Do you really think your man has/will sleep with a CO?

[Daniel,i love u]

i am reading these forums and wondering why like so many are SAYING about being worried if or MAYBE their man hubbie fiance' boyfriend etc will maybe "HAVE SEX"or DO THINGS WITH A C/O as i know my sister NEVER will risk her family and health and job/career for some quick NOOKIE.lol she use to always say this, no way and she seen REALLY good lookin guys there.

my sis alway say"women with MORALS/GOOD HYGIENE Who FOCUS in life and about something and who is positive will NOT do that to other women men.as they WOULD NEVER want it to be done unto them.....

(((my sister been a C.O. now for years in 1st virginia)))
then in nys upsate for years over there
then here in nj until she got married and moved to N.C.
where she is a corrections officer.

just remember A FEW things when u r wondering this chicas ok?


#1.TRUST & FAITH About your FUTURE with your man and REAL LOVE WILL MAKE a man turn her away same
as ON THE STREET.
"nah, i'm good and i am not tryin to hurt what i have already back HOME waitin for me, i can WAIT"i pass peace out.....
my SIS witnesses this as PLENTY of guys actually BRAG on just WAITIN TO USE FONE to call their ladies!& Mail.

#2. it rarely happens i hear since i was a teen from my older sister
(21 years under her belt)as a C.O.


#3. your man IF REALLY IN LOVE/NOT LOVE U BUT If he is IN LOVE with
you his dream woman/soulmate then he is NEVER goin to entertain the
thought of this cheating proposal EVEN if 1 DID approach him.


#4.. Most of the CO's have HAPPY families good lookin man or a MAN or woman OUTSIDE,so trust me when i say they are REALLY not lookin at ya man like that. not at all,they get jealous sometimes seeing how much the mail comin in and fones etc with SOME inmates so they MIGHT try to flirt,try to discourage the inmate,SEE IF he FALL for it,but they rarely do fall...

*my sister always witness this alot so dont get discouraged ladies as it does NOT HAPPEN like you might here at all at least not what i hear for years now.....

so have a great night just wanted to share this with you DOUBTERS and i see MANY over here and hope this helps!

god speed to you and your loved one inside. and just stay positive no matter HOW HARD it might get alright? not all these men are doing negative in there as some DO have WILL POWER/ARE REAL MEN,and real
men do NOT CHEAT WHETHER HE IN PRISON Or out, no matter HOW TEMPTED it is as most are not even thinking about that i hear as MOST are FOCUS on their GOOD WOMAN they already have at home BEING THERE FOR HIM. and who they are coming HOME TO,that is their MAIN FOCUS MY SISTER Always say.

so just stay focus ladies DONT let this get to you as it do not happen as much as some of you guys may think and just keep focused on ya man as i do and YOUR LIFE you will have again together once he come home stay BLESS/FEEL GOOD/SMILE knowing that you have"O.O.T.G.O."
(one of the GOOD ones)as not all inmates cheat and ESPECIALLY sleep with correction officers as know mi papi bello daniel dont as he KNOW what he has and would not risk losing it for nothing on earth as NO REAL MAN Would as you KNOW you have a REAL man by how he is TREATING you ladies....(and yes even from BEHIND Prison walls)

good night and cuidate ahora chicas....(take care now)
huggs.

[myhusbandswifey]

No, I don't worry about my husband stepping out like that. He has too much respect for me and our marriage. as far as the C.O.'s I know if it was me, I would not risk my career and family for a man. Any self respecting man/woman period would not do it.

[Face2Face]

Originally Posted by Daniel,i love u

i am reading these forums and wondering why like so many are SAYING about being worried if or MAYBE their man hubbie fiance' boyfriend etc will maybe "HAVE SEX"or DO THINGS WITH A C/O as i know my sister NEVER will risk her family and health and job/career for some quick NOOKIE.lol she use to always say this, no way and she seen REALLY good lookin guys there.

my sis alway say"women with MORALS/GOOD HYGIENE Who FOCUS in life and about something and who is positive will NOT do that to other women men.as they WOULD NEVER want it to be done unto them.....

(((my sister been a C.O. now for years in 1st virginia)))
then in nys upsate for years over there
then here in nj until she got married and moved to N.C.
where she is a corrections officer.

just remember A FEW things when u r wondering this chicas ok?


#1.TRUST & FAITH About your FUTURE with your man and REAL LOVE WILL MAKE a man turn her away same
as ON THE STREET.
"nah, i'm good and i am not tryin to hurt what i have already back HOME waitin for me, i can WAIT"i pass peace out.....
my SIS witnesses this as PLENTY of guys actually BRAG on just WAITIN TO USE FONE to call their ladies!& Mail.

#2. it rarely happens i hear since i was a teen from my older sister
(21 years under her belt)as a C.O.


#3. your man IF REALLY IN LOVE/NOT LOVE U BUT If he is IN LOVE with
you his dream woman/soulmate then he is NEVER goin to entertain the
thought of this cheating proposal EVEN if 1 DID approach him.


#4.. Most of the CO's have HAPPY families good lookin man or a MAN or woman OUTSIDE,so trust me when i say they are REALLY not lookin at ya man like that. not at all,they get jealous sometimes seeing how much the mail comin in and fones etc with SOME inmates so they MIGHT try to flirt,try to discourage the inmate,SEE IF he FALL for it,but they rarely do fall...

*my sister always witness this alot so dont get discouraged ladies as it does NOT HAPPEN like you might here at all at least not what i hear for years now.....

so have a great night just wanted to share this with you DOUBTERS and i see MANY over here and hope this helps!

god speed to you and your loved one inside. and just stay positive no matter HOW HARD it might get alright? not all these men are doing negative in there as some DO have WILL POWER/ARE REAL MEN,and real
men do NOT CHEAT WHETHER HE IN PRISON Or out, no matter HOW TEMPTED it is as most are not even thinking about that i hear as MOST are FOCUS on their GOOD WOMAN they already have at home BEING THERE FOR HIM. and who they are coming HOME TO,that is their MAIN FOCUS MY SISTER Always say.

so just stay focus ladies DONT let this get to you as it do not happen as much as some of you guys may think and just keep focused on ya man as i do and YOUR LIFE you will have again together once he come home stay BLESS/FEEL GOOD/SMILE knowing that you have"O.O.T.G.O."
(one of the GOOD ones)as not all inmates cheat and ESPECIALLY sleep with correction officers as know mi papi bello daniel dont as he KNOW what he has and would not risk losing it for nothing on earth as NO REAL MAN Would as you KNOW you have a REAL man by how he is TREATING you ladies....(and yes even from BEHIND Prison walls)

good night and cuidate ahora chicas....(take care now)
huggs.

Girl....you couldn't have said it better....

MrsFace

[Daniel,i love u]

thnx ms face and all who read this so far. i just feel after lookin around this was a good time to write all this for all doubters/worriers as i call them as i know first hand from family heard all the CO havin sex with inmate "stories"and i know it dont happen like "some"might claim.
trust and faith is key, i was in a abusive relation glad to be out of it now with mi daniel in my signat,and i will continue to
believe he is faithful loyal IN and OUT of prison. no worries here not when you have REAL love to look forward to when he is out

just stay focus positive and all will be alright.they cant BREAK what is not broken........

[Face2Face]

that is real talk.......

My honey comes home soon too....June 2007 and our last family visit is this weekend...CHOW!!!!

Face

[e_wife03]

I agree, that we shouldnt be worrying about this, many let these thoughts haunt them during their day and even in their dreams. The basis of any relationship other than communication is trust, saying you trust them and actually trust them is a big difference. If you feel that you have to constantly question your loved ones actions you should think about whether this is the right person for you or not. Cause for me if there is no trust there is no relationship.

[Daniel,i love u]

Originally Posted by Face2Face

that is real talk.......

My honey comes home soon too....June 2007 and our last family visit is this weekend...CHOW!!!!

Face

oh now dats wassup! as mi papi daniel would say!
good for u two now you can really start your fireworks early for the fourth
of july chica.good for u!
and mine only has less then 1 year yay! for me and even if not i would not even worry about them co's pushin up on him, i have too much faith and trust in what we have and will CONTINUE to have.

(E' WIFE) hi. good post there.i love your reply thank you..... because i c a m,very good post.nice to meet you
tonight hola.

[Patty]

This was never a concern of mine but I hear ya loud and clear, I do however take exception to the notion of "health risk" as this is something one should consider with any sexual partner in or out of prison. Testing for STD's is the norm at prisons in the state I live in as well as many others which is much more than you can say for those where incarceration is not a factor. STD's are so often passed along by those who do not have symptoms or recognize them and yeah some who do not care. I only mean to say that we should respect our health, period, but let's not put that off on others JUST because they happen to be incarcerated. Okay climbing down off my soapbox...

Patty

[Face2Face]

Originally Posted by Daniel,i love u

oh now dats wassup! as mi papi daniel would say!
good for u two now you can really start your fireworks early for the fourth
of july chica.good for u!
and mine only has less then 1 year yay! for me and even if not i would not even worry about them co's pushin up on him, i have too much faith and trust in what we have and will CONTINUE to have.

(E' WIFE) hi. good post there.i love your reply thank you..... because i c a m,very good post.nice to meet you
tonight hola.

Hehehehe...sounds like what my husband would say
Oh Yeah it's gonna be a whole lot of fireworks...even this weekend up in Solano...its on!!! We actually met on the Fourth of July 2004...now dats wassup!

Hey I like you girl...lots of Love, Peace, Joy and Happiness to you and yours.........

Face

[yasha]

Thank you... good to know all of this

[Daniel,i love u]

Originally Posted by HotLatinaMILF4U

This was never a concern of mine but I hear ya loud and clear, I do however take exception to the notion of "health risk" as this is something one should consider with any sexual partner in or out of prison. Testing for STD's is the norm at prisons in the state I live in as well as many others which is much more than you can say for those where incarceration is not a factor. STD's are so often passed along by those who do not have symptoms or recognize them and yeah some who do not care. I only mean to say that we should respect our health, period, but let's not put that off on others JUST because they happen to be incarcerated. Okay climbing down off my soapbox...

Patty

wow another great post i couldnt agree more hot milf latina.
great post.((clapping!))))
i just hope that MORE women take key to this and my thread as i know
i see MANY here who have doubts ya know as i have no worries about
mi pa daniel behind bars with anyone.thnx for this post.so true...
thank you for replying.

[Daniel,i love u]

Originally Posted by Face2Face

Hehehehe...sounds like what my husband would say
Oh Yeah it's gonna be a whole lot of fireworks...even this weekend up in Solano...its on!!! We actually met on the Fourth of July 2004...now dats wassup!

Hey I like you girl...lots of Love, Peace, Joy and Happiness to you and yours.........

Face

ahy ha haha!!!!! i guess i met a NEW CALI friend, west side! lmfao winkz! and

DIOS MIO Mami, u met him ON THE FOURTH, now dat IS
WASSUP GIRL. lmfao winkz! and i got ur pm i m gettin back soon was just
readin more threads. i know your so lucky but around 10 mos or less now
mi pa will be home too.i can wait. we are ALMOST there.AND I REFUSE
To be NEGATIVE when he is inside from negative rumours or things said
about co sex with OUR MAN,wrong.they are OUR men and i do believe
as my sister say IF you have that STRONG BOND trust faith in WHAT YOU HAVE and he KNOWS JUST WHAT HE CAN HAVE AND HAS WITH U WOMEN that no cold prison walls or THE STREET life out here he is living will NOT make him stray...... he KNOWS what and WHO HE IS COMIN HOME TO SO"WHY GIVE INTO TEMPTATION"that will or CAN make
him lose u forever. not worth it,well not to the REAL PAPI'S,THOSE REAL MEN ANYHOW......So stay strong ladies.....

and thnx for this post again face and i will answer my pm's soon!
gracias. nightie night chicas, stay FOCUS.

[MrsPhil]

Originally Posted by Daniel,i love u

i am reading these forums and wondering why like so many are SAYING about being worried if or MAYBE their man hubbie fiance' boyfriend etc will maybe "HAVE SEX"or DO THINGS WITH A C/O as i know my sister NEVER will risk her family and health and job/career for some quick NOOKIE.lol she use to always say this, no way and she seen REALLY good lookin guys there.

my sis alway say"women with MORALS/GOOD HYGIENE Who FOCUS in life and about something and who is positive will NOT do that to other women men.as they WOULD NEVER want it to be done unto them.....

(((my sister been a C.O. now for years in 1st virginia)))
then in nys upsate for years over there
then here in nj until she got married and moved to N.C.
where she is a corrections officer.

just remember A FEW things when u r wondering this chicas ok?


#1.TRUST & FAITH About your FUTURE with your man and REAL LOVE WILL MAKE a man turn her away same
as ON THE STREET.
"nah, i'm good and i am not tryin to hurt what i have already back HOME waitin for me, i can WAIT"i pass peace out.....
my SIS witnesses this as PLENTY of guys actually BRAG on just WAITIN TO USE FONE to call their ladies!& Mail.

#2. it rarely happens i hear since i was a teen from my older sister
(21 years under her belt)as a C.O.


#3. your man IF REALLY IN LOVE/NOT LOVE U BUT If he is IN LOVE with
you his dream woman/soulmate then he is NEVER goin to entertain the
thought of this cheating proposal EVEN if 1 DID approach him.


#4.. Most of the CO's have HAPPY families good lookin man or a MAN or woman OUTSIDE,so trust me when i say they are REALLY not lookin at ya man like that. not at all,they get jealous sometimes seeing how much the mail comin in and fones etc with SOME inmates so they MIGHT try to flirt,try to discourage the inmate,SEE IF he FALL for it,but they rarely do fall...

*my sister always witness this alot so dont get discouraged ladies as it does NOT HAPPEN like you might here at all at least not what i hear for years now.....

so have a great night just wanted to share this with you DOUBTERS and i see MANY over here and hope this helps!

god speed to you and your loved one inside. and just stay positive no matter HOW HARD it might get alright? not all these men are doing negative in there as some DO have WILL POWER/ARE REAL MEN,and real
men do NOT CHEAT WHETHER HE IN PRISON Or out, no matter HOW TEMPTED it is as most are not even thinking about that i hear as MOST are FOCUS on their GOOD WOMAN they already have at home BEING THERE FOR HIM. and who they are coming HOME TO,that is their MAIN FOCUS MY SISTER Always say.

so just stay focus ladies DONT let this get to you as it do not happen as much as some of you guys may think and just keep focused on ya man as i do and YOUR LIFE you will have again together once he come home stay BLESS/FEEL GOOD/SMILE knowing that you have"O.O.T.G.O."
(one of the GOOD ones)as not all inmates cheat and ESPECIALLY sleep with correction officers as know mi papi bello daniel dont as he KNOW what he has and would not risk losing it for nothing on earth as NO REAL MAN Would as you KNOW you have a REAL man by how he is TREATING you ladies....(and yes even from BEHIND Prison walls)

good night and cuidate ahora chicas....(take care now)
huggs.

Hey girl! It's MrsPhil! You know I love your posts!! This is the one thing I NEVER worry about. No offense to your sister and I know you won't take any but MrPhil has nothing but the lowest opinions of women who want to work in a men's prison! Another great thread!

[lmonet]

I know for a fact that a inmate is sleeping with a guard / somebody that works in there I not for sure what she is but she works in there. But it's not my man it's my cousin

[bobbi992003]

I don't worry about my husband cheating on me with a CO. He loves and respects me and our marriage to much to cheat on me.