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View Poll Results: Do you get conjugal visits?
Yes. 212 8.59%
No, but we will soon. 278 11.26%
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Old 10-13-2005, 12:08 PM
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Talking Conjugal Prison Visits (do you get them?)

I'm just wondering how many of you get conjugal visits. My man is in jail, so he can't get them, but even if he were in prison, Florida doesn't allow them. I'm just curious to know what conjugal visits are like. Do they pat you down and stuff before letting you in? Is a guard standing by the door?
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Old 10-13-2005, 12:21 PM
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Old 10-13-2005, 01:44 PM
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waiting patiently for them, it is a great undertaking in NYS, but worth every bit of it, fir when I finally get the chance to have him to myslef without the watchful eye...and well of course, the obvious.
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Old 10-13-2005, 01:47 PM
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Texas doesn't have them - we just have to write about it and dream about it! I guess I would rather wait and enjoy each other at home, though, since we only have 16 months left. If we were at the beginning of the 22 years, that would be different!
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Old 10-13-2005, 02:06 PM
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Same here no Conjugal visits in texas
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Old 10-13-2005, 02:09 PM
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No conjugal visits here, but trust me it was one of the first things I checked on!
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Old 10-13-2005, 02:56 PM
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They do have them here in cali but because my man is in jail we dont even get to see eachother in person. Its all glass visits. Anyway, the way that it works here is that you get to go into like a bungalo you live for like a weekend in this house with rooms and stuff. I think they check on you but there isnt somebody in the room or anything. I do know that this is a big way that drugs get sent in. The bungalo is on property so yeah you have to go through the big proccess as if you were having a regular visit.
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Old 10-13-2005, 03:08 PM
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we dont get them, but i know conjugal visits in california are cool!! you get to stay with your man in an apartment type setting for 2-3 days. of coarse they put you thru the normal search process that youd go thru on a regular visit, and they inspect the stuff you bring into the visit, like your personal items to make sure you sneek nothing in. you can bring lingerie, condoms, birth control pill... anything you need to make your visit comfortable, but everything has to be able to be easily searched. during your time together the inmate has to order the food yall eat from the prison off his money on his books. itll prolly be vending machine type stuff. during the visit yall can do whatever yall want, he just has to answer the phone every so many hours when the guard calls to tell him what time he has to come out for count, and he has to be dressed in his prison clothes for the count. if he dont answer the phone they terminate your visit. other than that all is good. yall can really bond during that time. i sure wish i could get one!!
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Old 10-13-2005, 03:47 PM
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No conjugals in Arizona. I wish but their isn't I checked right away too after my man got sentenced.
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Old 10-13-2005, 05:29 PM
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They have conjugal visits in NY, but only at certain prisons. His isn't one of them (I think it's kind of just a luck of the draw type thing as far as who gets sent where). From what I understand, you have to be married and you get like 44 hours with them in a trailer, alone, but they also have pretty strict rules regarding what you can bring and you do have to get searched and all that. You get one every 2-3 months too I think. If you go into the New York Forum, there is a whole thread about them. Hopefully, after we get married this summer, he'll get transferred to one that has them but I doubt he will. Oh well!
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This is one subject where I try to be gracious and be happy for those who do, but I am soooooooo jealous. In Washington you have to be married before the offender is sentenced to get "trailer" visits, and we were broken up at that time. The thing is, yes, the sex would be great, but really what i crave is that intimacy and alone time. I can't think about too much or it makes me really sad.....
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i am in california, i just filled out the form for the visits. we shoul be getting it soon
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I wish we did here in Texas, its sad that they dont cause at some of the units they have the space to put trailers. Hell I would buy my own camper and bring it with me. LOL
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Mississippi does have them and I think the procedures on it vary by facility. Where my husband is now, we are allowed one hour in a room on any visit day. I go through the same type of search as any other visitor and he is searched before I am allowed to enter the room.

MS also allows A custody inmates to have a family visit once every few months. (I can't remember if it is every 3 months or 6 months.) They call it the "3-day house" but you can pay to stay for 3 days or 5 days. After you have paid and your date comes around, you pack up basically everything but the few "no-no's" including food and kind of move in for those few days. The will search him before he is brought out, and your vehicle and belongings before you are allowed to enter. We haven't a family visit yet, but we are planning one since I will be due for a vacation after the first of the year.
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None in VA...I am sooo Jealous...its one of the 1st things that I checked on as well but like someone else said I just miss being alone and able to touch him in any way cause right now he is in Jail and will soon be in prison so just a contact visit will be a step up for me...I cant wait
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We used to get "trailers" up until march of this year only because he was moved. That's about the only thing that the "great" state of NY has to offer. But it's the best because you get to send that much needed time together. Because of a trailer the outcome was a lil boy who 2 1/2. I pray that when he is moved again that he goes to a place that has them !!!!
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Well None in Michigan!
I wish we had them though I wouldnt care if it was only 24 hours with my man after 2 and a half years I just about take anytime alone with him that I could get

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Well none here either , i live in cali but my papi is in federal prison so no conjugal visits for federal inmates Congratulations to all of you lucky 4% enjoy those visits
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