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Old 01-05-2008, 05:19 AM
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My kealoha leaves the TX SAFP to a halfway hse in Feb. Ive written LOTS of letters- he returns very few.
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Old 01-05-2008, 05:37 AM
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Hes gotten increasingly distant. Yest he told me to BACK OFF and "respect his space". Lotsa anger and HIS needs
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Old 01-05-2008, 05:42 AM
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Im very hurt AGAIN as hes still got that passive/agressive, selfish, addict behavior. Im ready to walk! Anyone else seen this w/ a loved one in treatment or am I jst lucky?
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Old 01-05-2008, 06:27 AM
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JMO But you are LUCKY . he has told you his feelings. Now run like the wind.
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Old 01-08-2008, 07:45 AM
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Put that way, I guess I AM lucky! I just might have to run, bt damn its hard after 5yrs of loving him. Hes been sober for over a yr- BEFORE he had to go to rehab!
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Old 01-08-2008, 07:15 PM
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Mahina..are you in recovery?
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Old 01-11-2008, 06:05 AM
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No. I dont use ANY substances, including alcohol. Why do you ask?
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Old 01-14-2008, 07:45 PM
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Im very hurt AGAIN as hes still got that passive/agressive, selfish, addict behavior. Im ready to walk! Anyone else seen this w/ a loved one in treatment or am I jst lucky?
I left mines Now I miss him! i DON'T know what awaits me but I been through him addicted to drugs and jail for six years!!Peechuzz good luck !! you have to make a descision.
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Old 01-19-2008, 04:57 AM
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Mines been a 5yr journey, peechez. I admire your strength. And I may do the same. Of course Ill miss him and hope we can be friends. Are you 2 still friends?
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Old 01-19-2008, 05:06 AM
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Mahalo Mahina. If my guy was asking for space that close to going to a hwh, Id give him space alright, lots of it.
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Old 01-19-2008, 05:11 AM
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Lol! Thats what Ive done...said HE can contact ME if & when he wants to. Hes never once said ty in words and Im tired of understanding!
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Old 01-19-2008, 05:17 AM
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Seems even when theyre sober, those addictive behaviors live on. I helped thru the worst...hes on his own now.
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He will contact you if and when he wants to!!! He sounds like a jerk to me. Let me guess now that he doesn't need you to send him money anymore and get him through his lonely days he doesn't need you?? You deserve better than him. I would move on....even though we all know it's so hard to do.
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Old 05-02-2008, 04:08 AM
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Well, its a couple months later and hes almost done w/rehab. Thats what his "friends" said. He hasnt talked to me...
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