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View Poll Results: Do you really TRUST your man?
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Old 02-07-2010, 05:47 PM
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I trust him 100%, wholeheartedly. I am no fool, though. I have faith in him, but I am aware that things don't always go as planned. I love every part of him, the good & the bad. I accept him for who he is today and I think that's the key. If I judged him for mistakes he made 15 years ago, I would be headed for the hills. I know he's a wonderful person who has grown, matured, & changed his life. I guess that's why it's been easy to give him my heart.
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I put my trust in him right from the beginning only to have it broken 2 years later. I am slowly rebuilding that trust and he is doing everything humanly possible to gain my trust back. Do I trust him 100%? Not yet. I'm sure over time I will.
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Old 02-09-2010, 09:29 PM
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Awww nikki, I am sorry to hear he was dishonest. You have me all curious now, what did he do?
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I trust eric with everything in me- He's a great guy. And I get along well with his mom and for him to want me to talk to her knowing how much she means to him just shows me alot.
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He swears to me he only loves me but I found out he did recieve some dirty pics from a couple girls?? I am not completly over it. Should I?? It still hurts,
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Like i just posted in another thread. I give a certain amount of trust. Until he breaks that trust. I will trust him with all my heart. Trust is a privliage end of story.
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Well honestly I think you can not trust your man but that its an insecurity. sometimes i feel like i cant trust him but then i realize im paranoid. on my good days i see clearly. lol maybe i have depression
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Old 03-02-2010, 02:39 AM
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Do I trust him? Yes & no. In my life I've sadly been surprised too many times by the actions of people I thought I knew to place 100% trust in anyone anymore.

I want to think the best, but I prepare for the worst. I don't allow it to stop me from loving, but I do love with my eyes purposely & cautiously open.
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Well honestly I think you can not trust your man but that its an insecurity. sometimes i feel like i cant trust him but then i realize im paranoid. on my good days i see clearly. lol maybe i have depression
I feel the exact same way...maybe we are both depressed!!! Kristen
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At first No...but after a while like now....Yea...we still have some grey areas with money and things like that...but to be hones thats things that can be worked on. were not a perfect relationship but we know that and we try to make the best of it..
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Most ladies feel the way u do and if there is an ex or baby mama or watever involved they truely doubt their man until his actions can be justified. we have vowed to each other to be 100% honest and trustworthy after all thats wat makes a relationship work in the first place. wid out those 2 things it doesnt work for long. I dont doubt him at all......I can truely say we trust and keep it honest wid each other always no matter wat.
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yes i trust him. i have been called many things not in the least a fool but what kind of relationship would we have if i was forever doubting him. yes he made some very stupid decisions in his past but if we all judged everyone on thier past what kind of place would we be in now. i know everything is not going to be all rosy when he gets out(baby momma drama) but i know he will never intentionaly hurt me. there will be ups and downs but i trust and love him enough to work at it together.
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I've trusted him with my heart. Need I say ,more?
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Sorry to be negative here, but maybe its just my case and I hope so. My MWI and ihave been together almost twenty months and we talked daily and I visited weekly. Three months into it i found out he was receiving dirty pictures from some one else on his cell phone he had.but i loved him so much so gave him another chance.. These were all his words: I was his soul mate, he never loved any one like he does me, marry when we get out, called every am and ever pm before bed. i meet his mom, my name was tattooed on him, portrait painted of us. Well he has a cell phone and through some investigating, because of his former bobo ifound out that he had at least four others that he told them all of the above, except for getting the tattoos. We are now totally over but he crushed my heart and soul. my mistake was believing, but he was so good at it. But maybe mine was just a snake and if you believe in your man, all should be good!
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I trust him completely. No, I don't know what the future will hold once he's out. We are making plans to be together. I know he loves me. I know in my heart and my gut that he has never lied to me or sugarcoated anything. Will we make it when he gets out? I have no way of knowing that. I do know, though... and do believe him 100% when he says he will do all he can to make me happy. I trust and believe everything he tells me... and until I see otherwise, I have no reason not to.
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I too trust my man. He has never given me any reason to doubt him. Our relationship started on trust and being real with each other. I couldn't be with a man I didn't trust, I would stress too much and that's not a good thing. So to the question Yes I do trust my man and I sure hope he trusts me too, considering I have more chances out here to do whatever than he does in there. Which I would never blow, cause I got a great man whom I love so much and he loves me.
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is it weird to say i trust him with my life but not completely with my heart...ive never trusted any man completely with my heart...
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If I didn't trust my man I wouldn't be wasting my time with him. Thats a big, huge part in a relationship. Yes u will have ur up's and down's but thoes are things that you just have to work on. No relationship is ever perfect and never will be, you just gotta make them the best u can and love and trust eachother deeply.

I agree with you 100%..I wouldnt waste my time and money on him if I didnt trust him & Love him very much. He will be home soon to me though I cant wait! I wish you the best!
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This weekend Malik said that he would never cheat on me, because it would hurt me. Just out of the blue. I believe him now, but I do not think my beautiful, sexy man realizes how thirsty woman can be, and it will be a shock for him when he comes home for sure. That being said, I never have blamed the other woman when I was cheated on, and I would not with him either. They owe me nothing, so hey. If he was to cheat once he came home, I can't even say that would be a dealbreaker. Crazy huh? But, if he ever goes back to jail, I am OUT!! I trust him not to do that, otherwise I could not have married him! I trust him as far as fidelity until I have a reason not to. He has never been faithful to his other woman, so....I am his wife, and he doesn't feed and clothe me like he did them, so...Pray for us!
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Just recently we had a little blip in our relationship where an ex-girlfriend decided to pop back up after several years. The next day was our visit and that was the very first thing he said to me upon entering the visitation room. He has never given me a reason to distrust him in the past, and once again, he pulls through with flying colors! That man has never given me a reason to distrust him, so he will be the one person I trust more than anybody until he gives me a reason not to.
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Yes I trust my man. I trust him more then I have trusted any other man.
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I want to trust him. I still think that he is a man, and as a man it might be hard for him to say no to girls that will be throwing themselves at him. He is hot. Why some girl was giving him googly eyes at a visit. I know part of the attraction for some strange women is that he has someone else too. I trust that he wants to be loyal though. I just don't know if I trust his ability to say no to temptation. We are new in this...so soon I hope we will get there. Good topic for my next letter. Thanks
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Yes I trust my man. That is a hard thing for me to do. He has treated me like no other man ever has. He is truly a man over honor.
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