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Old 06-13-2020, 12:36 PM
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Does your girl know how lucky she is to have you in her life?
She tells me every chance she gets and it's like music to my ears. I am so damn thankful for her in my life. I want to spend the rest of our days making each other happy. I am 45, shes 43... we have seen what not to do in life, now we found each other in a period where we both want to see what we can do in life.

Yeah she tells me, and I believe she knows. She loves me.
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Awwwww, this ^^^^^^ made me smile So sweet, and I just love a love story - and a Homecoming

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we broke the 30 day mark!!!!
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Old 06-15-2020, 10:08 AM
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28 now. 28 days. A race to the end here.
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28 now. 28 days. A race to the end here.
Yeah it is crazy. We had some talk yesterday about when to stop writing letters and things!!! I told her I was gonna stop, but I wont. I think it is a good therapy for me and I am not ready to quit. I will allow them to just return to sender and then she can read them when she gets home. I honestly don't know what to do!!!

Its just a few weeks and we are together. Its been so damn long. Such a hard fight to keep positive through this shit. We are staying positive, but damn it has been hard. I cant imagine how it is for folks with so much more time. My heart really goes out to people with longer time.
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I was against really posting it up and there could be some crap with parole as its a prop57 but the date is there and she is accepted to fire camp now so we can have more optimism than pessimism.

Feb 18 2020.

Not far off and I am hoping it all goes well! Counting down now!!!

116 days!!!
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Congrats!!!! Its really extra hard closer it gets.
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how long have you been waiting for your LO to come home? Your wife? Congratulations it is getting so close!! almost there!!



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how long have you been waiting for your LO to come home? Your wife? Congratulations it is getting so close!! almost there!!
A few years its been now. Just like all on here, i have been having quite a hard time dealing with all the elements of normal prison adjustment moving reception court all that, then the covid just cutting us off at the knees on visits.

She is getting released and I have not seen her or any new pictures of her in over 100 days. It will be an emotional moment. for sure!

Thanks for the congrats. Shes my fiance, I will marry her when we can!!
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So exciting! It’s getting so close. I’m very happy for you guys and can’t wait to read about your reunion.
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Hey studebaker71, you've only got 3 weeks and a day! Have you pulled out appliances and furniture, cleaned under & behind them yet? How about those closets & drawers? The junk drawer? Everybody has one, don't deny it

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Thanks all for the well wishes!! I went off and visited the parents for the weekend and that kinda broke things up and now I’m back and we’re chopping days down like crazy!! The days are going fast but not without some new drama... seems they are not going to let this go without being salty as I just got a letter returned to sender for being “explicit”... I said the word sex in it. Of all the letters in the last years this one was totally benign. I’m concerned about it but I just won’t let it get to me. That’s what they want I guess.

I did tell her that since we’re short and they are being salty, we will just stop letters altogether and just move on.

It’s really sad they are getting weird but my girl says that happens to all of them? Is that a thing? Come close to your state and they want to make up drama? I would think they would want you to get out but what do I know.

I’ll say perhaps the current situation with law enforcement and prisons and all that may be unfavorable. So I just don’t know. What I do know is she has never had discipline or any infractions or anything and has always woke up early followed rules worked and helped and earned any tiny bit of anything she could get in there. She shouldn’t have any drama.

So now no letters and she’s still gonna call but that’s it. I’ll just have to go into hybernation mode.

I stopped myself from writing twice today. Stupid.

I’m also having tons of anxiety. It could be from this recent crap but I think even without it I would have anxiety. I really have bad worry that something will go wrong, I just suppress it internally and move on. But the feelings are still there. Worry and anxiety. Ugh I wish I was more of a blockhead.
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I called the housekeeper and she’s going to totally clean extra this time! I’ll give her more money! Me and the cat are too anxiety ridden to do effective labor hahah
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Being anxious sounds normal to me. I do it too. But try. Try not to trip on something bad happening. At least to not dwell on it.
Im not sure if she's correct in that they look extra hard at things when someone is so close to the term ending. She just needs to mind her own (which it sounds like she is doing) and plod along. it will be here before you know it. Patience. Now. LOL.
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