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Old 02-11-2006, 05:03 PM
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Welcome to the "Met While Incarcerated" forum. Please tell us as much or as little as you like about yourself so we can all get to know and support one another better. Please use this thread for introductions ONLY.

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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

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I hate to admit it but I met man while incarcerated. I just had a prison ministry and I wrote him once a month for 6yrs. But I quess he thought I was his woman. I never did but we never talked about things like that either. But really he was in loved with me the first time some relative showed him a picture of me. But it was even a few mos after that before we spoke. But he was religionous thats how he got me. He could even speak in tongues. But anyway when he got ready to get out - I had to use my address to get him out. His family member had refused him. I had to find the head PO to get him in 3days or he would have been maybe a month or more. He was just choosing me so hard - my mother say I fell in love the day he got out. But I must admit if it were any feelings all that time it was not apparent to me. I thought I never cared about him just someone to write when I was lonely.Until the day he got out. But after all of that ministering he went back 2yr and 3mos later. Violated for possession, driving without a license. He got about 3-4 separate charges. So I have even been to see him again.
I write even more now. Sometimes he get 3 to 4letters and 3-4 cards. Last monday he got 7letters and 7cards. I write and send love letters, sermons online, gossip column letters-named As the World turns. I love to write and send cards. But it don't stop me from feeling insecure in my mind , in my heart. This hold thing is a gamble.

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AnitaFoxx, hang in there. Just give it over to God. You are going to have doubts because when the enemy hears you praying he has to do something to intercede. He is the author of confusion and i believe that's what he is trying to do. Just know that God works in mysterious ways, so it doesn't matter what the circumstances look like because if God called this man to be your husband it has to be a reason. I look at like this would I really be ready to be a good wife to my love if he was here right now, probably not. But just know God is working on you both. Just let go and let God. I'll be praying for you.
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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

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Hi ladies,

Well i know this may sound quite to familiar but i also met my boyfriend in jail, i went on a inmate pen pal site, picked him and just started writing him, i've been doing a 2 year bid with him, he's been in there for 5 years. I love him and he's suppose to be home in May. I feel crazy and scared i know that them being in there, they want and are always willing to do good when there home and i want to believe it and i want it to be right, i almost sound nieve to think that it might work. All i want is him to come home and stay out of jail Again!! While i believe it can happen i dont think it will and i'm not sure if i'm strong enought to do this all over again.
Has anyone ever been in a sistuation where there waiting for a release and at the same time has the knotts in the stomach and the fear in there mind? Now he got moved to another jail farther and i went almost twice a week for visits, it just made it harder on me physically cause of the drive and mentally cause i worry. Is this really worth it??
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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
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Hello everyone. I'm new to this site!!!THis is my first posting. I met someone thats incarcerated.I was watching Msnbc one day and seen the show , it was called Lockdown and it was about this guy who was selling dope and on one of his dope missions, he thought the guy was gonna rob him so he shot the guy killed him and robbed him. Well this is the guy I wrote the other week for the first time. At first I was a little skeptical in doing so , but I did. I just loved his swagger and attitude. I don't have low selfesteem and I never wrote a guy in prison before , but this guy was an exception. He has a violent pass he was in a gang, since age 12. I could tell the type of person he was when he sat down with an interview with the guys mother. He appologized for his actions and stated that he know she wouldn't forgive him, but the victims' mom said " Son, I already have forgiven you" She had also talk with him about when he get out to make sure he takes good care of his son, cause he had a child before he went in. But i could tell from the show he's not just cold hearted, he just lived a hardcore life, he's a good person though. Respects women. During the show he states how he still has to survive in prison, so he intimidates prisoners for stuff.If I talk to him when he gets out,I don't know if I'm trying to think I can change him or what. Do u think it'll be hard for him to leave the gang lifestyle with no problem(harm to himself) He is 32 and I'm 21.That's another problem, I think. Cause I never communicated with someone on that level of trying to hook up with someone of that age. He did write me back, got the letter in like a week later and Thanked me for taking the time out to write him. Thanked me for the pic I sent and commented on how pretty and cute I was throughout the whole letter. I blushed reading the whole thing. He asked me to ask him anything I wanted to know about him. So I did send
another letter asking him things. Do anyone remember seeing that series of LOckdown in Lebanon Ohio. He says he dont get letters from no one other than his mom little sister and little son. Cause I told him I bet u a celebrity now and get letters from all kinds of women.lol Does anyone think I was wrong for sending a letter with my home address on it? Don't have P.o box. Another thing I'm waiting on the 2nd letter I asked him what all happened what lead him to being in jail,Do u think He would tell me the whole thing? Him thinking if he tells me the truth I wouldnt wont to talk to him anymore or for legal reasons?? Also can anyone tell me if this is true. He went in Feb.2001, sentenced to 9 yrs. 3 yrs for gun charge. He was charged with 1 deg. involuntary manslaughter and 2nd deg. robbery.He told me He could go up for parole 2008, but on the web it says 2012. He did say If i don't make it 2008 Ill have two yrs which mean 2010. Im confused , who could i asked about this or will anyone tell me anything not being related to him. All help and responses to my questions are appreciated. Hope to meet all of you soon..Bye bye!
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well i met mine on mocospace and will start visiting soon. I found out he is in folsom so he is only 21 minutes away from me ,we have the love connection like i never had and i was married before 4 about 17 years this is the one,i dont judge while they locked up pending on what they locked up 4. Anyway long story short we are loving each other and we are okay with it no matter what other ppl think is about me,him and the kids,i wish everybody the best
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my name is tina i met my man thru my son who is county jail with him. it started out as a joke. but after we got to talking we hit it off great from the beginning. we finally met after a couple of weeks of letters and phone calls in visitation. we talk every day on phone and i visit every week we have both fell in love and cant wait for him to get out so we can continue with this life we have started together. i also dont like being catagorized as a statistic. who really knows how the heart works. there is not a set of rules we have to go by to fall in love with some one. the heart has it own mind.
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my name is tina i met my man thru my son who is county jail with him. it started out as a joke. but after we got to talking we hit it off great from the beginning. we finally met after a couple of weeks of letters and phone calls in visitation. we talk every day on phone and i visit every week we have both fell in love and cant wait for him to get out so we can continue with this life we have started together. i also dont like being catagorized as a statistic. who really knows how the heart works. there is not a set of rules we have to go by to fall in love with some one. the heart has it own mind.

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Thats right girl I met my husband when I was seventeen I was visiting with my aunt seeing her boyfriend then we kept in contact for a few years and then we lost contact for 10 years and now I am 34 and he is now my husband so I dont care what statistics say either. I love my husband and he loves me.
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I started dating my boyfriend two weeks before he left, and I'm sure people think I'm crazy for still being with him. Oddly enough the week before he left, he told me he loved me for the first time. We both say all the time we NEVER expected to fall in love. I am praying everyday that we make it!!!
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Let's see how to start this. I met my beau when I was 12. We went all the way thru school together. We were just friends then. I moved away after school. 28 years later, I find out he is doing life without parole and wrote to him. Eventually, I went to visit him and it was an instant connection. He is still as charming as he was in school. I do know there is probably no future out here. But the love I feel for him grows stronger everyday. Kinda sad really. Makes me wonder if I would have stayed in contact with him what would have happened.

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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
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I met my man Rich when he was in OCC in Fordland, Mo through my aunts boyfriend who was in the same institution in Feb. '08. We wrote back in forth, I was just writing because he needed a penpal and I was working all the time and didn't have time to date anyone. When I went to see him for the first time in April '08, I had found my soul mate, he treated me with so much respect and I never had a man hold my hand and kiss it. He was released in Sept. '08 and he moved to my hometown. The financial burden of running own remodeling business, customers got to where that wouldn't pay for the work done. He got into trouble and just went back in March '10. We don't have a release date and he was sent back on a probation violation, plus he will have other cases and time to serve. He is so worried that I will leave him in there alone. We had talked about getting married before he was released the first time but never did it. Now he wants to and I do as well. Hopefully he comes home soon!!

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hey my name is Delvonne and I met my man while he was incarcerated as well. He was actually my older brother's cellmate and he saw a couple of the pictures I had sent and was wondering who that "sexy chocolate" was. We spoke on the phone once or maybe twice then when my brother got sent to another institution, he gave him all my contact info. This was very shocking because my brother was always the one who wouldn't let me date any of his friends. I wondered what was so special about this guy that he just handed me over so easily. I'm actually glad he did. He called me for the first time on April 19th, 2009. We began talking 2-3 times daily and I began to look forward to his calls. There was definitely something different about this guy. We have been together pretty much ever since and we are gonna be getting married in October. I know what you all are probably thinking...But, I'm a big girl and he is definitely worth a chance. I love him and I have never felt this way about anyone before. Hell, this relationship has just as much chance working out as a relationship with someone that I met out here on the streets. I'm giving him a chance, wish me luck!
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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
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hi well im impressed. cause i met my dude while he is in jail.iam so concerned that he might have a girlfriend.or many vistors...
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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
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I met my boyfriend through my brother in law they were both in the same pod together in county. It was a decision to write him that I will never regret. He has 6-9 months left approximently, and awaiting a trip to the pen. I have no regrets. We are now planning a life when he gets out.
By meeting this way and exchanging letters to get to know each other we have come to know each other better then we could of imagined. Neither of us thought we would fall in love like this but we did and we have no regrets. The hard part of getting to know each other will be over when he gets out, and we are looking forward to happy times together. I get to see him once a week and have met his mom and brother. I love him and miss him everyday.
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I met my boyfriend through my brother in law they were both in the same pod together in county. It was a decision to write him that I will never regret. He has 6-9 months left approximently, and awaiting a trip to the pen. I have no regrets. We are now planning a life when he gets out.
By meeting this way and exchanging letters to get to know each other we have come to know each other better then we could of imagined. Neither of us thought we would fall in love like this but we did and we have no regrets. The hard part of getting to know each other will be over when he gets out, and we are looking forward to happy times together. I get to see him once a week and have met his mom and brother. I love him and miss him everyday.
just found out my love is up for a parole hearing in less then a month crossing my fingers and toes that he gets to come home.
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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
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I met my fiancé while working where is was serving. We did not have a relationship while I was there. I left. We have been together almost 2 years now, but they do not let us visit because I am a former employee. I'm sure there is a thread somewhere here more suited for me, but I find Prison Talk VERY difficult to navigate! Can anyone tell me if we will EVER be allowed to visit, or what the chances are of that... OR, would it be granted if we got married? I just got our marriage license in case that would help. We are in Georgia, BTW...

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I hope things work out for you. One thing for sure he'll know that he found true love when he looks in your eyes. All you can do is pray and keep hope alive, and block out what others say. Try looking at it as he's away in the army.

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Hi my name is Patty and I originally met my man during the Summer of 2003 via a misdialed call from County jail. We hit it off and began writing and talking on the phone and in December of that year I came face to face with him in a crowded visiting room.

We did 14 months together before his release. Things were great when he came home although the conditions of parole and lack of employment opportunities became a burden very quickly. In January 2006, 16 months after his release he went back to prison and will max out and I find myself waiting again in this next chapter of our lives...

It is often said that these types of relationships don't stand much of a chance. I have to say I've never been fond of being a statistic so perhaps that is why I try harder, not to mention the fact that he is worth it. I could go on and on but I'm gonna give others a chance to introduce themselves. I look forward to getting to know everyone who "Met While Incarcerated".

All the best,
Patty
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I hope things work out for you. One thing for sure he'll know that he found true love when he looks in your eyes. All you can do is pray and keep hope alive, and block out what others say. Try looking at it as he's away in the army.
NO. No, it isn't. My son is still fighting these crazy f+cks and my brother was in dessert storm. My dad was in Vietnam. I'm positive having someone away fighting for OUR country and having someone locked up in prison for breaking the law(s) isn't the same,that's because I'VE got experience with both situations. Not that its needed to understand the difference!. I'm appalled at your comparison.
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NO. No, it isn't. My son is still fighting these crazy f+cks and my brother was in dessert storm. My dad was in Vietnam. I'm positive having someone away fighting for OUR country and having someone locked up in prison for breaking the law(s) isn't the same,that's because I'VE got experience with both situations. Not that its needed to understand the difference!. I'm appalled at your comparison.
I hear what your saying I really do.I have a brother who has done several tours in Afghanistan and my step father was in the RAF. I have also had my son and other family.
I don't think the poster was trying to compare prisoners and military personnel on combat duty. Obviously they are very different things.

I think the poster was trying to compare the feelings of absence and loss that are the same for families regardless of why your loved one is absent.
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I hear what your saying I really do.I have a brother who has done several tours in Afghanistan and my step father was in the RAF. I have also had my son and other family.
I don't think the poster was trying to compare prisoners and military personnel on combat duty. Obviously they are very different things.

I think the poster was trying to compare the feelings of absence and loss that are the same for families regardless of why your loved one is absent.
I agree that's what I got out of the reference. I try and think about my man being gone as if he was in the military I'd have no choice. I grew up in the military and that's what I knew for the first 30 years of my life. I love him so I will stand by and wait for him!!
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Ok I'll go first most of you know I met my man while I was a c/o in the institution were he was. That was over two years ago. The full story is in another thread. Patty you are right there is a whole new set of issues when you meet your man while he is down. First and foremost alot of people think just because you met him that way he can't love you. He is using you. The usual stuff we all hear. But that can be percieved two ways. He also didn't disrespect us by commiting a crime while in a relationship. Didn't choose crime or drugs over us. So there are good and bad either way you look at it.

Thanks for making this forum. I look forward to many good threads.

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