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View Poll Results: Are prison wives/girlfriends desperate?
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Old 01-25-2017, 11:12 AM
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I believe im just desperate for time to pass by quickly and bring him home faster. Everyone is ready for him to come home. Other than that. I love him so much. Best thing that ever happened to me. Counting the weeks.
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Old 03-29-2017, 12:26 PM
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Not desperate... Devoted..
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me and my boo was friends for 20 years we never crossed the line till he went to jail! lovers and friends till the end
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I was with my man when he was out & about. We hit a bumpy road, umm yes. But doesn't mean I will leave him. Im not just going to up and bounce when things get tuff. We stay strong together & pull through it. I chose to stay with my man through hard times. We is not desperate !!!!! Ok let me just say that. Plenty of fish in the sea but I chose this one. MY LOVE : )
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No, I do not think that women who wait on inmates are desperate.
I believe that women who can't wait for a man are desperate. People have their own opinions of this subject because all they hear is "prison" or "jail" and automatically think negative. There are plenty of men out here walking around who have never been to prison or jail, and are bat shit crazy yet women give them a shot. It doesn't matter where that person is, I believe that everyone deserves love because I feel that most inmates who commit a crime don't know how it feels to be loved and cared for. People are going to judge you for having a boyfriend/girlfriend in prison but the hell with them. People like to act like they're perfect. No such thing.
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i am sure there are some women who were desperiate and lonely and just looking for any sort of male companionship.
But most of us are just loyal woman who are caring and understanding, and are waiting for our men because we are in love and can't see ourselves being with anyone else.

Thats my deal, I could have any dude i want out here on the streets, but i want the man i had been with who i love and I don't want to replace him just because of his sentence or crime.
besides he is un-replaceable even if i wanted to! so that is why i wait!

I am desperate though, desperate to see him free!
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I'm desperate for a phone call... It's sucks having to struggle.. I donate plasma to get him commissary money. I'm desperately doing everything I can to make sure he's taken care of.
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For some, maybe. Maybe they weren't having a whole lot of luck finding love with others so they tried something new. Many of us have a history with our loved ones. I can only speak for myself factually. For me, I found a super strong connection with my husband before he was arrested. And despite great attempts to find love with someone else, my connection with him stayed strong. I tried to move on for years and couldn't. I gave in, tore my walls down, and found happiness with my now husband. Not to sound arrogant, but I am such a catch! I am sure I can find another man! I am equally sure that I would still be in love with my husband even if that happened. How fair would that be to anyone? So... not desperate! A choice!
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Old 08-02-2017, 02:32 PM
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aw that's great chica.
sweet, Curt's wife.
Hugs and blessings 2 u both.

Some people like you,me others are just devoted/clearly loyal/happy!
Some do NOT like to see that,so they say a lady is a desperate soul/waiting for a guy in prison.
I just usually ignore such rubbish.


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Some are. Some aren't. Desperation isn't what I think about when I think of prison wives/girlfriends, though.
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I call it loyalty. Simple as that.
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No. We met out in the free world and had a wonderful relationship. I'm not giving that up over a few months in county.
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Wouldn't desperate be going out and hooking up with any and every guy because you "need" a man, can't be alone, need the attention, etc.??? Some people love to throw stones even though their houses are made of pure glass!

I am desperately in love with someone who made bad choices. He is and has been paying for those mistakes and has learned from them, acquired his AA and BA while inside, learned numerous trades, mentored many young lost souls, and learned who he is as a man. He went in a boy playing at being a man and will come out a real man with purpose. He says, all though he is glad it's almost over, going to prison saved his life and changed his priorities. He never use to value life and freedom like he does now.
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I can see how a small percentage of people may be desperate for companionship and reach out 2 inmates. But as long as no one is being lead astray, it shouldn't matter. Everyone deserves to be happy.
Most people though I don't think it applies to. It's can be VERY easy 2 leave ur LO or cheat on them while their doing time, so for those of us who choose to stand by our LO we're making a harder but more rewarding choice. Why waste ur time and someone else's if you know you already have the person for you? To quote another poster not desperate, dedicated and loyal.
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I mean lonely sometimes yeah. In my case I knew my guy before he got locked up and he was my love and one of my bestfriends. Do i agree with his decisions? Hell no. I hope he's in there reflecting on his actions. The least I can do is offer my emotional support. I wouldn't call it waiting on him, because who knows what the future holds. But I am being a support system for as long as I can without it messing up my life and my goals. Sending letters takes so little out of your day to do but to them it means the world.

Also, I get hit on daily and I could date any guy so I want so I'm definitely far from desperate. But I value connections and he and I have a connection I can't abandon.
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Mabe the women who look for men in already in prison are. Most of us were in a relationship with our men in prison. I love my man that's why I'm waiting for him . hats off to all you women who stand by their man ! Stay down for your man !!
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I agree that some are, and some aren't. I must admit that I notice some women who make a habit out of corresponding with men in prison, and it often comes back to their own loneliness. I don't condemn them for that, but I do think they are the ones that people so often call "desperate." On the other side of the token, there are women who already had established relationships, marriages or children with their man when he got locked up - I can only consider those women to be strong, loyal and committed partners. My circumstance falls somewhere in the middle of the spectrum; I reached out to my MWI because I knew he would value my friendship, and because he simply resonated with me as a good guy. I have my own social life, my own friends, and my own past relationships. I did not seek him out due to desperation. I am aware of how many options there are in the free world, but love cannot be controlled or rationalized. It just happens. No one should be ridiculed for loving another human being.
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Mabe the women who look for men in already in prison are. Most of us were in a relationship with our men in prison. I love my man that's why I'm waiting for him . hats off to all you women who stand by their man ! Stay down for your man !!


Me and my man are Ride or Die!! We are in love and we are faithful!! And just because he is stuck where he is and canít be at home with me is no reason to run around and sleep around and act like we arenít together!! I will be his Ride or Die for Eternity!!! Standing by each other and doing the right thing with each other and for each other when youíre home together or are stuck having to be kept from each other because of incarceration is no reason to be untrue unfaithful or any of that other bullshit!! Go buy a vibrator and some batteries!!!
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