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Old 12-20-2020, 11:56 AM
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Been the best 4 days ever. There was no transition for us. Even through the years, we spent so much time together, everything flowed like it did before this happened. It is an out of body experience to see her walking around and having her presence in the house. Gets a little overwhelmed at stores, but nothing too bad. She says its time to go, and we bounce right out. It is so much fun to teach her technology, find her clothes, decide what to eat. Choices can overwhelm, but my calm and patience make it much easier. She's done really well. I am very proud of this new found strength.

My only advice to anyone who cares, is to spend as much time as you can with someone inside. If you don't have the energy or don't want to talk because its too much effort, than maybe you aren't in the right relationship. It should never be a chore, or a hassle, or be forced. The more you do, the more normal and easier it is when they leave. Don't fool yourself into thinking a letter or two 15 minute phone calls a week gives you an idea of how it will be outside of the walls. Lots of people get hurt and throw away years of their prime into something that wasn't really there. The biggest thing I've seen in the almost decade of doing this, is if they are screwing up inside and getting in trouble, or heavily involved in prison politics, bet the house they will be a problem when they are a free person. Follow your heart, but take your brain with you
Such wonderful news! I'm so glad she's home and happy <3
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Old 12-20-2020, 03:06 PM
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Old 12-20-2020, 10:52 PM
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Hey, that's my line!!
You let us wait 4 days... WTAF? :-))))))))))))))
I'm lucky I got a breath from the bedroom to even write that
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May you guys enjoy your first holiday together!(:
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Old 12-21-2020, 12:27 PM
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May you guys enjoy your first holiday together!(:
Hows daughter doing in all this?
She says it's cool to have two parents again. There hasn't been a female to walk these halls in a very long time. Shes on cloud 9. It is literally like she never left. The flow we have, is just a reminder how we are best friends and why waiting was 100% worth it. Nothing is weird or awkward.
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That's the spirit! Keep it up!
(really happy for you and your entire family )
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