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View Poll Results: WHAT WOULD U DO IF ANTHER CHICK WAS VISITING UR MAN?
LEAVE HIM. 1,103 71.62%
FORGIVE HIM, BUT NEVER FORGET. 366 23.77%
FORGIVE HIM, AND BELIVE IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN. 111 7.21%
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Old 06-19-2008, 07:09 PM
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question ladies. let me know have u ever got denyed a visit because your man had anther chick, or his ex up at the jail visiting him? wat did you do? are u still with him? have you ever caught the chick coming out the visit after visting him? just a question ladies, because my man told me one of his cellmates was talking about how he can call his wifey, and chick on the side, and both of them r coming to see him, but donot know about each other. these men are so scandilous its not even funny.
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Old 06-19-2008, 07:32 PM
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Some people don't believe situations like this happen, but they do. As far as what I would do if it happen to me....All I can say is that I keep it real with my man and I would want that same respect.
There comes a point in life where you just not going to stand for a lot of bs and if by some warp logic he think it's okay then it lets me know that he doesn't really care about me like I thought. That right there is a sign you need to move on.
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Old 06-19-2008, 07:32 PM
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NEVER EVER had that happen ... ryry knos better!! he would never disrespect me lyk that !! thats a lil too far fetched!!! lets just say that if i was denied a visit hell would start let alone if i saw a chick walkin out after visiting him .... and i would be writing him in prison from the prison im in after the comotion i would start if i came to see him and some other chick was there too that i didnt kno about !!!
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Old 06-19-2008, 07:46 PM
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First I might be locked up after I foun dout cause I am whipping his ass for sure the first time I get!! I have been with Mack for 8 1/2 years 6 of which he has been locked up. I have been his only visitor out side of his gmom one visit the entire bid. I fly of the handle when his baby mom writes him for no reason, just to check on him. WHY? If the kids write fine or if you updating him about them fine but you don't need to know the status of my man. Mack knows better. He enjoys living to much (smile)

However I know of women who share visits with multiple over females. One girl gets to see her man only when he gvies her permission because his wife or babay mom might want to visit so she is on stand by. This chic is like 45 yrs old chasing after a 22 yrs guy and accepting this drama

Another girl who is my opinion too young to be waiting for a guy in jail is basically is almost doing the same thing. Sh ehas to tell her 'man' in advance when she is coming. She thinks it is cute but what she doesn't realize is he does that so she and his last live-in girlfriend don't run into each other. This is my husband former cell mate. He has the nerve to speak to me and be friendly so I wouldn't say anything to either women. (me and the girlfriend ride with the same van service, the former live in drives and oftens me rides)
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Not enough choices for me to vote. My guy has female friends that visit him and I have zero problems with it. He has had exes see him and when they interfere with our visits sure I get blazing mad, but that has only happened once. And with the ice I gave him I am sure it won't happen again. Now we don't get denied a visit since we have to call and make damn appointments, but I have tried once and a friend of his already was slotted to go. Anywho, now he checks with me to make sure our visits don't get interrupted.
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girl all i know is here in oklahoma if a man is married and is incarcerated another woman cannot be approved unless it is family only!! that is messed up for a person you love to do that anyway.
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Well, he has female friends. But if we are talking about mooore than friends, then I'd think I'd have to forgive him. I dunno know honestly. (as hypocritical as this sounds, some people know what I'm talking about) I might actually leave him.
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i would freak!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is absolutly noooo way i would allow my man to be lying to me like that and forgive him!!!
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that happened to me and i went the next day with my son and told him that that was the last time he was ever gonna see us and walked out. that night he had a c.o. call me up and asked me to talk to cj because he was crying so much and they were worried about him. he begged for my forgiveness and said that it was a friend and she was with another girl who was visiting her man and felt bad so she called him out on a visit. when i got there they denied my visit. i was pissed it was snowing and everything.
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Old 06-19-2008, 08:26 PM
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My husband...another woman visiting him....honestly I would snap the f^^k out...Bad...
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i would leave still be his friend but i would leave him,putting all the time and effort and stress of him being locked up and then he does something like that!! no doubt in my mind i would be mad and just leave.
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I'd forgive him..............After I went sr8 gangsta on him and her too if she knew we were a couple! He wouldn't do it though =D
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oh man if get her first then him...just cuz the bm ex knows about me and he knows better than that.hmmm i may be sweet but i got spice too let me tell ya
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Leave him. Im at my limit as it is so one wrong move Im history he'll be dreaming of the days he had a good woman but wont know where i disappeared to.
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I've never had it happen to me... But he has asked me if I would be ok with his baby momma coming to bring his kids to see him when he was in county jail, and since I was going out of town anyway, and he wouldn't be getting a visit from me, I told him yea, ok.. but I didn't want her coming back...and he was ok with that, and I never did see her coming to visit again.. Cause I never missed visiting him after that. I've seen more than one women visiting an inmate before, and the guards knowing , that some inmates have more than one female visitor, most times at the same visit. I've seen many a fight.. inside a jail while visiting... I mean HELLO!!!! Didn't common sence kick in and say, HEY! you're going to jail... To me there's no point in fighting over a man, and having your freedom taken away...

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hes got friends and he gets lonely? i for sure know i dont get there to visit him often, so no im not going to be mad if another female is visiting him. hes going to do what he wants to do -- just have to trust him! theres not too much he could do on a visit with another female if he wanted to..
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I wouldnt and couldn't stand for this! Maybe this is Ok with others because that is their relationship that they have formed but if I ever caught it aint nothing going to form but my size 6 shoe in his a@@ that's for sure! I've made him even send me his approved visiting list with everyone's name on it once because I thought this chick was going up there and I even sat outside the jail on his visiting days and waited to be the last group to go up! Because this chick was scandalous! Anyways she finally gave up but he wasn't even seeing her and her name was never on the list but she would write him all the time because he would send me the letters and she would be like please add me I'll do anything for you! Yeah I'm sure you will! Anyways that's all been taken care of! But let me even get a thought in my head about it and I'm going to be gone and he knows it because I am to old to be playing childish games!
First off it's more of RESPECT (sing it Aretha) and if you don't respect me than you don't need to be with me! and I believe that if your in a relationship and your man disrespects you like that than you need not be with him because their are a million men just standing in line waiting for a good woman and I am a good woman!
So that's my 2 cents LOL but sorry this just gets my blood boiling!
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Why would he have to ask you if he could see his children? My husband has a child before us and I have zero problems with them visiting. A man should never have to ask his wife/girlfriend if he can visit with his children. Maybe just work out the visits so that no one is denied but that is about it. I would never stand in the way of that, and would NEVER want that done to me if the tables were turned. Just my opinion.


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I've never had it happen to me... But he has asked me if I would be ok with his baby momma coming to bring his kids to see him when he was in county jail, and since I was going out of town anyway, and he wouldn't be getting a visit from me, I told him yea, ok.. but I didn't want her coming back...and he was ok with that, and I never did see her coming to visit again.. Cause I never missed visiting him after that. I've seen more than one women visiting an inmate before, and the guards knowing , that some inmates have more than one female visitor, most times at the same visit. I've seen many a fight.. inside a jail while visiting... I mean HELLO!!!! Didn't common sence kick in and say, HEY! you're going to jail... To me there's no point in fighting over a man, and having your freedom taken away...
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I've never experienced this at all with my husband because he knew better! It's happened in a previous relationship and just so happen the guy was in the county, so 2 ppl can go in but the person that signs in first decides whether they want to share the visit with 2nd person....I'd gotten their 1st and his "girlfriend" got their 2nd; so I told her yeah come on because he'd been denyin any involvement with me....The look on his face~Priceless! Ending he made her leave....It does happen!
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OMG........Just thinking about that would send me into a full blow rage... If this was to happen I would kindly thank the girl up there for coming to see him because now I will have a reason to stay home and save gas, tolls, packages, and food money!!! Then I would let him know he just mad the biggest mistake of his life, that I'm pretty sure he would regret!!
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I have never had that happen to me plus I take the kids to go see him. Also, my husband knows better than to EVER deny my visit. If this was the situation he would more than likely tell her she had to leave or we could all sit there like one big happy family and find out what the heck was going down.

Anyhow, I have a low tolerance for crap like that. There was one point where I thought I could deal with it in other ways but as of right now I don't have the energy. There's so much more I could be doing with my time, my heart and my dough...
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Honestly, I can't even front... I would FLIP the heck out... I can't even imagine what I would do... I just know that I hope it never happens cuz I don't even wanna deal with that. His BM has been to visit him once and he told me about it so it wasn't a shock. I just know I would flip out on his butt....
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Sit and wait till visits over and ask to borrow some money.

Never happened to us. Im sure it does happen to some people. Pooky was too much of a family man to let his "ex's" come between us. He did tell me one year an old girlfriend had sent him a birthday card and he gave it to me. Didn't bother me cause I knew where his heart and commitment was. We both kind of laughed cause she knows what she lost and hey, cant blame her for trying.
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Never had it happen to me but let me tell you if my husband pulled some s**t like that he can forget about having a place to come home to, getting his collect calls accepted, and most of all me ever visiting again. The nerve of some of these men. My mother always told me that people only do to you what you allow them to do. Stop allowing these inmates to rule over us
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Old 06-20-2008, 10:11 AM
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There wouldn't be no other chick visiting my man...I'm the ONLY CHICK!!! But I would flip the FK out!!! On some serious $hit, there'd be murder in there cause if for any reason some other girl is going to visit him, I'M GONNA KNOW ABOUT IT... but I'm just answering the question, that has NEVER been a concern of mine and it NEVER will be... Yeah I said NEVER...
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