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First off all I just want to say THANK YOU and scream it to all of you!!!
My last post I wrote in this forum, was "im slowly dying, I am obsessed with my ex and his new gf"
Well it took a lot of thinking and DOING! I knew that sitting at work everyday on a computer was my access to his every move. So in the mean time I started my own business. To my surprise it has taken off and is doing amazing. I finally found what I needed to keep me busy, happy and successful (even in an economy like this)
I will NEVER lie to you guys as you have seen in my posts. I still occasionally check from time to time to see what he does and from them moving to another state together to now him leaving her, I realized I DONT CARE ANYMORE!!! Even looking I dont get upset if I see something lovey dovey! Since I started my business I have had a lot more "haters" & "critics" within my family & friends than to worry about those 2 (losers) anymore!
Its a bittersweet feeling. If he is truly leaving like he says he is, i do feel bad for her, but even if he stays I now can tell myself he really wont change. I am happy to say that I believe I am 95% moved on from this ordeal.
The other week I tried calling to get the injunction permananent and they said I had to to come up to where it happened and be in court with him again! I almost fainted. I CAN NOT & WILL NOT ever want to be in a room with him again and i hate how this works bc a judge has to approve it. They should be permamnet from DAY 1! Plus I cant even leave because of work.
Either way If he leaves, he will violate his probation and I will be happy! (evil comment! ) but i hope karma bites him the butt!
I just hope that I dont get myself upset if they work things out and they are happy again! Like I said 95% DONE!!!!
THANK YOU ALL!!!!! I COULDNT HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT YOU GUYS!!!!
gosh i really wish i could stop spying on my ex at first i hated it but i get really upset to see he is doing better then me because i should be doing better then him and now im doing horrible and my man is in jail. Lol I was trying this new year to never look back at him and his stupid girlfriend and ive already done it 3 times. I dont care im happy he is happy but it makes me sad he is doing so well all at the same time...
Out of sight! Out of mind!
) but i hope karma bites him the butt! 
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