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Old 02-15-2016, 08:44 PM
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Default Intimacy after jail??! He has 12 more days

Ok, my boyfriend is getting out of jail next weekend, after only doing 7 months (I know not long to others) anyways..we both have a HUGE sex drive, especially towards eachother. Will it be the same when he gets out? Even better? Possibly worse? I'd like to know from ladies w/ expierence.
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Old 02-15-2016, 10:03 PM
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I'm wondering this myself...we are due for a release sometime between 2 and 4 weeks from now. We had a VERY active and uh...creative (lol) sex life before everything happened. During the four days that he was out on bail, we (obviously) had sex and it was like nothing had really changed, but at that point he'd only been away for a couple of months. By the time he gets out it will be a 9-10 month stretch. We have not even seen each other since those four days, about 5 months ago. I can't imagine what he looks like, physically, or what his time in there has done to his image of himself...I'm imagining after the first few nights everything will be back to normal...it was such a fundamental part of our relationship...but I am curious to hear from others. Only 15-30 days to go now.

Congrats to the OP on your upcoming release by the way I know you must be thrilled!
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Old 02-15-2016, 10:25 PM
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Ok, my boyfriend is getting out of jail next weekend, after only doing 7 months (I know not long to others) anyways..we both have a HUGE sex drive, especially towards eachother. Will it be the same when he gets out? Even better? Possibly worse? I'd like to know from ladies w/ expierence.
How exciting! My boyfriend is getting out in about a month. He has only been in for about 10 months but I can feel the energy over the phone when we talk and I can feel that nothing has changed. We both also are very attracted to each other and have high sex drives. He even said stuff over the phone that made me know he can't wait.

Though I am sure it is different for each couple and if a person is feeling really depressed that could affect their sex drive.
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Old 02-15-2016, 10:32 PM
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Ok, my boyfriend is getting out of jail next weekend, after only doing 7 months (I know not long to others) anyways..we both have a HUGE sex drive, especially towards eachother. Will it be the same when he gets out? Even better? Possibly worse? I'd like to know from ladies w/ expierence.
It depends on the two of you. I believe each couple is different.

I will say that I have been told by my ex (he did 8 years) that he had to use his hand so much that having intercourse after release was a bit of a challenge (hand is a tighter fit). TMI for some, but this is what I have been told.

I am sure you two will be fine
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Ok, my boyfriend is getting out of jail next weekend, after only doing 7 months (I know not long to others) anyways..we both have a HUGE sex drive, especially towards eachother. Will it be the same when he gets out? Even better? Possibly worse? I'd like to know from ladies w/ expierence.
My boyfriend starts his 7 month sentence in two weeks and we do not plan on doing visits because he will be so far away and we aren't married so the likelihood of a visit getting approved is slim to none...lol However, I am glad you posted this! I'm hoping his sex drive and sense of self won't be too messed up afterward. Makes me worry.

Congrats to the two of you! How exciting.
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I am sure it'll be exactly as you both remember it.
My sweetheart excites me just over the phone or in his letters and I have no worries when he gets out. He's the only person I've ever been with where I've literally begged for more over and over. -smirk-
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First time mine got out we were lucky to make to the nearest bedroom!!!! unless he's changed or you have that will be the easiest part of him getting out.
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I have a question like that about me and my boyfriend but worst. When my boyfriend got incarcerated we were just friends so we didn't kiss each other or have sex...now 2 years and a half later he is coming home to live with me and obviously now we have talk about having sex....sooo nervous about that, just 70 days more and we will see what happen
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I never really thought of this as something we'd need to deal with when he gets out. Both of our sex drives are off of the charts high. Sex will be explosive, the least of my concerns. I really believe that other than possibly being quick the first few times, you'll get back into your normal groove pretty quickly. He missed you and the sex, for sure!
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