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View Poll Results: Does he show remorse?
YES he does 143 73.71%
NO he doesn't 35 18.04%
He has yet to but I think he will 10 5.15%
I wish he would 6 3.09%
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Old 03-09-2011, 04:54 PM
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Yes he does, he blames nobody but himself for the situation he;s in.
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My man takes responsibility for being where he is. He surrendered himself.
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He takes full responsibility and has alot of remorse. He's never blamed anyone but himself.
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My husband is in prison for voluntary manslaughter...but he was not the shooter in the incident. He does have remorse for the fact that someone got killed...but then also says that everyone involved was wrong for even fighting in the first place. It was considered gang related and the man who got killed was from a rival gang...which is so sad to me

They were all only 18 years old when it happened...kids...so they all had the mentality that they were invincible. Very sad
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a drug addict who doesn't want to stop using feels bad they are caught but they think they should be allowed to use their drugs.
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ben is an addict addicted to coke & meth.He loves drugs & it's very hard to stop someone from using if they do not want to stop so I don't think he's sorry,he just
feels better that he couldn't hide it from the law
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You know I really cant say. Of all the crimes that he commited in his life and younger years. I know very few details and my husband is a complicated man but he has never expressed remorse to me, BUT thats between him and God.
Now for the crime that landed him away from us? No, he's not sorry at all for what he did, he's just sorry that he cant be here with us. Thats all.
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Terry is in for a murder he committed at 15 years old. It was a 43 year old man who had been a convicted pedophile, and Terry being a teenager put himself in a situation without thinking first. I think it had been so long, it was almost abstract to him, and he blocked out the emotional part. 18 years later when I had begun the process of having the lawyer order all police, court, autopsy reports be collected, he found himself facing the past. My husband is a tough man, he's solid as a rock. In this paperwork sent to him, were the homicide photos, of which he'd never seen. He called me crying, the only time I'd ever heard him cry...and kept saying "I was just a scared kid. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry." It broke my heart into a million pieces.
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My baby has 15 armed robbery charges to support drugs! He is mire than pissed at himself and ready to come home. He has spent all of his thirties behind bars and determined to never go back!
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My husband is doing 10 yrs. He was convicted if robbery & auto theft. His ex actually stole the car & he took the police on a high speed chase so she could get away. He is not sorry, that he took, the rap because she was pregnant however, he committed the robbery for drugs and has never taken responsibly for his actions. Its sad
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My love is remorseful and admits that he was completely wrong for what he did.He did not commit a heinous crime, but a crime is a crime, and he is remorseful for it.
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My Man is rmorseful, he admitted his crime and it is amazing watching God transform him!
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Yes he does. He was on drugs and alcohol and snapped. Out of who he is. He has done 8 1/2 years of anger management and more. He actually went on Joyce Meyer with his victims family while still incarcerated and apologized to them and was forgiven. He hopes to work with others in anger management when he comes home. He is so different then he was.
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It really pisses me off when he laughs or makes jokes about it like its funny. He is sorry for what he did, he just takes it lightly sometimes. Like complaining about his sentence, when he actually got lucky. I love him but damn.
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Its sad but my husband is not remorseful at all for his part ( selling drugs) he blames the snitch that told on him.. the only thing he is remorseful for is getting me caught up in all this and now I'm facing prison time myself.. that kills him and that he has to be away for me and his son but for actually selling the drugs no he ain't sorry which does worry me because I feel he needs to see that it was wrong to never do it again this is his second time doing the same thing but the first time he got probation so maybe this bid will make him realize.. he says he will never do it again because he wont ever put me in that situation again which I do believe I know how bad he feels and scared about what the outcome for me will be but I just wish he would do it for his self to because I know if he didn't have me that's what he would probably get out and do again :'(
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My husband is very remorseful for what he did .. He was drunk and on drugs and blacked out ... Doesn't even remember what he did . He's geeks even worse that he can't be here to see his kids grow through their mile stones ..
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He has remorse, but it's complicated. He is sorry that he was involved in a gang lifestyle when he was a teenager, that he was following the lead of men who were hardened criminals, that he allowed himself to be played a pawn. He was homeless most of his teen years, bouncing from house to house, and they gave him a feeling of belonging. He was present during a criminal deal that went bad and someone got shot, but he wasn't the one that shot the victim; he didn't even know they intended to rob the victim. The victim lived and testified that he wasn't the shooter. The shooter is the one who actually got caught, and because he made a deal for turning in others present, he was given a lighter sentence than those who actually played a lesser part in the crime. The shooter is already out living a free life, while Jeremy continues in prison.

Even more than a feeling of remorse, what he has is gratitude for escaping that lifestyle. He has little doubt that if he had continued in that lifestyle, he may very well not be alive now. This is what he chooses to focus on, because his remorse can only extend to his own choices, not the choices made for him.
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Yes! He has soooo much remorse. He prays continuously for forgiveness&I KNOW he means it.
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He doesn't, and I'm fine with that. He is in prison for having a gun that wasn't registered to him. I'm not sure about you, but that doesn't sound like the end of the world or like something heinous to me.
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Yes, and he is doing what needs to be done. He has said many times he blames nobody but himself for where he is.

He gets sick and tired of inmates bitching about who snitched on them, or the cops illegally searched them...on and on....he says very few of them take responsibility for why they are where they are. It does not matter if they were high, they committed a crime or they would not be there. I know some people believe thier LO's are innocent and that is all good and well, but there are always two sides to every story.

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I read all the posts. I am not speaking of my bf. When I was 7yrs old my dad mother uncle and aunt were shot in our back yard I watched the man who lived next door walk over in our back yard shot my father my mothet my uncle and my aunt. He killed my father and uncle after 27 years at his parole hearing he never said he had remorse or he was even sorry. Which to be honest is really all I want to hear he is now on his death bed with cancer and I feel no remorse for him. I guess I am no better than him but he took my father, uncle and my childhood. Sorry. Bf no remorse he will drive first chance he gets again
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In prison you hear a lot of "I got to get out of here" and you hear very little "I got to change and do right". Both statements have an air of remorse, but the latter is the one that builds compassion for other people.
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Yes, my hubby is remorseful..He has told me that he knows he needs to change his life & he is..I hear it is his conversation and see it in his actions..
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I dont think he really has much remorse for the actual crime ( white collar crime so he believes no one got hurt, but I think differently) But I know he is beside himself with guilt for being away from the kids
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In my case there isn't anything to be remorse full about...

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