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Old 10-07-2018, 05:40 PM
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How does he keep contacting you if you’ve “blocked him on everything”? You’re leaving a key in the flowerpot for him somewhere.

I said I blocked him after the last hot and cold incident.
It says it right there
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Old 10-08-2018, 10:40 AM
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So sad. If he is not a narcissist, his traits are really high. Good for you for maintaining. I've done and been through the EXACT same thing.
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Old 10-08-2018, 11:02 AM
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Yes you're right.
I've gone no contact again.
I had a moment of weakness.

I think he's a narcissist- I know everyone says that their ex is a narc- but in this case it's actually true lol
I've blocked him on everything.
Trying to stay strong- I do well with NO contact with him, when I talk to him in any way I get sucked back in.

Everything is still good- my other trip is still on, school is good etc
I'll just keep going!

Understandable! Contact is my weakness as well. I have phone calls scheduled for Fridays at 3:30pm with my ex so he can talk to our daughter, and I actually dread knowing there's a chance he might call. I imagine that with time it will get easier, especially if you stick to the "no contact" part.

Just focus on yourself!
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Old 10-08-2018, 04:49 PM
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So sad. If he is not a narcissist, his traits are really high. Good for you for maintaining. I've done and been through the EXACT same thing.
The good news is that I'm becoming sick to death of this fool!
He's becoming boring and annoying to me.
Thankfully-
That's far better than crying my eyes out over this idiot lol
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Old 10-14-2018, 03:30 PM
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Just giving an update for anyone who is following and cares about what happens in this train wreck lol

I haven't contacted him.
I went on a date last night- I wasn't really looking to meet someone new; but this guy is really cool so I went.
He's great- tall, gorgeous, really old fashioned and a complete gentleman.
He has a good day job and works on his MBA part time.

Anyway we went out for dinner and then went for a walk-
He kissed me by the river under a street lamp while it was snowing.
It was a really beautiful moment and I really needed something like that.
Not sure what will happen- just kinda going with the flow
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