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Old 05-20-2009, 06:52 PM
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Aye...i have been hanging on to this for some months now and at the moment i dont want to go into details,but i want to say i have to go to court tommorow and there is the possibilty i will be going to county jail.
I just want to let you folks know in case you dont see me online for awhile, that it's because im in jail. I worry about members when i havent seen them around and i feel i need to let PTO know if i may be absent.
So...i have to say im frightened and i am very anxious, but have got my head to a place of acceptance and it is what it is.
Sad thing is, the uniforms are orange and white stripes and orange is NOT my color.
Shhhyt...cant leave ya without a little humor,can i?

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Old 05-20-2009, 07:02 PM
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Oh no ,,,,I will be praying for you so HARD!
Please be careful.
If you need anything can you let someone let me know?
I wont mind the snack and stamp run for you baby cakes!
Please holla at us as soon as you touch back down,,,Maybe the Jail Gods will let you slide tomorrow?
I will pray on that!
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Old 05-20-2009, 07:07 PM
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thanks babi.
well meaning friends have already told me how to extract ink out of the sunday comics to make eyeshadow and lipstick.
i was also told if i do have to go in to not sweat it i'll get to watch soap opera's all day.
hey i may even get my hair braided...
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I'm so sorry!!!

How long will you be gone?
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holla if you need something stamps,paper, a fast getaway car lmao,seriously i hope you don't go to jail, but if you do take care and send a keep your head up to those that are there
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Old 05-20-2009, 07:21 PM
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Imisshim, i dont know how long, or even if i will go.
Dont be sorry. Im sorry enough for all of us,trust me.
If anything it'll be a new experience and im all for new experience's.
I would just prefer not to experience this,but the judge may feel different.
I own this,all of it and take responsibility for it.
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Old 05-20-2009, 07:25 PM
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Just being funny...read those tips from the ex-offenders so you know what to do in situations and all that.

I wouldn't wish prison on my worst enemy. Really, even though you accept responsibility, it's still so sad.

I wish you the best of luck. If you walk away from it tomorrow, let us know! Keep your chin up!
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Aye...i have been hanging on to this for some months now and at the moment i dont want to go into details,but i want to say i have to go to court tommorow and there is the possibilty i will be going to county jail.
I just want to let you folks know in case you dont see me online for awhile, that it's because im in jail. I worry about members when i havent seen them around and i feel i need to let PTO know if i may be absent.
So...i have to say im frightened and i am very anxious, but have got my head to a place of acceptance and it is what it is.
Sad thing is, the uniforms are orange and white stripes and orange is NOT my color.
Shhhyt...cant leave ya without a little humor,can i?

Sees ya when i see's ya. God bless all of you.
OMG ...I hope things go in your favor. You will be in my prayers and the judge too so that he may find it in his heart to be compassionate. Please check back with us ASAP that way we'll know it well. God Bless you!
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I wish you lots of luck in court tomorrow!! I'll say a little prayer and keep you in my thoughts!!
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oh sweety your one of the best girls that i have ever met here on pto and i love the advise that you give us i sure will miss you but you know what GOD IS BIG and i BELIEVE IN HIM and i know that he will be right there with you to confort you in your time of need everything will be alright I pray that this judge is compasionate and he will not take you in in jesus name amen!!! im gonna pm you my address so u can write me ok incase of anything
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So I've been talking to this guy in New York for almost 6 months. Which I know is a short time. To make a long story short, we have become best friends and I feel like i'm falling inlove with him... He tells me he loves me and wants to start his life all over with me. He gets out next year. Our issue is he's in New York and I'm in California. He said he won't be able to parole to California unless he has immediate family here (which he doesn't) or unless he marries me. We plan on getting married in the future any way. Lifes a risk right? Ofcourse everything sounds so wonderful when their locked up. We don't have a past. So everything is great...
I was just wondering what you would do in this situation? Would you marry him?
Is this some kind of joke?

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I'll be praying for you! Hopefully the judge will give you a second chance.
I admire your humour and strength girl. I'd be a mess if I were you.
Stay strong and best of luck ((hugs))
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I hope everything works out for you tomorrow in court i'll say a prayer for you.
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Awwwwwwwww Wendy! I hope things go well for you tomorrow. I hate to see anyone go to jail! IF you have to, hopefully it won't be for long.

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Well if you don't go to jail you just make sure the very first thing you do is get on line here and leave us all a message. Ok?

And I will look forward to seeing your message tomorrow!
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I hope it wont come to that. I will be praying for you!!

I sure hope that we will all see you post after court.
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Wendi sweets, I hope all goes well for you today, I will be thinking about you and hopefully it won't come to that.
I love your humor and the way you look at things ....... and hell, you already got the makeup plan in place. That made me smile. I hope if you go, it won't be for long.
Hopefully, You will be back on later today with a nice happy update for all of us. Keep your head up girl, we're all here waiting for you.
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I will be sending up some prayers for you- I really hope that things will work out good for you and that you will be right back here on PTO where so many of us look forward to your presence. Stay strong!
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Oh noooo...I'm so sad I didn't see this last night I want to write if you do go...Hun you know I have so much love for you. I am going to pray for you all day. You are such a great person that I know God will do what is best for you. Please update us ASAP....
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It's not the sunday comics you can use for makeup...it's magazines!
You guys are just the best...really i have grown up on PTO and in doing so i find this is one place i can open up and be honest,although it may be a little late in coming, i do dance with all of you.
If some of you remember back in December i had a quick fling with one of those hunky macho men i seem to be so drawn to.
Well i was still seeing him, but only on a platonic plane,hmmm..."platonic plane"...that could be a great name for a band,huh?
So in january i accompanied him on a job he got sawing down some trees on a guys property along the carmel river. This guy had a vineyard and after he paid B, he also gave each of us a bottle of his wine and he did say it had a little more "kick" to it than other wines...
ok, im an alcoholic, and so is B. We went back to my house and he left his bottle of wine, but me...i opened one bottle, drank it, then proceeded to drink the other.
I was blacked out, got behind the wheel of my car, and had a head on collision with another drunk driver.
Long story short the other driver, an 18 year old is claiming he has bodily injury which makes my DUI a felony. My public defender says how can he say that when he said in the police report that after the crash he came and checked on me, then ran back to his car because it was rolling into the creek, he failed to stop it, then came back to me, checked on me, helped me out of the car and to the side of the road so if he had injuries, how could he have done that?
The police report puts me at fault because i went over the yellow line.
So, this was my 3rd appearance...the DA is having trouble proving i injured the young man so i go back on July 9, and will have a jury trial.
i gotta log off, and log back on i am at the library...hang on...
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Shhyy...t...library closes in 5 minutes
So i have accepted i was wrong to drink and drive and i take responsibilty for this.
My PD says i may have to do 30 days in county...maybe.
i have to meet with her in 2 weeks.
To my fellow PTO's in recovery...THINK BEFORE YOU DRINK!
I hate drunk driver's and guess who became one? Yes, me.
I was sooooooooooo wrong to have picked up, i dont care how many stressors i had/have going, there is no excuse.
See you tommorow and thank you all for your support, even when i was in the wrong.
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I am glad you're not sitting in county right now but it does sound like you may have to serve a few days.
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Wendy, thanks for sharing. Relapse is never good is it? Sharing what you did may have helped one of us in recovery avoid one. We love you! And you have all of our support.
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I'm sorry you are going through all of this...but I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Even the strongest of us mess up and relapse, but the most important thing is that you learn from your mistake and nobody was seriously hurt or killed. This situation might very well be saving your life. As I said in my previous post I have so much luv for you Hun. Do not let this bring you down, learn from it and move on. You know that no matter what happens we all have your back. I wish you the very best...you are now and will remain in my prayers.

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