pregnant, It's a girl!!! I want to call her Salem

[smokinjaye]

Hi everyone,
I am six months pregnant with my first girl and I am due just before Chrismas. I am worried that my fiance won't be with me in the labor room. I have a son that is almost 20 years old and his girlfried is also pregnant and due about the same time. He wants me to come there where they live and have the baby there, so I'm not alone. He's so sweet. But I don't really want to leave my honey either. I don't know what to do, I feel pretty much alone and scared to have to do this without him. Actually, I'm scared to tell him that I'm pregnant AGAIN!! Please, does anyone know what I should do or where I should start?

[deb]

Congrats! Salem is a pretty name. As far as your decision of where to have the baby, I'd reflect on pros and cons of each.... and if it were me I'd just tell my hubby asap...

Deb

[smokinjaye]

Thanks Debbie
You're right, I'm just so afraid that he might not want a baby now although he thought that last time I was pregnant I was going to have it. We don't talk about having kids. We've only bee seeing each other for about 6 months before he was arrested. But your right about telling him asap. only two people i know I've told. I'm not showing that much yet. I need to weigh out the pros and cons too. Thanks for the advice Deb.
smokinjaye

[laydee_vet]

You definitely should tell him before you have your first conjugal!

[PinkPoison<3]

i know where you can start., you can start by not calling your girl salem, she might get teased for it , ..it IS a pretty name but not worthy for a girl maybe a boy? i used to watch sabrina the teenage witch, ..the talking cat was named salem, i strangely picture your child talking like that cat.
why would you be afraid to tell your man your preggers? it should be a rejoiceful event, not a scared frightened one, and nobody should go through life or anything alone, we would be less human if we did, ..and alot of people sadly are alone and have done things alone and not by choice, ..if you are afraid to tell someone (your husband) your pregnant, ..perhaps counceling is a option, i would go and be with people who will help and that will celebrate with you

[timsbaby41]

congratulations !!! as for the name salem I LOVE IT

[wendy tyler]

Ladies the original thread was dated 2003! Salem must be in kingergarten by now!

[G.Leyva]

I am gald you said that. Here I was all ready to give my