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View Poll Results: Sex or no sex??
My LO and have a open relationship whilst he is gone 15 7.89%
No sex at all with other people 175 92.11%
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Old 06-07-2017, 03:08 PM
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For me, My man knows it's hard out here without him. He knows there will be times when I'm going to desire his touch and his kiss while apart. This may sound crazy to some but when it gets really bad for me....I put it on paper and mail it to him. I put whatever I'm feeling or whatever scene/actions that are floating in my head in a detailed letter. It really helps me because once I play it out on paper I feel better. A few days later...I'll get a detailed letter from him.
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The no sex is VERY hard and I slipped but I do get affection in calls letters and visits. That's what keeps me going and that's why I wait. It's lonely and I find myself hugging my son more at times and I cry and I sleep on the couch sometimes cuz it's smaller and I curl up against the back and imagine him here with me...
I agree.....I get a letter from my baby 3-4 times a week and we talk on the phone Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. You have to keep your mind occupied to keep the devil from using you. It's easy to get caught up in the fact that your loved one is away but like my baby says...."stay focused".
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There are plenty of ways to get sex and affection while your loved one is locked up. You have to think outside the bun sometimes.
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I never had sex before since this inmate is the first person I fell really in love with, so I do fine without sex for I don't actually know what I'm missing. I get a lot of affection by mail, we are creative there, so I get by.
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I wear mines shirts sometimes. I wore one when I saw him. I sleep with his pillow. Sometimes his fedora I cuddle with it. My guy and I write erotic letters to each other along with our sweet ones.
The first sweet letter he wrote me....never has anyone I've dated said such sweet words. Reading it I think I fall in love with him over and over again. Everything I've ever wanted is (not right in front of me right now, but sorta.) there. And I'm happy. Yes I miss him and yes it's not easy. But. His letters and phone calls keep me going.
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There are plenty of ways to get sex and affection while your loved one is locked up. You have to think outside the bun sometimes.
Yes I defiantly agree with you
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The spirit is willing... but the flesh is weak, he made his bed so why should we both have to suffer?? ....steamy letters, phone sex, or I can call up one of my exes [but that's only my last option] ��
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