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View Poll Results: how much does your man trust you??
he trusts me 100% 114 49.57%
he trusts me but occassionally has his moments 104 45.22%
hes always questioning me etc & dosent show he trusts me 7 3.04%
he will never trust a female 5 2.17%
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Old 12-29-2009, 12:48 AM
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Prove? In a relationship there is no proving, at least not the way I see it. If I ever have to prove myself, I would think I'm just in the wrong relationship. Ours just works, that's all there is to it. I know without a doubt he loves me, and vice versa. He tells me to do what I feel is right, so I do. He never questions my faithfulness or love for him.
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If you are already in a relationship with someone then you shouldn't have to prove anything to them. If you say that you are faithful, then your word should be enough. If they do not trust or believe you then there is no point in being in a relationship. Very few people (in or out) are worth the pleading that they require.
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I don't have to prove that I'm faithful. He knows I'm faithful and always been loyal to him since day one.
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I don't have too. Relationships are built on trust and we trust each other. He knows how much I love him and I know how much he loves me. We wouldn't hurt each other
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Here's food for thought - how do they prove to YOU that they're faithful?
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Proofs of fidelity are of the same species as proofs of God -- ultimately, no one can prove such a thing to anyone. This doesn't mean a lifetime of misery, doubt, and suspicion, of course. One can rest in the openness of not knowing things with 100 percent certainty. At the same time, one can "know" that one's LO is faithful with an intuitive sense that is hard to define precisely. You "know" by the way you feel held and cared for and valued by him, even when there are long pauses in communication. You feel safe and comforted even with hundreds -- even thousands -- of miles between you.
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Lol. I tell him I am because I am. He believes me because he trusts me. It's that simple.
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You can't.
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Well, I'd been single for 8 years when we met, so what's some more time haha. He trusts me 100%. Plus, I live with his mom, and they're close, so even if I wanted to (and I never ever would), it wouldn't be easy.
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I've been in love with him since we were 12. The only reason I met and married my late husband was because M's parents told me he was dead when he went to prison. M trusts me 100% because I never fell out of love with him.
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I don't need to prove anything, it's a given and we don't even talk about it. If things would change we would talk beforehand.
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He doesn’t ask me to prove anything. When we 1st started seeing each other (several months before he was locked up) we had an open take about stepping out on a relationship and neither of us are a person who would ever think of doing it. Both of us are of the same mindset that if you are not happy with being in the relationship break it off before moving on.
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I don't have to prove anything. He knows I'm faithful and I'm going to stay that way that's part of being in a relationship when he gets out we're getting married. He is in there because he made a mistake when he was with his ex wife he now knows he has a woman that really cares about him
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If we did not trust the other we would not be married that is for sure so I do not need to prove anything to anyone and he would never ask me something like that anyways respect and trust in the other that is one solid base you need in any relationship or marriage ...
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I no it's hard for them when they are in there because they hear all these guys talking telling their stories about what their girl did to them she's cheating and all this i mean i no if i was in there it would probably cross my mind to
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You can’t. Don’t try just move on.
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