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Old 09-20-2015, 01:34 AM
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i went to visit today and he looked bad. i called the day captain and told them he needed to be in the hospital. they said he needed to put in a sick call. well he did.
just thought id let you know. i guess we can close my account now. having yall got me thru it. But he is free now.
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i dont even know what the next step is.
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I'm probably one of the few ones up already since I'm in Europe so my deepest condolences. I'm so so sorry. Did they tell you what happened? Again, I'm very sorry!
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So very sorry for your loss. God be with you! Prayers from Tampa.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, jadah. I can't even imagine how you must feel right now. I understand that you might want to close your account now but we are here for you if you need us Please take care of yourself.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss and sending you prayers from the UK.
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I am so sorry for your loss. {{{hug}}}
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I believe you are living one of all of our worst nightmates and I am terribly, terribly sorry. My heart is breaking for you and for his family
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The sad thing is his family never visited except his mom before she died. All 12 years was the only one.
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Ohh no I'm so so sorry for you!! Was he sick for a while or anything? I'm here for you too and I'm sorry this happened. We will all be here for you because we love and care about you.
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My condolences...praying for you to find peace and comfort at this time. I know this is a very hard time and sorry you have to go thru it.
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The crazy thing is all my husband's buddies inside had their wives contact me and one even came to sit at the funeral home with me. ...The people that I've told all have said, " you don't need to be by yourself..." The thing is, this journey was just me and him together doing it our way on our terms, alone.
My husband was at peace, he knew he was loved, he knew who cared for him and he knew who was waiting for him.
I don't regret a thing. Yall were instrumental in keeping me sane. i will keep you posted.
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I'm so sorry you are living this nightmare. I'm glad he was able to find peace and passed safe in your love.
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