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View Poll Results: Proteced or Unprotected
Protected 292 21.77%
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Old 06-12-2007, 09:54 PM
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i voted unprotected. why? UMMM KUZ HES MY HUBBY! my life long partner and hes the only man i'll be intimate with for the rest of my life. now once he gets home he will be tested not because i dont trust him but because the facilitys are very dirty and alot of imates carry things. blahhh. anyways so yeah with him id be unprotected all the time. PLUS IT FEELS BETTER!
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Old 06-13-2007, 08:03 AM
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When we were younger we did and then as our relationship progressed we stopped, and that is how we ended up with the kids, but once he comes home we will not be using protection I know that for a fact , it's on and poppin' because we want another baby!!!!!!!!
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Old 06-13-2007, 06:42 PM
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I vote protection not because I don't trust him but because we have 4 boys our family is complete....well, it will be when he comes home
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Old 06-13-2007, 06:46 PM
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I love my baby to death and I can't wait to feel his love when he comes home. But to be honest, to much shit goes on in the inside of prison cells. So, before he goes in unprotected, we will both have to be tested, just to be on the safe side. But I would defitnitly choose bare sex!!!!!
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Old 06-13-2007, 06:54 PM
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While I prefer 'bare', I do not recommend not using protection. In this day and age...if ALL you get is pregnant...then you are lucky. There are too many diseases out there that take your life. And come on...let's be realistic...do we really know what kind of stuff our men come in contact with while incarcerated? And no...I'm not necessarily talking about sexually. Me and mine have already discussed testing when he comes home. He will tell you in a heartbeat that prison is the nastiest place in the world to be.
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Old 06-13-2007, 08:31 PM
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he's my husband so i never use protection...i welcome kids and i dont really worry about std's cause when he was out we where always together.
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Old 06-14-2007, 09:39 AM
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Unprotected sex for us. After all he's my husband and we will be tested again. I can't have anymore kids anyways. We have 6 all together and that's plenty.
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Old 06-16-2007, 07:58 AM
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We don't use condoms...but I will probably go back on birth control a month before he gets home...I don't plan on having any more babies until we can get shit together.
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Old 06-16-2007, 10:12 PM
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with m hubby i don't use protection een marred for 3 years tust him with my life
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Old 06-17-2007, 02:31 AM
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i prefer unprotected and so does he because it feels better, but we need to use the protection cuz birth control does not garuntee, i dont want no kids and he dont need another one, but if it happens we will step up to the plate. and please believe he is getting tested at the prisn before he comes home. i mean i love him and all but i dont want him bringing home nothin from that nasty ass place.
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Old 06-20-2007, 02:58 PM
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Initially it was protected but hey, spur of the moment lol and we went unprotected. BUT, I did see his HIV results sheet so that put my mind at ease. Now I'm just hoping we don't have a bun cooking in the oven!
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Old 06-20-2007, 04:45 PM
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Well considering we want to have a baby it will be unprotected for sure ...
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Old 06-22-2007, 01:42 AM
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I didn't vote because with my man after 12 years we don't use protection. When he comes home he will be tested and then we will continue "bare". If it were anyone else I defiantly would protect myself!!!
i agree he is getting tested when my man gets out
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Old 06-23-2007, 08:22 PM
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Please remember ladies that it can take 3-6 months after exposure to return an HIV positive result on an STD test. Even though running into the clinic on the way home seems like a damn good idea [and i've thought about it too!], it might not exactly be accurate.
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Old 06-27-2007, 11:49 PM
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that is one that that I really don't have to worry about. "getting tested", the prison won't let them leave unless they are completly clean, No nothing.
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Old 06-28-2007, 01:38 PM
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WOW, i wish sc wasn't cheap, and would put out for a std test when they leave. They only get tested when they first go in, here in good ol cheap a** sc
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Old 06-28-2007, 07:12 PM
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I voted unprotected. Although he is my husband and I trust him completely, and I have and will be completely faithful to him, we are both going to get tested before we do anything. We both want babies too so we have to go unprotected for that.
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Old 06-28-2007, 07:30 PM
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I voted unprotected too. My husband and I tested together before we even had sex, then we waited together for the results, when all came back good we used condoms until we tested again six months later, after that we threw the condoms in the trash. I know my man, he is definately a one woman man just ask my kids, they tell him he is always cupcaking
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I voted unprotected. Although he is my husband and I trust him completely, and I have and will be completely faithful to him, we are both going to get tested before we do anything. We both want babies too so we have to go unprotected for that.
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Old 07-04-2007, 09:34 PM
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I think protected is the way to go until he gets tested. But after that I wouldn't mind.
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Old 07-08-2007, 09:02 AM
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I want to use prtection because I dont want another child yet.
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Old 07-27-2007, 11:04 AM
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It would be unprotected for me. He and I have talked about it at visits and in letters. He wants 3 kids, one right after the other so that there's only like a year between them. He prefers for all 3 to be girls, but as long as he gets one, then he'll be happy. He wants a daughter so bad that he just can't wait to start...lol....He's constantly talking about "Daddy's Girl"....I told him that he needed to be careful because that just might come back and bite him later on....hahaha....
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I go protected al the way I am not trying to have any babies at all right now he wa very fertile before he went up so I could only imagine what he has in store for me now so protected I will go husband or not
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Old 07-28-2007, 09:46 PM
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Well In Iowa They Test Them For All The Stds,including Hiv When They Go In So I Will Be Going Bareback I Want Babies, Lots Of Them!!
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Old 07-28-2007, 10:09 PM
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In TOCI, *Ohio* they do check them when they go in and when they leave if they have any std's or anything. so im prepared. but i am also getting on birth control shot soon anyway. my man comes home on
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