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View Poll Results: Does your man every cry to you?
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Old 08-09-2008, 09:06 PM
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I don't know if I always believe it, but he says he is okay. He has been down but never cried. The way we were raised,unfortunantly, he would never cry. Eventimes where it would be okay. He won't and hasn't. I almost did once but held back because I knew it would be stress on him.
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Old 08-09-2008, 09:13 PM
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My husband has cried to me, but only because I started crying first. He hates when I cry because he can't do anything about it which makes him upset. Some days I just can't help it though. I try to stay strong for both of us, but it doesn't always work.
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Old 08-10-2008, 08:58 PM
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He has only cried to me once. His nineteen yeard old sister died and he wanted to go the the funeral, but couldn't. Even with that situation, his crying didn't last long. Like Patience, I do believe it is because of how he was raised.
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Old 08-11-2008, 09:22 PM
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He does cry...but most of the times it is without tears.

It's hard for me to see him hurting...but we pray together. We have to be strong. We refuse to let this battle wear us down
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Old 08-11-2008, 09:31 PM
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he used to cry when he first went in;; the only times he cries now is if he hears me crying or sees me cry or if he gets really frustrated when i havent seen him for an extended period of time
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Old 08-21-2008, 10:01 PM
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He has only cried in front of me once and that was before he went in this second time cause it had something to do with his son. if my man has cried in prison he dotn tell me, but if he did i know it is not cause of being in there it is cause he misses me and the boys.
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Old 08-22-2008, 02:59 AM
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He would never break down inside there, but yes i have seen him cry, Real Men cry...
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Old 08-28-2008, 04:15 PM
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Keith has never cried to me...I need him to open up more! So consider yourself lucky. He told me he'd open up to me in a letter tonight, but who knows.
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Old 01-14-2009, 02:04 PM
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Yes the night before he was transported from county to SCDC.And the shirtly after we got back together we were talking about his mom who passed away while he was in there and he cried.
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Old 01-14-2009, 02:45 PM
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The only time he has cried to me since he's been in Prison is when I had to call and tell him his aunt had passed away. That was absolutely the HARDEST thing I think I have had to do...when his other aunt died in April of last year it was (and this might sound weird) but easier for me because I was able to hold him and love on him and try my best to console him. But in Oct. when I had to do that, it ripped my heart out, he started crying and said "I need You" and there was nothing I could do for him. I just kept telling him I loved him and how sorry I was and that I would be there for his mom and with her!! Im crying now just thinking about that day. Other than that he fought it, but I could tell he was trying so hard not to because I started crying, I broke down because this is really hard and I miss him so much I dont know what to do sometimes. All you can do is re-assure him you love him and that you can listen and as soon as you do get a visit you can hold him and make everything better. You're really lucky he only got 6 months too....I dont know what he did but I always try to remind myself it could always be worse. That puts me, and him in check a lot.
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Old 01-14-2009, 03:05 PM
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Yes my man has cried with me for personal reasons, but not while he has been in there. I hate to see him sad, but the tears don't bother me it's part of being a child of God and I love him more for not holding back.
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He's never cried to me before while inside, if he did I'd say yeah, sucks doesn't it. Think about that the next time you wanna take something that isn't yours....
I feel you on this one exactly!!!!
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Old 01-14-2009, 06:43 PM
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He's not cried per say but he will tell me he feels like crying and i've seen his eyes get watery twice but never an actual tear. It would rip my heart out to hear him cry and not be able to hold him.
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Actually he did cry at one visit, now I remember. And it broke my heart because i could only see him through a tv screen! I just wanted to touch this face and wipe his tears away.. and hold him.. hold eachother and it tore me up! it was the worst thing I could have gone through...
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Old 01-14-2009, 09:27 PM
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My fiance cried at our first few visits at county. He cried on the phone a few times , he says he has cried in his cell after reading my letters because he misses us so much. But since he's been in the state prison system i havent seen him cry. I think he would but cannot show his weakness there.
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Old 01-14-2009, 10:54 PM
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He has never cried on the phone with me or in person. If he has cried, I am not aware of it. And I doubt he would tell me if I asked. It would show he was not a tough guy!
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Old 01-14-2009, 11:01 PM
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he's never actually cried but i can tell by his voice he's upset bout something so i cry for him
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i have never seen or heard baby cry before...he tells me he gets emotional over me but i'm not sure what that exactly means...?? i cry to him though...
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He tells me he gets really upset here & there [about his daughter] & TELLS me he cries. There were three times that he's cried that I can honestly remember. The first two being the first phone calls after he was arrested [two separate bids] & the day he was released, he cried into my shoulder.

It breaks my heart but at the same time - it was his fault, you know? I only have so much sympathy in my heart for someone who CHOOSES to do wrong. I wanted to be like.. "Hi, what are YOU crying for? I'm the innocent one [never been in trouble] & I felt like I just did two years myself." JMO.

Hope things get better for the two of you, hun.
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I have seen and heard him cry a few times... he never bawls or anything but I see his eyes water and a tear or two roll down his cheek. He's told me he's gotten "emotional" and cried a few times so far sense being in, all of which were my doing.

As for me, I'm by no means a cry baby but I do cry when something really touches or upsets me. Tonight reading his letter caused a tear or two, but believe me when I say they were not tears of sadness.
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Old 01-15-2009, 01:32 AM
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He has let a tear or two roll down during visit or I hear him getting chocked up whe he calls and it just breaks my heart in two knowing I can't hold him. He has confessed to crying to himself at night in his letters
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Old 01-23-2009, 03:21 AM
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Me and my man have such a spiritual connection that we know when somethings wrong without even talking. We schedule calls but it's like he just knows when I'm feeling really sad or letting my mind run wild with crazy thoughts and he'll call unexpectedly to make sure I'm ok. Really weird! Lol!

The only time that he ever looked close to crying is when he was trying to tell me it would be easier for him to do this bid on his own. He did 7yrs before this one and he's a strong man, but it does help when they know they have someone who loves them and supports them unconditionally.
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Sometimes ur all ur man has and u gotta be eachothers Rock! Stay strong!
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Old 01-23-2009, 03:55 PM
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yes marc has cried to me before. about very personal things. only a couple times, though. but my personal belief is real men DO cry!!!(course i'm not talking about those fake crocodile tears that some men shed)
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Well, my man has cryed when he was in county and I was crying too. we were a mess that visit. In a since I liked it cuz it showed his mushy side, there for awhile I didn't think he had one.LOL It was sad but good too.
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My man (my manly man...lol..) would not. But I have shown him, and he understands, that I know him, I know when he cries silent, dry tears, and he cannot hide them from me. So as he grows more comfortable with his ability to re-evaluate his well ingrained perceptions of manhood, I am sure that one day soon. He might actually bust a tear. lol, but I will not hold my breath.
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