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Old 03-11-2020, 07:06 PM
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Of course, I totally get you. Mine was attacked about 2 years ago and he was in protective custody twice even though he was in Medium at the time... It's hard and I know... I do worry and think also about him but after being in this crap for those years I've decided at one point that no crazy worry can make me change things so I started to relax. Not always easy, you are after all dealing with prison and especially a lot of idiots in there

i just want to know that hes ok i dont know why all of a sudden im getting this silent treatment whats really bothering me is the fact that there is no way to find out whats going on. im going on with my life watch all kinds of movies, crocheting going shopping not much i can do cause im disabled but that constant not knowing is right there with me
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Old 03-11-2020, 08:43 PM
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They've now cancelled all visits for CDCR facilities until further notice due to the Coronavirus. So that means I am not going next weekend to surprise him.
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Old 03-12-2020, 07:46 AM
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They've now cancelled all visits for CDCR facilities until further notice due to the Coronavirus. So that means I am not going next weekend to surprise him.

this virus has everyone going crazy.
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Old 03-21-2020, 02:34 PM
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Mine got transferred from jail to prison on February 24th I mailed in my phone bill immediately I'm still waiting to be approved for my phone calls at least we have been emailing through the kiosk that's the only communication besides our weekly snail mails
Yesterday he just got transferred to the Work Camp so I mailed my visitation form today even though I know in person visitation is on hold they will approve a video visitation so by the time the 30 days it takes to approve the farm possibly less it could go either way whether it'll be a video or in-person visitation hoping I get a phone approval before then
That's how slow Florida is
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Old 03-28-2020, 11:06 AM
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Although I sympathize with everyone not being able to visit their loved ones due to the virus I think you should be focused on how grateful you are to having been and soon will be able to again visit at all. As for me I can't visit visit my man at all, not once, not even through the glass as we are co-defendants & for me never having a criminal record of any kind to becoming a convicted felon over night losing my nursing career & having my entire life taken from me on top of being told that I will not physically be able to even set eyes on the only person I have in this life for years is truly devastating. The letters and the phone calls help but when everything is gone & your sitting all alone feeling helpless & discouraged with no one to talk to, no shoulder to lean on no one to simply just give u hug & some encouragement. I would give anything, absolutely anything to be able to hug him for even a second or look into those eyes of his for even a second cause that's the only thing that has ever made me feel like everything will be ok. So be grateful for the visits you have & the visits you know will have soon as the ban is lifted, and be grateful your not me
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Old 03-28-2020, 12:08 PM
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Idk what you're going through exactly, but we are all here for you to lean on and offer support. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I have no guarantee of visitation. I have no guarantee of release. But I do have phone calls and letters and am still happier with those than any other man in person.
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Old 03-28-2020, 04:19 PM
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I am really missing him today. JPay has been offline at his facility for the past two days due to coronavirus precautions. Which makes me wonder how much longer it will be before they restrict phone usage for the same reasons. It’s hard to go from hearing about the little details of his day — what he ate for dinner or what he’s watching on tv — to hearing absolutely nothing and wondering if he’s even okay. It’s not just that I miss him because I ALWAYS miss him. It’s that I feel like my best friend has just been taken away and the worst part is that I have no idea how long these restrictions will last. A week? Two weeks? Months? I was never much of a religious person in the past but I admit that I prayed today.
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Old 04-25-2020, 11:22 PM
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My fiance and I have been separated since January28th. This has been awful. Him being away has put so much stress on me and my kids that my already poor health has suffered. He calls everyday at least once so that helps but we miss eachother so much. Yesterday he calls and tells me that he signed his post release papers and that they were dated April 17,2020. He wanted me to be excited but I can't get my hopes up. Neither on of this knows what it really means since his projected release date it in June
I wish there was some guidance about the release procedure that could give us an idea is he coming home sooner rather than later.
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Old 07-04-2020, 08:08 PM
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Really missing my man tonight. Community gathering, but why bother going without him? I won't enjoy it. If I had friends invite me somewhere, yeah, but not like this. He's in a depressed state too. The good news is I know how to handle it now, that it's not me. It just hurts I'm not there to comfort him. I need him around the house too. Having to do everything myself is empowering but time consuming and annoying. I just really really miss my baby tonight.
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Old 07-07-2020, 01:06 PM
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Hi all! I don't know where to put this so please feel free to move as necessary. Just have to say to ppl that would understand that i MISS my D SO SO SO much!! I always have, but now with all the restrictions b/c of COVID-19, and no end in sight, it feels so far and endless...I just want to go on visit SO bad!! I want to see him in person, hear him in person, hug him, laugh together...I hate not even being able to plan a visit..and not knowing when or even if i'll be able to go see him in person again...it's breaking my heart..its already hard enough that he's in prison and all the restrictions that come with it, but now this too! idk...it's just so hard and no one gets it unless they're in the same spot, so, anyone else going thru this? : (
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Old 07-07-2020, 02:08 PM
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I am totally going through it as I was visiting my girl every weekend and any chance I could. All that stopped and no end in sight before for any visits. She is up for release soon so we will not have any visit drama anymore, but damn I do miss her. Its been over 120 days since I have seen her face.
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Old 07-07-2020, 06:14 PM
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There's a forum for missing your man under husbands and boyfriends
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I miss my baby so much. I got my first video today and I cried cause I missed he even more than I thought! I haven't seen him since our wedding which is crazy!
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Old 07-20-2020, 06:40 PM
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Missing my baby SO much lately - I'm at the point where no (always delayed) JPay or phone call or handwritten letter feels sufficient anymore. Of course I appreciate them and still look forward to hearing his voice, but I wish I could just hug him, look him in his eyes, see him smile, SOMETHING, you know?
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Old 07-20-2020, 06:53 PM
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Missing my baby SO much lately - I'm at the point where no (always delayed) JPay or phone call or handwritten letter feels sufficient anymore. Of course I appreciate them and still look forward to hearing his voice, but I wish I could just hug him, look him in his eyes, see him smile, SOMETHING, you know?
Hopefully we will have visits soon i haven't heard anything about them in a while nothing has been posted and they are down to due to that
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Missing my baby SO much lately - I'm at the point where no (always delayed) JPay or phone call or handwritten letter feels sufficient anymore. Of course I appreciate them and still look forward to hearing his voice, but I wish I could just hug him, look him in his eyes, see him smile, SOMETHING, you know?
Try to look for the blessings and the good things. It's a great time to be creative with communication. This too shall pass
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Tomorrow is our anniversary. 1st one we won't see each other or at least within a few days of it. I didnt expect it to bother me, but it does. We are all in the same boat. It just sucks.
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Old 07-22-2020, 01:43 PM
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Havent seen him since Feb, I miss him SO much.
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Tomorrow is our anniversary. 1st one we won't see each other or at least within a few days of it. I didnt expect it to bother me, but it does. We are all in the same boat. It just sucks.
Awww Happy Anniversary hope you and your husband will be able to make it up soon have you heard about visits yet
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