I was just wondering how people get away with having sex in the visiting room!!! When I used to visit SVSP. There was one couple always having sex How is it that the CO's did not notice this ??? They have camera's and everything and no one noticed!!!
Yes...i've seen sum stuff too...& I tell my babe! Hey that's no fair I want some too! lol ) & he says Babe! Stop looking & remember its not worth us loosing our priviledges to see eachother..& yeah I wouldnt want to risk it...I love him too much to mess anything up...
There was a couple behind the pole and my husband and I were sitting behind them. I was facing them and I told him omg DONT turn around they are having sex. She was sitting on top her back facing his face. They were in their own world no one was sitting on the side of them but it was horrid...
Imagine the c.o. coming up to the people and telling them something.
When I went up 3 weeks ago we had the whole visit room to ourselves and the 2 c.o.'s were so cool they left the room but we didnt go as far as doing something.
My husband just asked him what was in the closet and the c.o. said brooms and he said she wants to do a cleaning and we all started to laugh.
I always wondered how people got away with doing "freaky" things also...it's so tempting, but i'm so paranoid and scared, and neither one of us want to lose our visiting privileges either...i'm always getting in trouble for sitting too close to him...let alone if i try and touch anything else besides his hands
I know who you are talking about at SVSP and they were GOOD, I mean real good, they had it down. There were times that I knew they were doing something but you couldn't really tell. SVSP was the easiest place to get away with that kind of stuff, you just had to have someone watch out for you. They had the cameras on but on our yard they only had it on certain people and they usually had it pointed to a wall or the soda machines, like you were really going to catch them there.
Maybe the co knows but just doesn't care. Personally I can't get it on with tons of people around me. Even if we can get away with it, I would not do that. That's just me. I'm happy for now with the hugs and kisses I get.
Im with you also mrsdragon. Sex is not that important right now, and i am not losing my visits for nothing. That quickie...could lead your man in the hole and you with anything. Someone got in trouble at my husband unit, and guess what...they took hugging and kissing away for two months. So everyone had to pay the consequences of someone getting a quick thrill. So i don't know how they do it, and don't want to know.~~~Brandi
I see this alot and I cant stand it as they are not shy about it either!!!
Lots of people get banned for it but it still goes on as they turn a blind eye to some. What I cant stand is there are kids around when they are doing this!!! My mum has been with us on visits while this is going on and it is horrible. Also how hard is it to try and talk and have that going on in the background.
I never want to be degraded like that and would hate for my partner to try that and he wouldn't even try it!!! Thats private for us, doesn't matter how much we want it we can wait.
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Just the idea that an any given moment, people could be doing anything from thinking Eeeeew, they're doing it in public, to saying it outloud, to coming over to break it up and drag on of us away in handcuffs- that's enough to kill the whole concept for me/us, altho we did once speak wistfully of if we could just get a few minutes in the restroom...
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i can't see how they have sex...with people around and camera's.....no one notices the expressions or hear the noses.....where r the co's!!!!! at my husbands unit thats just impossible!!!!!!! well i shouldn't say impossible cause im sure it happens but i just don't see how they would be able to pull it off!!!!! besides since i have not been with my husband intimately yet....a quick fix will never do!!!!!!
it isnt that the co's don't know its they don't care. Sometimes they accept bribes. Lots of these prisons are corrupt as hell. A couple of years ago I know at Stateville people always had sex in the bathrooms and nobody cared. Lots of females were getting pregenet while their man was locked up.
I've seen people have oral sex while visiting before. And there's even rumors about things like a "50 dollar holla" where you slip the co 50 dollars and they'll let you go in the bathroom with your man. I don't know how true that is, but at this point nothing would surpise me.