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Protected 292 21.77%
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Old 01-08-2010, 09:37 PM
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I personally will be getting my dude tested as he had gotten a tattoo in prison. I will be taking him to planned parent hood to get speedy results. Before he went in, we were 50/50.
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Old 01-10-2010, 11:05 PM
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I was wondering... how do u tell him that u want him to get tested for EVERYTHING when he comes home just for safety protection?
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Old 01-11-2010, 01:53 AM
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silly j is right , and you never know if your man could have been raped and is ashamed to say , you just never know . i have a baby with my inmate , and i would never risk myself getting aids , not saying he has anything , but i need to stay alive for my child until he gets tested when he gets out were using condoms ..
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:06 AM
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Ive known my man for over 10 years. We had unprotected sex b4 he went in and will after, I use birthcontrol pills but theres no way Id be having unprotected sex if he and I MWI.
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:18 AM
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silly j is right , and you never know if your man could have been raped and is ashamed to say , you just never know . i have a baby with my inmate , and i would never risk myself getting aids , not saying he has anything , but i need to stay alive for my child until he gets tested when he gets out were using condoms ..
Adrians mommy raises a good point. My guy will have been gone 2.5 years when he comes home & in the state I live in they test them going in & coming out too.

But rapes do happen in prison. There are men in there who have been there for years upon years & start to have boyfriends there. I'm an avid watcher of lock-up...stuff like that is real & it does happen. My guy hasn't been there long & from what I can tell everything is fine, but this question does give you something to think about.
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Old 01-13-2010, 08:04 PM
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Me n my baby don't use it, and we wont, unless other wise.
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Old 01-13-2010, 08:13 PM
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we used protection before he got locked up. i know i havent done anything since the las time me and him did anything and he trust me to be faithful to him. i mean if he wants me to get tested when he gets out i would be more then happy to just to show him i havent been messing around on him but i dont think that will happen. he trust me 110%. if you are uneasy about letting him go in "bare" make him go get tested before just so you can be sure. you can never be to safe cuz some of them cant be cured and you dont want them.
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Old 01-13-2010, 09:08 PM
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i defintely prefer unprotekted !! i always make him test when he gets out... but it is very much more enjoyable for me and him wit out tha squeaky rubber n tha way... besides we r married and already have a daughter...
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When we were younger we always used protection... But once he gets out we'll be "grown-ups" and ready to have kids so we'll probably go without.
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We aren't kids anymore, so definitely unprotected. I'm ready to start a family anyway. Lol
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Old 03-17-2010, 03:19 PM
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It will be unprotected for me because this man is my husband and I trust him but if this is just your boyfriend do you trust him? Before I went bare we would both get checked for every STD known to man.
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Old 03-17-2010, 03:59 PM
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Me i prefer unprotected my man is the second one i have went bare with. he doesnt like using condoms but says he has used them with everyone. we stopped using them when we decided on children. personally i think bare feels better and condoms actually irrate me a little.
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Old 03-17-2010, 05:05 PM
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Well you have to look at the word protection! if youre in love with that person and you have been together a while and want to start a family and you both know that each of you is faithful what are you protecting yourself from?? you protect yourself from something harmful, if you think hes harmful i wouldnt be having relations with him period lol.... birth control was my only reason, with the man i am with now
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Old 03-17-2010, 05:21 PM
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def unprotected...he's my man, not some stranger...
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Considering my husband is the only one I have or will ever have sex wit its unprotcted. We have both been checked for everything and nothing so no worries just babies when he gets home.
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Old 03-18-2010, 08:22 AM
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We go the unprotected route...We're married, we trust each other, and we've both been tested!...Thats just what works for us.
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Old 03-18-2010, 09:55 AM
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I agree with the person that said something about getting tested. I told my bf he will be getting tested when he gets home and that I would get tested as well just so he knows that I have not been up to anything and I have nothing to hide. Once those results come back with a clean bill of health then we can decide if we want more kids. You never know these days so your health and safety need to be 1st.
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Old 03-18-2010, 02:12 PM
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i voted protected....im only21 n dont want kids yet.he wants 2 start having kids asap so idk how hes going 2 handle the protection thing but we r still 2 young 2 have kids...but yea i voted protection.

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Old 03-19-2010, 01:06 AM
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We've talked about that. I will be on birth control when he comes home. He will be tested and I will be tested and then we'll go from there, which means bare all the way.
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Old 03-19-2010, 01:08 AM
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When the time comes it will be unprotected! We agreed we would get tested anyways... but overall he's the one I'm going to be with forever and yes will be the father of my children without a doubt!
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We're married & we don't use protection (wen he's home) & since I don't cheat & would Neva cheat I don't need 2. He trusts me & I trust him & he would Neva b wit a man (like an inmate) & that's the Only opportunity he has. Despite wat ppl think a C.O. Wouldn't hav sex wit inmates. The Only 1 he's "cheatin" wit is his hand, A Lot. I want to have his baby (I have an 8 year old dawta from my ex) but afta 5 years & 5 1/2 months 2gether & our ages of his 42 years & my 37 years I don't think that will happen for us now. We tried Many tyms a day wen we 1st got 2gether & it Neva happened. Hubby has a dawta that now has 2 sons of her own but her mother Neva let him b a part of his dawtas lyf & he wants a son & I'd Luv 2 hav his child so he can b a part of their lyf. I sumtyms get jealous of my 2 best friends they Both have baby girls, one's like 10 months old & (she lives close but since I don't hav a car & we're both busy, she has a 9 year old son & I hav my 8 year old I don't get 2 c her dawta, my goddawta much even tho she lives close) one's about 7 months (and she lives in Kansas so I Neva got 2 see her in person, only in pictures, I live in NY). I know I shouldn't be jealous tho & I Love wen I get to spend the nite at my goddawtas house wit my dawta. I was goin 2 the week b4 last wen our kids were off from school but our schedules wouldn't allow it. I barely talk 2 her Mom cuz wen I call she almost neva picks up & I kno she's busy wit her family & doctor's appointments & stuff but I kno she cares. I hope she's ok & I hope 2 sleep ova her house Memorial Day weekend, it's my goddawtas 1st B'Day but I May have 2 c hubby in prison as he's supposed 2 go around then & I need to visit him b4 they send him far away which will be soon afta that. And my sister's son's 2nd B'Day is the day afta Memorial Day & if she has his party that weekend I'll be torn between hubby, my goddawta & my nefew & I Know my sis would b Very upset if I didn't go 2 her son's B'day party. Anyway, sorry 2 get off topic.
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We wont use anything becasue we are married and do
plan on having more children but for other ladies who are not in this situation i would use protection and keep using it until u are in a commited relationship and the both of u want to b together through thick n thin becasue even though u are havin relations when he gets out doesnt mean ur the only one
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[quote=Tested Love;2475680]Which do you prefer?? And why??


i prefer bare cause it feels better. do what makes u feel comfortable with if he insist on bare and u are uncomfortable with it tell him u will if u both go to get tested . if he cares and if it's that important to him he will agree.
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We wont be using protection.
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Old 04-16-2010, 08:08 PM
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I been doing my man bare and going to keep it that way when he come home it feel better and i enjoy riding it without something in my way .LOL. i trust him but we still getting tested because he got tatted in there.
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