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Old 10-08-2009, 01:41 PM
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-unprotected has always been. However, when we got back together I made damn sure to go to the clinic and get him tested before we began being intimate with eachother. And I will get him tested again when he is released. Better safe then sorry ....
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this thread is just making me sad and mad because sex is something that isnt even in the picture for another 6 months lollll
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Me and my husband never used protection and we wont when he comes home either i trust him and of coarse he will be tested upon coming home and so will I.But i would love to have kids as soon as he's home ill be 31 more than ready to be a mom!
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Me and my husband never used protection and we wont when he comes home either i trust him and of coarse he will be tested upon coming home and so will I.But i would love to have kids as soon as he's home ill be 31 more than ready to be a mom!

same here.... (lol)
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Old 10-08-2009, 08:03 PM
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Well with my man and I we have never used anything, I git my tubes tied after I had my last child so that is protection enough for me.
thats one of my reasons too but my main reason is i am allergic to latex
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Old 10-08-2009, 09:19 PM
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Okay, I'm hoping not to get judged for this but I've only used protection 1 time, and that was just to try it and see what it felt like and I didnt like it!!! Luckily, because the other "men" I was with are all assholes from hates, but I never got pregnant and my ex that gave me an STD, it was thank God curable as well!! But I dont like rubbers and I prefer not to use them, especially with him, because we are the only people we sleep with. When he comes home YES, he will have to go get tested because only God know's what he has a chance of getting in there, from doing anything!! But, he needs to remember that whether you tell him about the STD or not, its still your body and your decision just as much as it is his, and if you dont want to go bare, he'll have to take his hand to the br or do without!!
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this thread is just making me sad and mad because sex is something that isnt even in the picture for another 6 months lollll
6 months?!!?!? i have 5 1/2 more years!!!!!
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Well seeing as how I never plan on being with another man....... We never did before and won't be when he gets home either. He says he's rather feel me instead of plastic ... Plus I can't have kids, a lot of health reasons. He has four boys... So I don't think we need to worry about that one...... But whatever makes you feel comfortable is what you need to tell him. If he truly loves you he will understand, I believe he will... Just have to have faith....
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We are married, and want more kids. There will be no protection, unless you count kneepads...
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this thread is just making me sad and mad because sex is something that isnt even in the picture for another 6 months lollll

I'd gladly trade places with you - I've got 17 1/2 yrs. to go (assuming he makes parole on his first sentence next year)
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Okay, I'm hoping not to get judged for this but I've only used protection 1 time, and that was just to try it and see what it felt like and I didnt like it!!!
You are too funny! My husband and I tried protection one time just so I could see what it was about. So when we are all done I wanted to see what it looked like. Well, he goes to show me and ... it wasn't on him that is for sure. The stupid thing must have been in his wallet since high school. I know that you could see the imprint of a circle on his wallet. It got lost. I had to go and find it. First and last time believe me.

But I was married and wanted babies and times were different way back when.
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We (My Boo and I) are going to be working overtime trying to get pregant once we get our family visits, so no protection here...

Just an FYI also at least in most states they test inmates regularly for all kinds of STD's and HIV, at a minimum prior to release, and as they go in.
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We (My Boo and I) are going to be working overtime trying to get pregant once we get our family visits, so no protection here...

Just an FYI also at least in most states they test inmates regularly for all kinds of STD's and HIV, at a minimum prior to release, and as they go in.
do you know if they test in county jail too? just curious..
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Uhhhhh, protected!!! I don't care how long we've been together, we still wrap it up everytime! When we get married will be when he gets the pleasure of going glove free. And he honestly has never questioned it/or tried to go without protection with me (though i know he's obviously engaged in unprotected sex or at least had an "oops" moment before because he has a son with someone else!) And ummmm yes he will be getting tested when he comes home (as will I). Got tested before we had sex the first time so I expect him to not take offense to doing it again if he wants these goodies!
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Im gonna go with unprotected, we are married and I am the mother of his children. I think we used a condom the very first time and that was about it. We been together 4 years married 2 and I honestly prefer without and hes my one and only so its not a hard decision.
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Well I like unprotected sex with my bf but I prefer to have protected sex b/c I don't wanna get pregnant again....But just let him know your not ready n that he needs to get tested just so you can have a piece of mind, its always good to know you man status no matter what!!!
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i chose unprotected because he is the person i am going to be with the first of our lives. when he gets out he will be tested & that will be that.
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I prefer unprotected sex but thats because we are committed to eachother and want kids...but you should always be careful and use protection until you guys were tested! ironically I just got a letter from my man with a paperinside that the prison gave him saying his HIV test was negative...he attached a note to it that said "so yea, we are good my love"! lol
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I don't want to be crass, but I prefer to go "raw dog." lol. While that is my preference, I do have a little bit of logic in this big old head of mine, and we will be using protection at first. I've only been with 1 guy in the last 4 years (not him, a previous relationship) & am on the up & up with testing & whatnot. I've got a birth control IUC, so I'm not so worried about babies as much as 'coming home with something Ajax can't scrub off.' I want him to get tested, too. Then we'll move on from there.
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We will use protection until he is tested. No ifs, ands or buts about it. Since we haven't been together before, I am not sure how to bring it up. I guess I will just have to keep it real and let him know. I still have a couple of years before it will matter, though.
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We definitely will be using protection when he comes home. I can't get pg because I've had my tubes tied but that's the least of my worries. I'd happily welcome another baby if I could. However, my man and I got back together in Sept after being broke up for 3 years. I don't know what he's done in those three years. He's said that he was tested in diagnostics and everything is fine but I want to be sure. We will be using protection until he gets tested once he's out or he won't get any!
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