Met While Incarcerated Introductions

[fbopnomore]

We have prison pen pal forums too, take your pick of where to post.
http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=294

[Kylz86]

Hi all,
Im completely new to this forum so please bare with me
I started writing my pen pal only a few months back. We get along so well and have alot in common. A week or so ago he had asked me to make it "official" lol. We both admitted to falling quite early on. So hopefully things continue this way :-) Only real issue we are having is that because im Australia and he is in CA getting the phone to work is quite the challenge .

[fbopnomore]

Welcome to Prison Talk and to the MWI forum. Thank you for sharing your story.

[Ladybug98]

Good morning everyone,

I met my LO while he's lockdown in San Quentin on deathrow. We've been together a yr Nov 17 & it is hard to be with him cause he's on deathrow but I love him to the moon back & won't ever leave him to do this time by himself & we're getting married on VDAY

[Peacefinder]

Originally Posted by Ladybug98

Good morning everyone,

I met my LO while he's lockdown in San Quentin on deathrow. We've been together a yr Nov 17 & it is hard to be with him cause he's on deathrow but I love him to the moon back & won't ever leave him to do this time by himself & we're getting married on VDAY

Happy Anniversary, a little early

[Taylorgnr]

Hello! My name is Taylor. I met my guy a little under a month ago through a pen pal ad and we started emailing through JPay. I honestly messaged him just looking for friends but I finally admitted to myself today that I have pretty strong feelings for this boy. In about two weeks there have been almost 50 emails between us and 4 phone calls. He’s told me a few times that he’s catching feelings for me and how important I’ve become to him. I have to admit I was hesitant because you always hear about cons but he’s told me a handful of times that he doesn’t want my money just my companionship. I was getting anxious today and couldn’t take my nap (I work overnights) because I hadn’t heard from him today but then my phone rang. He asked his friend to call me because he’s in the hole. I guess that has to mean something if he cares enough to have his friend call me so I don’t worry. I’m still kind of reeling because this is my first time dealing with this and I don’t know fully what happened. I wrote him a couple letters already and they will hopefully make it to him. I think I found this site just in time. I feel like it’s definitely gonna help me through this.

[cloverhoney]

Originally Posted by Taylorgnr

Hello! My name is Taylor. I met my guy a little under a month ago through a pen pal ad and we started emailing through JPay. I honestly messaged him just looking for friends but I finally admitted to myself today that I have pretty strong feelings for this boy. In about two weeks there have been almost 50 emails between us and 4 phone calls. He’s told me a few times that he’s catching feelings for me and how important I’ve become to him. I have to admit I was hesitant because you always hear about cons but he’s told me a handful of times that he doesn’t want my money just my companionship. I was getting anxious today and couldn’t take my nap (I work overnights) because I hadn’t heard from him today but then my phone rang. He asked his friend to call me because he’s in the hole. I guess that has to mean something if he cares enough to have his friend call me so I don’t worry. I’m still kind of reeling because this is my first time dealing with this and I don’t know fully what happened. I wrote him a couple letters already and they will hopefully make it to him. I think I found this site just in time. I feel like it’s definitely gonna help me through this.

Welcome! I already know people on here will tell you to slow down this relationship but I‘ll just say enjoy the ride and listen to your gut feeling.
Dealing with the hole can be stressful but keep them letters coming, they‘ll mean a lot to him. My LO is also in the hole atm and thinking that I won’t get to speak to him until 2020 just sucks. Don‘t trip and keep yourself busy.
I think it’s sweet that he had his buddy call you.
You can wait for his letter or call his case manager to find out more. Depending on which state he’s in you might even see online what landed him in the hole.

[Taylorgnr]

Originally Posted by cloverhoney

Welcome! I already know people on here will tell you to slow down this relationship but I‘ll just say enjoy the ride and listen to your gut feeling.
Dealing with the hole can be stressful but keep them letters coming, they‘ll mean a lot to him. My LO is also in the hole atm and thinking that I won’t get to speak to him until 2020 just sucks. Don‘t trip and keep yourself busy.
I think it’s sweet that he had his buddy call you.
You can wait for his letter or call his case manager to find out more. Depending on which state he’s in you might even see online what landed him in the hole.

Thank you for the kind words. I’m definitely not rushing into marriage or anything like that any time soon and I’m still being cautious and getting to know him. He’s in Kentucky do you know how I would go about seeing if I can find out online?

[cloverhoney]

Originally Posted by Taylorgnr

He’s in Kentucky do you know how I would go about seeing if I can find out online?

Type _Kentucky offender search_ into google and with his name and DOC number you might find something out. I haven’t had to deal with the state of Kentucky, but maybe someone who knows more will chime in.

[Taylorgnr]

Originally Posted by cloverhoney

Type _Kentucky offender search_ into google and with his name and DOC number you might find something out. I haven’t had to deal with the state of Kentucky, but maybe someone who knows more will chime in.

No luck. I guess I’ll just wait for a letter from him. I hope your LO gets out of the hole soon too!

[cloverhoney]

Originally Posted by Taylorgnr

No luck. I guess I’ll just wait for a letter from him. I hope your LO gets out of the hole soon too!

Thank you! It’s already comforting knowing I am not the only one going through this. Stay strong!