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Old 09-25-2007, 08:12 AM
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WOW... this was an interesting read!!!
Well... my King has been down for 14 years... NO MATTER WHAT.... WE are BOTH getting tested before any unprotected sex. We want kids... & we are deep in love & will get married but we are responsible & we'll both have that peace of mind of knowing that we can enjoy each other freely!!!!
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Old 09-25-2007, 08:19 AM
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WOW... this was an interesting read!!!
Well... my King has been down for 14 years... NO MATTER WHAT.... WE are BOTH getting tested before any unprotected sex. We want kids... & we are deep in love & will get married but we are responsible & we'll both have that peace of mind of knowing that we can enjoy each other freely!!!!
It Only takes one visit to the Doctors!!! Worth it... Don't you think!
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I think it will be a great idea for both of us to get tested at the same time - that way there is no finger pointing or unspoken accusations, just 2 people in love who are re-affirming their respect and commitment to each other.
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Old 09-25-2007, 08:27 AM
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we done had this arguement. and the funny thing is we can all sit up here and say "oh we gotta get tested first" but hell, after waiting for these men for so long ( i gotta 10 yrs at least ) hell, using protection might just mean not wreckin the car on the way home..
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Old 09-25-2007, 10:03 AM
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I hear what you sayn' "STR8" but at the same time... as your man is in there he is getting tested... it's up to you to obtain the results & do the same on your end. My King has been down for 14 years... so I know how it's going down!!! but at the same time we'll both know that no matter what... we're both clean!!!!!!!!
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Old 09-25-2007, 10:19 AM
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I think it will be fine as long as you both go together and get tested and stay faithful to one another.
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Old 10-01-2007, 08:39 PM
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In the beginning of our relationship we used protection but after we realized that we're soulmates we quit using protection... but I believe that when he gets out testing will be done and then we will continue on using no protectiong
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Old 10-02-2007, 03:55 PM
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I didn't vote because with my man after 12 years we don't use protection. When he comes home he will be tested and then we will continue "bare". If it were anyone else I defiantly would protect myself!!!
Well my man is my husband and the father of my 2 children..So using protection is a little far fetched for us. I know he mentioned that he was tested 7 months ago when he went in and will be tested prior to his release in one month. Pretty positive he's not into men. But I will look at his results anyway..
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Old 10-02-2007, 04:06 PM
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Unprotected. He doesn't want me on the pill (frankly nor do I want to be on it) and he only goes in bare... both our decision. Our motto is....if god wants us to have babies, then so be it, otherwise we do the "pull out" or "other ways" of prevention. As far as STD's go, there is no reason for us to be worried about that.
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I know I already posted here but damn I cant wait to have sex with him!!!! Just thought Id share lol!!!!!
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Old 10-08-2007, 01:41 PM
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I know I already posted here but damn I cant wait to have sex with him!!!! Just thought Id share lol!!!!!
Me too (well my husband..not yours..hahaha).
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Old 10-11-2007, 10:25 PM
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Which do you prefer?? And why??


For some reason, baby has it stuck in his head that we are no longer using protection when he comes home. Lately, he speaks of going "bare" and I'm like WTH??? The last time I trusted a man on that level...I ended up with a STD. Luckily it was cureable, but I vowed that I would never take myself through that again. It took a toll on me emotionally. I've never mentioned the STD thing to baby, and I'm sort of afraid to because I don't want him to see me in another light.


Does whether you have (un)protected sex with a man or not equate to how much you care for him? If your man expected that from you...what would you do?


How in the world do I handle this????
I ALWAYS HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH MY HUSBAND ON THE FAMILY VISITS. HE WANTS A BABY BUT HE HAS 4 MORE YEARS SO I TAKE BIRTH CONTROL SECRETLY. YES I FELL BAD ABOUT SNICKING AND TAKING THE KNOWING HE WANTS A BABY BUT I HAVE TO ADMIT HAVING HIM TRY IS SOOOOO MUCH FUN
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Old 10-12-2007, 07:52 AM
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Shittttt we havin babies when he comes home bring on the bareback! LOL
That's us too! We'll be married when he comes home. I'm 26 and not getting any younger. I have a great job and my own house. So kids, here we come!
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Old 10-15-2007, 10:04 PM
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Well...we never used protection at all..ahaha so thats how it will be, plus when he gets out hopefully everything is well and stable, once thats done with. We plan on having a child and starting a family.. =]
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Old 10-16-2007, 05:03 AM
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My King has this notion that when he gets out he's going in bare, and I'm use to being protected when having sex, but don't mind not being protected with him because I trust him with my life and I know he will protect me, plus we want children, so there's really no other way! LoL...
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Old 10-16-2007, 01:10 PM
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Well its been a while since we were together last, when he does come home I am not doing ANYTHING until I see a test. Gotta be careful, you never know. Prisons can be so filthy.
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Old 10-16-2007, 01:20 PM
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we will both get tested before he gets out and share our results. I dont think anything will change between now and then, but you know some things like to stay hidden for a while. So just to be safe, but we both want babies and the bet right now is at 3 mos until im preggo after he gets home. i think our friends are crazy. but yeah no protection here.
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Old 10-18-2007, 06:06 PM
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Once he gets tested and the results are clean...he is IN THERE! W00t!
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My husband wants to have a baby well actually more than one so no we don't use protection.
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I got pregnant (and am now) the first time I ever said "Okay, no condom, I'm sure it'll be just fineeeee."

That wont be happening again! Well, unless we decide to have another baby in the waaaaay distant future.
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Old 11-11-2007, 03:36 AM
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Well with my man and I we have never used anything, I git my tubes tied after I had my last child so that is protection enough for me.
thats not actually 100% fool proof....i have a 15 year old brother who is here and my father was fixed.....lets just say not anymore.......so becareful.....
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Speaking of not being fool proof. I was switching birth control types and so hubby and I were using protection for a two month period. Humm, guess who is now pregnant!?!?! Dr. even said it would have been just as good for us to use the "pull and pray" method. Moral of the story...using protection to prevent STDs--good using protection to prevent babies--bad.
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I NEVER had unprotected sex until my man and I started to try for children. He's been the only one to go in "bare".
the same with me..This is what im doing when my honey comes out in Sep 08 im taking him straight to the clinic and we are getting check ups so that he wouldnt feel like im insulting him..you should try that...if you still feel apprehensive then tell him you dont want to have unprotected sex and he HAS to respect that
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He always talks about being "barebacked" but it's not a chance in hell of that happening since I am not able to take birth control.
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Unprotected.
Reason Being: I'm The Only Woman He Will Ever B With Intimately Again And He's The Only Man I'll Ever B With In That Way Again.
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Old 12-05-2007, 07:39 PM
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well we arlready have a child soo...a lil late on that but as far as this goes he wants a ball team soo im gonna take the pill on the low....but he refuses to use protection now exp that we have a child together......
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