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Old 02-02-2010, 06:39 PM
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Keepin' it real MWI Ladies:
"Do you TRUST your man?"
Yes or No

My humble thoughts on this:
If our love is as pure as we portray it to be, there really should be no "sort of" or "gray area" in this question. Right Ladies? With Valentine's Day around the corner and "love in the air" especially in February, I tend to take an introspective look at my genuineness of heart and the things I say to J and what I do for him. I trust my feelings, I know they are sincere. But, honestly, in my heart of hearts, I'll forever doubt his until I see the actions behind the words come to fruition in the "real world". Do you trust him?
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I trust my husband with every fiber of my being. I wouldnt have married him if I didnt. I know we are going to have ups and downs, while he is in prison and while he is out, but I trust that we will work together to build our life and make it the best it can be.
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Old 02-02-2010, 06:45 PM
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I trust J, because without trust in a relationship you have some very rocky grounds, and may as well not be in the relationship in the first place!
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The honest answer is that I trust him more than I trust any other man.

I trust that he loves me.
I trust that he isn't cheating on me.
I trust that he is coming home to me.
I trust him with my life.

Do I have concerns about when he is released? We are MWI so of course I do.
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Where is the selection for *Maybe So*

I say it all the time,,,Boo does not get a blanket of trust from me on ALL things.
It has to be earned and somethings he can't earn my trust on until I see him in action on the Outside.
Like as much as he says he will be able to handle his finances,,,No way in hell am I giving him my checkbook or ATM card.
Not that he would purposely empty out my bank account but I don't trust he knows HOW to handle finances since he has never had a bank account in his life.
I am not going to trust he won't cheat on me until he is out here with all these thirsty big booty chicks who would smell *fresh out* on him a mile away. TOO Easy for a man to say he is going to be faithful in Prison!
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Yes.

End of story.
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If I didn't trust my man I wouldn't be wasting my time with him. Thats a big, huge part in a relationship. Yes u will have ur up's and down's but thoes are things that you just have to work on. No relationship is ever perfect and never will be, you just gotta make them the best u can and love and trust eachother deeply.
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yes, I trust him in so far as what he is able to show me at this time.
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Yes, I trust him. He's never given me any reason not to.
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I do Trust him, took me a long time to let of the past and move forward, but today I can say I do honestly trust him
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The honest answer is that I trust him more than I trust any other man.

I trust that he loves me.
I trust that he isn't cheating on me.
I trust that he is coming home to me.
I trust him with my life.

Do I have concerns about when he is released? We are MWI so of course I do.
ditto for me too!!!great post!!!
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Me and Corey's relationship was build on trust right from the word "hello". He told me right from the get go how much that meant to him. Without trust in a relationship you have nothing.

@ CoNpal... you couldn't have put it better! Ditto for me too
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I trust him as I decided he is my Man. ..... and I never would have a Man at my side where I cannot trust !
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yes I trust he is faithful and I trust he loves me. sometimes I need to check his judgment on things after all he is the one in prison. LOL
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Trust is a HUGE thing with me, it took me a long time to trust him completely, and I do.
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I trust him as much as I can in this situation...we have still to see how things are when he gets out he knows that.
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Do I trust he cares for me and all that crap? Yes. But, truthfully, I don't know what it will be like when he out, and him being arrested when he was 22 and getting out when he is 31, well he doesn't know how he will be either. He knows how he wants to be, but who knows if he will go the straight route after time. That is why I am staying in the getting to know each other phase as long as possible. He has about a year and a half. I figure if all goes well, then we can start by dating when he is released. But until he is out, how can I trust him? I don't fully know him.
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I trust people until otherwise proven - that's how I treated our relationship while he was inside and still do now that he's out. There's a lot less stress in life that way.
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Yes, I trust my husband completely...I am looking at his actions *now* and I know what he's about.
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Of course...I'm a firm believer that if you don't trust the person you're with then you don't have a real relationship. JMO.
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There's a difference between trust and blind faith. I TRUST my bf to tell me the truth. I do not have blind faith in everything he says.
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Even if I wasn't interested in him romantically, if we were only just friends, I'd trust him, because he's a very honest person. To the point to where he tells people things he shouldn't... when it's better NOT to tell someone the truth, he still does.

so, yeah, I trust him. David wouldn't lie, even to an enemy, much less me.
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i am not going to trust he won't cheat on me until he is out here with all these thirsty big booty chicks who would smell *fresh out* on him a mile away. Too easy for a man to say he is going to be faithful in prison!
lol!! I know thats right girl, but honestly i trust david all men are different like i've dated guys that i knew it was only a matter of time that they would cheat but i also have had this one guy that i knew no matter what he wouldnt do that too bad he had other issues, but david gives me that gut instinct did i question it at first...of course he had to grow on me and i had to get in his soul and really see what he was about and im glad i did!:d
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He has my 100% trust. we have been through some things, and what I expected, and what I got were two different things. He has never given me reason not to trust him. He tells me everything, and sometimes I wish he wouldn't. I know why he is in prison, and it isn't because he is a bad person. He made a poor choice. Everything I am seeing right now are all good choices. Sometimes, you just got to take that leap of faith.
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I totally trust my man. I know when he tells me that I am the love of his life and he would not do anything to hurt me that he is telling the truth. I can just tell in the way that he writes and the way that he talks on the phone that what we have is real and he is totally deserving of my trust and love.

For me trust and love are both unconditional. Until he makes me think otherwise they go hand in hand towards him.

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