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Old 05-19-2019, 07:59 AM
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3 weeks before he is released I get blind sided by him for lying to me and his baby mama.. he was telling me and her the exact same things but was telling her me and him were together but promising everything he was promising me but having her keep tabs on me so he knew I wasn't doing him wrong (what a joke huh) then out of no where his ex girlfriend before me pops up and he tells both me and his baby mama that he dont want to be with either of us that hes been lying to us both and wants to be with his ex.. funny enough once he told this girl (who already knew about me) that he left me and blah blah blah she stopped communicating with him.. then me and his baby mama talked and hes trying to now pin me and her against eachother claiming im lying to her and shes lying to me and blah blah blah.. im so broken hearted.. but ill be fine.. once I found everything out all my love for him disappeared.. dont get me wrong I love him but im far from in love with him now.. he called me 30 times yesterday all day trying to keep me on the loop.. I answered to get my frustration and anger out most of the time but by the end of the evening I was so pissed and hurt I was just screaming at him and he started saying mean things to me so I blocked the prisons number.. im done.. like done done and he thinks by continuing to call and email even after I blocked the number im going to answer.. hes wrong..


but I was fine before him and ill be fine now.. I got me.. I have a few amazing friends and my kids and my job.. my home.. im good..


thank you all for your amazing support on this crazy journey.. it means so much and I feel stupid and ashamed that I let him in and I believed his lies.. he admitted everything and is trying to take it back to save face.. I feel so low as a person but in time itll be ok..

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Don’t you dare feel stupid and ashamed lady you hear me .... you have done nothing wrong except give your heart and support to a man who did not deserve it.

It sounds you are better off without this guy trying to string multiple women along. Telling you all lies. If a man loves you he will give his heart 100%.
This fool has lost you he knows it and and now he is trying to cause drama and salvage something for himself. Walk away head held high. You now have the space for the right person to come into your life. Good luck and take good care of you.
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Good for you!! Where was he expecting to parole to when he got out? I'm betting he's Shi***** his pants trying to figure that all out now since it sounds like he's screwed over all the women in his life. Then again there could be a 4th ya'll don't even know about yet I suppose.

If it makes you feel better I was once in a similar situation minus the prison aspect. Met a guy online. He lived in another state but literally visited nearly every weekend for like four months and we talked online for several hours almost every night. At some point he told me he was going away for work. In reality his other girlfriend was visiting and he didn't want me calling. She too lived in another state and felt something had been off so while he was gone at work one day she went snooping and found out about me. She left his house, got him and started emailing me. He played the game for a while telling each of us that he broke up with the other until we touched base again and discovered that too was a lie. The other girl had also found out there was a local girl to him he was dating and who ended up moving in with him! Oh and did I tell you that I didn't even have his real name?? The name I had was one from a guy he knew in high school (can't remember now if the guy was dead or alive, this was nearly 20 years ago). So as foolish as you feel just know it happens to others sometime too with scumbags.
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You said it so well "I GOT ME"!!! Yes! You truly do got you and you'll still make it without him and his BS!! I'm glad he showed his TRUE colors to you though. Most men think they can have the cake and eat it too. He thought he'll never get caught up in his lies and when it came full circle he wanted to back track and try to pin y'all against one another. Instead of y'all coming together and going against his ass instead. He deserves everything that he's getting right now. It's one thing I want you to know hun. That to never feel stupid, ashamed or low about what this man did to you. We all believed what a man has told us once or twice in our lives while in a relationship. Thinking that the lies that was told was the truth and to find out later it was just lies without no truth behind it. None of this is your blame and never feel that way at all. You should feel that you save yourself a lot of frustration and drama. Saved yourself a lot of heart ache and now you can move forward and leave him behind you where he needs to be left at! If anything he should feel stupid, ashamed, low and not you feeling this way about yourself. You didn't do anything wrong here. At least he admitted it and not try to play dumb. I'm happy your moving forward and not taking any of his foolery from him. Your strength is HIGH and that's something no one can ever break! Even though your hurting right now, but that hurt will fade away in no time. Stand tall and strong my sister! You are a QUEEN and no man can remove your crown from you. He lost a good woman and he'll continue to keep losing while you out here WINNING! He didn't deserve a woman of your caliber at all. He doesn't deserve no one. Your heart is made of gold and he don't deserve to have your heart. When you never had his heart in the first place! Hun hold your head up high!!! You got a lot going on for yourself and that's something he can't never break or take away from you.
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Im sorry but not sorry.
He does not deserve any of you.
Good riddance.


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It hurts now but for sure in the long run you will see that you are SO much better off without him! I just don't understand people....do they really think they'll be able to get away with sh!t like this, prison or no prison?! Have my own experience with this kind of garbage in the free world (a long time ago)...left him in eating the dust & never looked back.

Hang in there and good for you for blocking him - you WILL be fine and he's going to have to deal with Ms Karma alright Hugs!
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I know what you are going through. I had to break up with my girlfriend because she was lying to me about everything. Just keep your head up
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Who has the time and energy for this complicated web-weaving BS? You may have been blindsided but it was the best thing that could have happened to you. Enjoy your freedom.
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I know that it hurts, dear. This too shall pass. I know too, that everyone who looks for trouble ultimately finds what they're looking for. Up ahead in the distance he has troubles that are waiting on him and if he hasn't had of that already he'll land himself in that one jam...that one problem...that one unforeseen nightmare in waiting he won't be able to walk away from. How do I know that? Because I know what I know. For guys like him that get a kick outta causing drama.....somewhere along the path of life your destiny of drama awaits you and by the time it gets through jerking a knot in your dumb #ss.....you won't want no more of that. For him and others like him that take advantage of our PTO living angels that walk the earth who are a blessing in the lives of many.....LIFE'S GOT SOMETHING IN STORE FOR YOU JUST AS IT DOES FOR ALL WHO BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS THEM.
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Oh crap, I'm really sorry.
But you said one very important thing on here: you've got you!

Stay with that and you'll be fine.
Give yourself time to grieve and time to heal and time to kick this guy in the balls virtually until you feel better
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oh wow, it's his loss!! You're absolutely correct that you have YOU and you're gonna be more than just fine!
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now... hes trying to get our mutual friend to get me to talk to him because he found out his baby mama and his ex girlfriend conspired to break us up and now hes said to her "shes the most amazing woman I was with and I fucked that all up for nothing" welp… that shits on him.. im just over his shit.. its all packed up and in his truck.. emailed him he can come get it when he gets back in town and that im moving on.. he played so many games and got caught up and is now being made a fool and well.. karmas a bitch..
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I want to laugh but I wont.
too bad too sad. Yep, he screwed the pooch.
YOU? You dodged a bullet there.
Keep on doin you.


Might tell your friend who's in contact with him, that nah......Im good. No need to talk with him.



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now... hes trying to get our mutual friend to get me to talk to him because he found out his baby mama and his ex girlfriend conspired to break us up.

Yes! Queen, handle that like a true strong woman my sister. He's a straight up dam fool and been one for the longest. Already getting hit with his karma and will continue to be stalked by KARMA!
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It's always best to catch them while still serving their sentence so they can stew in their misery in there knowing the ride won't be so comfy anymore! lmdao. But these types are so relentless I am sure under his bid he will find others. Some of these men even help each other get women or have their family and friends find them fresh prey these types are good at getting what they want and need by any means.
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I'm sorry to hear that..mines lied to me , all while he kept in contact with his high school sweetheart!! we MWI got married only to divorce AFTER 9 years, i loved him with all my heart😢
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I'm sorry to hear that..mines lied to me , all while he kept in contact with his high school sweetheart!! we MWI got married only to divorce AFTER 9 years, i loved him with all my heart
I'm very sorry this happened to you. It must be very painful I can't believe after 9 years he would do this. He doesn't deserve you!
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I see that he's due out tomorrow.
Im not sure if you are still broken up but wanted to give you a shout out to hold strong if you are. (and thats what you want)

I hope someone came and got his *stuff* for him so you dont have to see him if you dont want to.
I'd probably even plan to NOT be there when he came for his things if someone has not already done it for him.


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I see that he's due out tomorrow.
Im not sure if you are still broken up but wanted to give you a shout out to hold strong if you are. (and thats what you want)

I hope someone came and got his *stuff* for him so you dont have to see him if you dont want to.
I'd probably even plan to NOT be there when he came for his things if someone has not already done it for him.


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no no one came and got his stuff.. its been a very confusing and stressful few weeks.. hes called me and we discussed a lot.. I actually ended up being a real asshole and did something stupid because I was hurt and now he needs my help to fix it. I am picking him up tomorrow and we will spend the 4 hour drive talking.. I told him he owed me an apology to my face not just over the phone and he agreed to do it. tomorrow is going to be very bittersweet yet stressful. I had been looking forward to this day for so long and now.. its got this dark cloud hanging over it. we aren't officially back together but we aren't not discussing the potentiality of getting back together at some point.. I told him he has a lot to prove to me and show me before I could just trust him or love him like I did.. we have a ways to go before I can even truly consider anything. i am very very very guarded still and have a very hard time believing anything he says. so who knows where this will end up.. i just know.. i refuse to be hurt any longer.. i told him from this point forward.. its one day at a time.. and one time i catch him in any lie.. even the smallest one.. im no longer giving any effort.. and he said he understood.. so say a small prayer for me that tomorrow goes atleast ok. my nerves are shot and i have cried on and off all morning from everything.. im nervous.. scared.. anxious.. excited. everything.. but its all topped off by fear...
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no no one came and got his stuff.. its been a very confusing and stressful few weeks.. hes called me and we discussed a lot.. I actually ended up being a real asshole and did something stupid because I was hurt and now he needs my help to fix it. I am picking him up tomorrow and we will spend the 4 hour drive talking.. I told him he owed me an apology to my face not just over the phone and he agreed to do it. tomorrow is going to be very bittersweet yet stressful. I had been looking forward to this day for so long and now.. its got this dark cloud hanging over it. we aren't officially back together but we aren't not discussing the potentiality of getting back together at some point.. I told him he has a lot to prove to me and show me before I could just trust him or love him like I did.. we have a ways to go before I can even truly consider anything. i am very very very guarded still and have a very hard time believing anything he says. so who knows where this will end up.. i just know.. i refuse to be hurt any longer.. i told him from this point forward.. its one day at a time.. and one time i catch him in any lie.. even the smallest one.. im no longer giving any effort.. and he said he understood.. so say a small prayer for me that tomorrow goes atleast ok. my nerves are shot and i have cried on and off all morning from everything.. im nervous.. scared.. anxious.. excited. everything.. but its all topped off by fear...
I'm praying for you!! You get your tears out now. Don't show those type of emotions in front of him, because he doesn't deserve to see your hurt in that way. He deserves to see how hurt you are in a different way instead. You speak to him through your strength and you hold yourself together through the pain you went through dealing with him. If anything you make him feel bad about everything! Even if he say he understands..make him truly GET IT! You got this alright? It's nothing wrong with you being very, very, very guarded. When you get hurt badly this what happens. Every brick that creates a wall will fully go up. That's something he will have to understand and deal with as well. Because he's the one that built that wall of yours! All you can do is take it a day at a time. 1 Step slowly forward with anything from here on out. To also play everything he says for now on by ear. If your heart, mind and your gut is giving you signals that something isn't right. You truly know that it isn't! I wish you the best of luck girl. At the end of the day you didn't deserve this treatment. But don't you allow this treatment to make you ever forget what type of woman you are at the END! If he truly want something with you or for you to truly trust/forgive him. LET HIM PUT IN THAT WORK!!!!! He has to earn every bit of you back! Regardless how he goes by trying to do it.
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People treat us the way we let them treat us. I don't mean to be harsh and I know not every situation is black & white...but, if you read this thread's first post and now the last one - sometimes we keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result when the harsh reality is that we should have more love for ourselves and move on to better people and better situations. Then again....everyone has the right to decide for themselves .
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no no one came and got his stuff.. its been a very confusing and stressful few weeks.. hes called me and we discussed a lot.. I actually ended up being a real asshole and did something stupid because I was hurt and now he needs my help to fix it. I am picking him up tomorrow and we will spend the 4 hour drive talking.. I told him he owed me an apology to my face not just over the phone and he agreed to do it. tomorrow is going to be very bittersweet yet stressful. I had been looking forward to this day for so long and now.. its got this dark cloud hanging over it. we aren't officially back together but we aren't not discussing the potentiality of getting back together at some point.. I told him he has a lot to prove to me and show me before I could just trust him or love him like I did.. we have a ways to go before I can even truly consider anything. i am very very very guarded still and have a very hard time believing anything he says. so who knows where this will end up.. i just know.. i refuse to be hurt any longer.. i told him from this point forward.. its one day at a time.. and one time i catch him in any lie.. even the smallest one.. im no longer giving any effort.. and he said he understood.. so say a small prayer for me that tomorrow goes atleast ok. my nerves are shot and i have cried on and off all morning from everything.. im nervous.. scared.. anxious.. excited. everything.. but its all topped off by fear...
NOOOOO! Nooooooooo!
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