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Old 06-10-2012, 09:06 PM
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I decided to take my kids to Chuck,E Cheese for my 5 yr olds birthday. My 1 yr old fee.ll and busted her head. Blood everywhere. Trip to the hospital. My question is, should I tell my man or not? Do yall tell your men about things like this and then he will worry.
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:24 PM
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if thats his child he should know
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:33 PM
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i hope your baby is doing well & heals just fine <3


well we dont have children together but i would definitely tell him .

he is the father of your baby , so although it would worry him , it would also make him still feel involved & a part of their lives .
& it would probably take some stress off your back to share with him , he'll be supportive and whatnot.
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:38 PM
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Oh my word!!! I pray ur lil one is alrite and nothing serious arises behind this incident...i dont like to see or hear about babies being hurt accidentally Or intentionally, there so little and innocent! I know we try to not burden our dudes with problems BUT if thats his child he NEEDS TO KNOW.
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:42 PM
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In my opinion you should absolutely tell him! 2 months ago my 2.5 yr old fell off our bed onto hardwood floor & ended up with a bad concussion & she spent the night in the hospital in the PICU. He happened to call the next morning & telling him was the hardest thing ever & he later told me that he would've been livid had I not told him his baby girl had an accident. I hope ur lil one is ok & hope u find the strength to tell ur hubby (I can only imagine how ur feeling). He's gonna worry anyways, so tell him & get that extra stress off ur back.
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:44 PM
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Hell yes! It's his right as a parent to know, and if he isn't the biological parent, I'm sure he would still appreciate knowing, the way my man would want to know about my son'.
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Old 06-10-2012, 09:56 PM
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Yea girly I'd tell him. I hope the Babys okay! Keep us posted.

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I tell mine everything about the kids and they arent even his. Hell he asks more about them and worries more about them than their actual father lol he really hates that he is in there and cant be out for them to be the male role in their lives because my ex doesnt do sh*t for them. I would tell him, but then again I tell mine everything.
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I would tell him for sure.. I hope your baby is okay!!
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She has a concussion, but is okay now. Thanks, yall. And I will tell him when he calls this morning.
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I am glad you are telling him.
The good news is hat she should be fine.
I would probably leave out the bloody details since he can't be there and will probably feel guilty about that,in addition to parental concern.
I hope she heals quickly.
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As hard as it is, YES. There are many times i would rather not tell my husband for fear of him worrying, plus he can't be there...that sucks!!!! Over the years our sons have hurt or broken somethin...hospital trips are almost common with football, wrestling, soccer, most recent putting up the basketball hoop next to the trampoline... Its hard to not tell him but i have to. This last week my oldest sons school called, in class he just passed out....they had to call an ambulance and take him to hospital.....i thought i would never get ahold of my husband. I called prison, then left message thru corrlinks...surprisingly he got his corrlinks message first, and freaked out. Blew my phone up, but i couldnt answer while they were doing ctscan or mri my phone had to be left in room... I can only imagine how nerve wrecking. All is well and we still are waiting to see what could have caused this....but to hear my husbands voice change after he talked to our son was so much relief...i can just hear the calm he got and how happy he was. Even telling him wasn't enough he had to talk to him himself. So still as hard as it seems sometimes...i have to tell him.
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