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Old 12-30-2016, 12:19 PM
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... During the visits the sexual energy is very high. I'm sure many of you ladies know what he goes through at a visit.
You ladies aren't the only ones who suffer during visits with spouses! It can be really embarrassing for guys to stand up during a visit!!!

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Old 12-30-2016, 01:02 PM
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You ladies aren't the only ones who suffer during visits with spouses! It can be really embarrassing for guys to stand up during a visit!!!
That's exactly what I meant when I said "what he goes through" because some things can't be hidden. And then they have to strip down right afterward and my fiance gets made fun of by the guards all the time! Lol!
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Old 12-30-2016, 01:17 PM
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That's NOT a roll of quarters in my pocket and I'm VERY glad to see you! ;~)
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Old 12-30-2016, 01:19 PM
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I have loved my man for 34 years and have been apart for 22years with 3 more to go. I have been celibate,and will remain that way until he comes home. He is my soulmate, my love for him is unconditional. And i will stand by him, till my last breathe.
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Welp, been celibate for 3 years and that will be coming to an end in 4 days!
Hallelujah!
I could go longer, sex isn't everything.
I feed off of the emotion aspect of our relationship.
Yes it's been hard, no pun intended.
But, it's going to be great because we've both waited so long.
Hang in there!!!
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Old 01-29-2017, 07:53 PM
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Nope, because I'm polyamorous and he understands that. He is actually my partner and though I have loved him longer than my husband (long story; we grew up in a cult where dating was forbidden and then later were each told that the other was dead) I have never even kissed him yet.
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When I initially wrote this, my husband was in the hospital battling lupus. He died on April 1st. My husband had been too sick to do anything for about eight months prior. Since my husband's death, my relationship to my partner has become official, and we kissed for the first time on June 24th 2016. He is now my one and only. I haven't kissed anyone else but him since my husband passed.

Since my husband was essentially terminally ill, it was always the intention that my partner and I would end up together. I wrote him for the first time in 2010 with that end in mind as long as he would be open to it.
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I have been proudly celibate and will continue to stay that way until my soon to be husband comes home. I have no urge or desire for intimacy with anyone aside from him.
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I have been celebrate! A few toys have kept me sane..I cherish the thought of being with my love when he comes home. The thought of another man touching me makes me cringe.
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Quoting my own post to update.

When I initially wrote this, my husband was in the hospital battling lupus. He died on April 1st. My husband had been too sick to do anything for about eight months prior. Since my husband's death, my relationship to my partner has become official, and we kissed for the first time on June 24th 2016. He is now my one and only. I haven't kissed anyone else but him since my husband passed.

Since my husband was essentially terminally ill, it was always the intention that my partner and I would end up together. I wrote him for the first time in 2010 with that end in mind as long as he would be open to it.
Condolences on losing your husband. I hope your relationship works out.
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This is SO sweet! I know it's been YEARS since you wrote this post. But I would like to know how are you, your husband and your children doing?
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Old 05-26-2018, 11:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story and honesty. The different perspective is nice to see. Not everyone is diehard sexually devoted to their husbands. Because yes, we are human and desires can come up that have MORE to do with companionship than busting a nut.

How are you and your husband doing these days?

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I was faithful until today, its going to be 7 years soon.
But I dont know what will be tomorrow, so I would never say I will stay like this until he come home.
I am a human and I never know what my life will bring.
I love my husband and the chance to stay without sex until he come home is strong.
But I would never blame somebody that go a other way.
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