong? I feel like I have been slapped in the face.
He probably forgot it was there and honestly, personally, I don't have a problem with the whole porn/sex mag things. In fact, I am the one who ordered my hubby's subscriptions. The women in those mags are airbrushed etc, they are not even real ... it's just something for him to do ... I know mine looks at the pics and thinks of me (sorts!LOL) and thinks of me doing the stuff.... well, you know what I am trying to say - I thnk! I am tired an getting late and just rambling now!''

in other words - DOn't Worry About IT!!!!
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Suggestion dear- -one, he just might have made a mistake and sent it to you by mistake, and two, if I were you- -I would write back and simple say, "aren't you glad that I am much better than the picture?"
End of situation.
Men on the inside NEED pictures, some don't have a imagination and truthfully, one can trade those pictures (they aren't supposed to though) for some soups.
Honey, it's prison- -all he sees are over weight female officers, or old ones, and I mean OLD,(like me) or men. Thank heavens he is still looking at females- -but send that one liner i wrote, it will make his day, plus you'll sit back and smile!
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As long as you have his heart , that's all it matters . It was a magazine picture not a photo of a nude or half a** nake girl . Like smallngood mentioned , these guys inthere don't have much and only can fantasize about women , there are not that many women working in male prisons [ and I can hear some ladies say " thank god " ] and beside they wear that uh gray uniform and most of the time they wear them blue smoks . My sweetie ask me for some sexy pictures but sorry I won't send them because like someone else mentioned in here , they will pass them around , not meaning any harm , but just to show off their better half .
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I don't think if a magazine picture would bother me, but if it were a real picture, that's a different story, lol. I would be in prison too.

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