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Old 04-24-2007, 08:47 PM
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Well if really the only reason u won't let him go in bare is cause of an STD worry then i'd say make him get tested then u can do as u want i know whne my man comes home we will be goin "bare".. but its ur choice.. and i prefer unprotected to answer that question
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Old 04-24-2007, 08:51 PM
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We have been married for two years now and been together for 5 with three kids and no straying so why not have some fun as long as i am on birth control 3 kids is enough
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Old 04-30-2007, 10:43 AM
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my husband and I have both been tested and mailed each other our medical papers. He was in county for a year so we did it right before he went to prison. Talk about sweatin' bullets-the both of us. We were both out there in the years and years before we met each other. Will we test again...only if he wants too. If I suggest it he might either get offended or ask..."why? you did something since the last test?" and I dont even want to get his mind going down that road!!! The question really is whether I use BC for our conjugals because getting preg during his incarceration is not something I want to do.
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Old 05-03-2007, 12:33 PM
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You can't possibly be that ignorant can you? DNA? Why don't you just stop dating him then, if you think he is such a bad person? You need to go somewhere else with all that mess! It's people like you in the world who mess up just about everything for everyone else. Go back under the rock you can out from!
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Old 05-09-2007, 11:19 AM
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I will be tested and he will be also. We are in a committed relationship and I love him, as I am sure you do your baby. But before I go bare I will of had a clean bill of health in my hands stating that neither of us are gonna get messed up. He should care enough to give you that, so you and he can both know you won't cause one or the other any harm.
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Old 05-09-2007, 11:37 AM
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Ok dont take me the wrong way but, i love my man, with all my heart. And i trust him with every ounce of my body. If i didn't I would definatly NOT be waiting on him. There is no way, I could wait on a man i didn't love or trust like i do him. So ladies tell me, HOW can you wait on a man who you don't love and trust completely? To me life is toooooooooooooo short to wait on a man, who when he gets home, ya'll may decide to break up. Be gentle, im just wondering.
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Old 05-09-2007, 06:11 PM
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I agree with night bird. thank God i don't have anything. but my doctor told me i should have him checked the minute he gets out. of course he has had his check up and everything is ok. i told him about those tattoos he is getting in jail. they still can have sex in jail. i just hope a least they are all wearing condoms.now a days you have too.
me and him are very scared of getting any std. HPV you can get without wearing a condom. i trust him but i rather be safe than sorry.
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Old 05-10-2007, 07:03 AM
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Honey, I am not trying to sound wrong....but if you are worried about getting a STD from a man who is SUPPOSED to be with you and only you, then you really don't need him....do you? If you are concerned that he will be P.O.'d because you don't want to go with-out one, then he's shallow. Some men ARE like that.....

I have been married for bangin' on 13 years and we don't use protection...we won't...I know where he's been and who he's with...ME... and he knows where I've been and who I'm with...HIM..even if he's been locked up...we will be together 'till the day we die..we will live together and we will die together.

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Old 05-10-2007, 06:55 PM
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we did at first but after a few yers we didnt, it has NOTHING to do with whether you love him or not or how much you do! it is ultimately YOUR decision!
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Old 05-13-2007, 01:18 AM
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I was protected with every other man but this one... never had any children by any other man.... I was probably over protected with others lol I mean Birth Control, condom and female cont... incase the comdom burst lol I know thats sad but I wasnt taking any chances... with him I didnt use any well except birth control which I am only taking now cause I use the one that only gives you a period every 3 months lol and I dont need the extra stress of a monthly period...but I'm he isnt home so its not like I gotta worry about getting pregnant!!!
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Old 05-13-2007, 02:47 AM
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as usual, a day late and a dollar short...this is an old thread but...sex? what is that? i seem to have forgotten.
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Old 05-13-2007, 07:33 AM
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as usual, a day late and a dollar short...this is an old thread but...sex? what is that? i seem to have forgotten.
LOL. I'm starting to feel the same way...
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Old 05-13-2007, 06:06 PM
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all i know is hes getting tested first!
but then!
its baby makin time!
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Old 05-14-2007, 08:15 PM
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I am still a virgin and so is my fiance. Since that is the only man I plan on ever being with, I dont think I'll have much of a problem having unprotected sex.
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Old 05-14-2007, 09:36 PM
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We plan on trying to have kids as soon as he walks off of the government property so unprotected it is..
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Old 05-16-2007, 01:03 AM
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For everyone that is set on not bagging when their man gets out - Don't be foolish - Protect yourself and make him test first!
DITTO. Many prisons will test them before release.
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Old 05-17-2007, 08:42 AM
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Inmates are usually tested just before their release along with their physical at least they used to be in AZ and as long as we all test good, we will not be using protection. Although I know I am good I have no problem with being tested, lots of things can lie dormate in a woman.
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Old 05-17-2007, 12:41 PM
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I like going bareback. I don't know why but to me it feels different. With a condom it feels more like i am having sex with plastic and some of things are so dry that they are enough to dry you out.

Baby Boy also said he wants to go naked but he will be getting tested first cause he was in jail and I MWI so I am not sure of his status like that.

But if you are uncomfortable with it you should keep it real with him and tell him why. And then tell him you are not interested in unprotected sex. If he is a real man he will love and respect you anyway.

I hope it works out for the best but Honesty is the best policy.
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Old 05-26-2007, 09:12 PM
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Me and my man have never had sex but we are planning on getting married. So I don't think we will be using protection because we both want kids after my time in the service.
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i voted unprotected becuase when he comes home we are starting to try to make a baby teh day he gets out lol
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Old 06-08-2007, 02:24 PM
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I've been with my hubby for over 10 years so unprotected is the way we go. I have my tubes tied now, but before that we always used protection.
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Old 06-08-2007, 03:27 PM
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Of course, i much prefer unprotected. Saying that, i would never have unprotected sex with someone i dont trust or that i dont know the history (check-up) of. Ive got 3 kids, so of course, ive gotne bare before!

If you dont feel comfortable with it, it doesnt mean that you care or love your man any less. It just means that you want to be extra careful, which isnt a bad or negative thing at all.

Would him taking a sexual screening help ease your mind? If not, then i think that maybe there is more of an issue with trust! JMO!
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We don't use it.. and haven't since we've started having sex.. I was kind of hoping I was pregnant when he went away when I took my test (It was neg!! ) but otherwise I'm very comfortable with Steven and I trust him 100%.
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i would want to have him tested first..just like im sure he would want me tested as well...and i'm sure thats what he'll say...lol.. we're trying to have a family of our own so 'bare' it is!
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