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Old 11-13-2019, 12:08 AM
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do they not offer it where u are
No. California to the south, Washington to the north. Not Oregon. Kills me everytime I go to bed without her.
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Old 11-13-2019, 12:43 PM
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No. California to the south, Washington to the north. Not Oregon. Kills me everytime I go to bed without her.

I read a white paper in which the author found states that permit conjugals think they're beneficial. Costs of controlling visits, facilities, etc. may be a big negative factor for states that don't permit them.
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What I wouldn't do to cuddle my wife free from the eyes of a CO.

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Old 11-13-2019, 01:33 PM
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I read a white paper in which the author found states that permit conjugals think they're beneficial. Costs of controlling visits, facilities, etc. may be a big negative factor for states that don't permit them.
Its not just for spouses. Kids suffer more then we do. Thankfully our kid is a bit older, but watching an 8 year old try to process what is going on in a visiting room is sometimes hard to watch. Its tough to see them with tears streaming down their faces. No doubt the money needed to keep this type of visit is a reason its down to so few states. The DOC in Oregon will help pay for gender changes, but not let a family spend a night together. Makes sense to me.
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Its not just for spouses. Kids suffer more then we do. Thankfully our kid is a bit older, but watching an 8 year old try to process what is going on in a visiting room is sometimes hard to watch. Its tough to see them with tears streaming down their faces. No doubt the money needed to keep this type of visit is a reason its down to so few states. The DOC in Oregon will help pay for gender changes, but not let a family spend a night together. Makes sense to me.

Our first few years of V.R. family visits were terrible. They really messed up our daughter. She was only 3 when her mom went in.
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