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Old 04-17-2018, 06:13 AM
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yours inmate get mad if you talk to other peple in same jail ....we not boyfriedn or girlfriend but he mad jealous he been
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Old 04-17-2018, 06:15 AM
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I only speak with the lady & gentleman from the visitation office, that's it... no reason to get jealous especially if your are not in a bf/gf relationship.... a bit controlling it seems...
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Old 04-17-2018, 06:28 AM
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No my husband never got mad at me over being friendly with other inmates. I would say hello and mainly if I was visiting I really only spoke to him unless we had to share a table and then it was friends of his anyway.
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Hi am from pennslvannai 34 an talk to three inmates but have talk to sevral others in past was quite exeperince ,,just here to fool around an learn things of ppl lock up lol :d,,
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yours inmate get mad if you talk to other peple in same jail ....we not boyfriedn or girlfriend but he mad jealous he been
If you are talking to other men in the same jail/prison I would imagine that some men might get angry about that. Reading your other posts I get the idea you are talking to quite a few people in the same place. Inmates tend to get very territorial about their pen pals/friends because they have so little of their own and even more so if they have romantic feelings toward you. That’s why most people don’t recommend you write to more than one inmate in the same prison or even the same state. If I were you I’d pick one and concentrate on that person, especially since you posted one was going to fight another because of it.

To be honest....it sounds like you are playing games (fooling around) with multiple people. Just stop.
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If you are talking to other men in the same jail/prison I would imagine that some men might get angry about that. Reading your other posts I get the idea you are talking to quite a few people in the same place. Inmates tend to get very territorial about their pen pals/friends because they have so little of their own and even more so if they have romantic feelings toward you. That’s why most people don’t recommend you write to more than one inmate in the same prison or even the same state. If I were you I’d pick one and concentrate on that person, especially since you posted one was going to fight another because of it.

To be honest....it sounds like you are playing games (fooling around) with multiple people. Just stop.
Wow I totally didn't see what she was saying!!! Revised post is yeah he would have had serious issues if I was playing the games you seem to be.
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I feel its breeding grounds for disaster. JMO...
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I dont even want to talk to other visitors.
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He's not my inmate, he's my husband. But my confusion in your post is this: what do you mean by "talk to". Back in the day it used to mean converse. But now people use it to mean develop a relationship/date/hang out with. So what do you mean by "talk to"?
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I dont even want to talk to other visitors.


The only „conversation“ I have with other visitors is when going through the gates for visiting.
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Not really. But I talk to everyone. But I know not to tell anyone any personal business about my husband. This site is different because No One knows me or him. But the people there would obviously know him ans if their loved one is an enemy of my husband then I could have possible gave them info about something they needed to know. So I don't say much about him to anyone.
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In my opinion it can be a sticky situation. When I visit my bae I speak to only the females that I know that come there and visit like I am. That's it! many of us have been seeing each other for years but as far as inmates. NOPE! its not something I do at all. And plus they don't even speak to me. They could be talking to my man about something and look right through me. Its like one of those respect things. Maybe its different because you are just a pen pal but I guarantee someone will get jealous eventually and next thing you know all hell will break loose. Someone is gonna want you to be "Exclusively" their pen pal and not the entire compounds.
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Hm, no. I actually sometimes send cards his his cellie or other people he thinks need some encouragement. He only gets a bit pissy when he feels I'm getting too close with one of his friends. His best friend to be precise.
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I once had two penpals who ended up in the prison and unit. It was cool though as they knew about each other and so it was fine.
The problems come when you are playing attention seeking and jealousy games. Thats plain wrong. Its bad enough in prison without someone playing attention seeking games and messing with their heads.
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When my husband left his prison he actually passed my number to his best friend there so I could update him. His friend ended up in the same halfway house as M did, but M and I had been cut off from communication in any way by his parole officer. His friend D actually texted me updates about M (but no direct messages.)

See, M has known me since I we were 11 and knows I've basically always liked him though I was essentially "one of the guys." Like literally, all my close friends are male. And yet I've loved him since I was 12- 23 years ago. So he doesn't worry about me talking to any other guys.

Unfortunately M didn't do well in the halfway house due to missing assignments from ADD. So he's heading back to prison. But I'm sure that if he gets another chance out he may give my number again.
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