The 3 closes to Tulsa would be Jess Dunn, Vinita, Minimun side at Connors. Boley isn't that far away or Jackie B. To say which is the best depends on where you are coming from. I've heard good and bad about each of them.
I gotta agree with Doc here, there's good and bad in all of them depending on who you ask. I have a friend in Jess Dunn which is in Taft (near Haskell) and he says it's all right there. No matter where you're sent, you'll find your way just like all of our loved ones have. They place you wherever there's a free bed, but I'll be hoping you get to one near Tulsa.