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Old 02-05-2008, 11:21 AM
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Old 02-05-2008, 02:28 PM
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unprotected after I see the results of his tests of course
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Old 02-05-2008, 08:52 PM
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there are more std's in prisons than aywhere regarldess of what your man or any man says they do get spread in prison and bad...using proection has nothing at all o do wih the way you feel for someone, it means you love yourself more, and hey, who doesnt??? This is why i am so against conugal visits, and I know I have alot of people who disagree with me, but ya know..beter safe than sorry, now if you would wait and have him tesed first it would be okay as long as its ust he two of you, which you never know about either, so I hope you make the right decision
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Old 02-05-2008, 10:01 PM
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when me and my bf got together we used protection but after knowing that we both wanted this relationship for a lifetime we stoped using protection and had our son and we havent used protection since.. And we plan on tryin for our lil girl when he comes home
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Old 02-05-2008, 10:05 PM
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there are more std's in prisons than aywhere regarldess of what your man or any man says they do get spread in prison
how can a STD be spread in prison/jail if your man isnt having sex with the men in there, or suckin they you know what??? I dont see how you are sayin they spread through the jail with out sex bein involved???
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Old 02-05-2008, 11:30 PM
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I have been using unprotected sex with my man. thank god every day that he doesnt have any stds and gave them to me. but, safe sex is protected sex. when in doubt, use a condem.
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Old 02-07-2008, 01:58 PM
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I've never once used protection with my baby..he said that when he comes home he wants to use a rubber because he thinks i might have cheated (which I haven't..so I KNOW I'm clean!!) and i told him HELLL no..i told him if he wants to be like that then we can WAIT until we both go get tested and i'll prove i don't have anything. he changed his mind as soon as i said the waiting thing....
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Old 02-09-2008, 04:12 AM
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Bare it is. We have having a baby when he comes home. Our Daughter will be 4 then !!! 87 more days !
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Old 02-16-2009, 07:19 PM
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I get tested, I am on birth control.. and we are only with eachother.. so with that being said, it's more personal more like we're part of eachother.
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Old 02-16-2009, 07:28 PM
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I've only been with one man.. I trust him.

We've never had protected sex.
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Old 02-16-2009, 08:08 PM
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If I'm in a monogamous relationship with someone AND I know they are clean - unprotected. It's so much better and passionate that way.
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Old 02-16-2009, 08:08 PM
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Old 02-16-2009, 08:32 PM
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The only time we used protection was during the first week after I started my BC pills. That felt so weird because we are not use to them anymore. We are with only eachother so there is no need.
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Old 02-16-2009, 11:13 PM
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I went with unprotected sex because I haven't been with anyone else since I have been with my husband. Someone mentioned about having their SO tested, but my hubby was tested for everything when he went in and I know he isn't fooling around in there.
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:37 AM
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unprotected since the begining don't know how protected feels with him. my honey comes home in 25 days and a wake up! wooohooooo!!!!
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:51 AM
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Unprotected ..... he is my husband, we don't need to use a condom. Me being on birth control is fine, but there is no way in hell I am using a condom with my husband.
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Old 02-17-2009, 01:05 AM
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Well considering I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago we won't have the worry of pregnancy (besides we will be 51 when he gets out). PLUS, we have both been tested, he will continue to be tested until he gets out because he has Hep C, so he has them test him for everything every 6 months when he has his Hep C tests. So.........when he gets out it will be unprotected all the way! I hate the feeling of condoms!!!
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:15 PM
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This is a really good question and I think it should be considered . . . . . . we are married but up until we got married we used protection . . . . . . not because we didn't trust each other . . . . . . but . . . I think it was more out of respect for one another . . . . . . we are / were in a monogamous relationship . . . but we wanted to wait until we were married . . . to make it more special because we both had children so we couldn't do the whole virginity thing so that was our something special . . . . . .

Also for those who know there men are not being faithful . . . protection should be used . . . it makes so much sense . . . . . .
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Old 02-17-2009, 01:00 PM
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when he comes home we plan to have another baby
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Old 02-17-2009, 01:09 PM
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right now we are using the best birth control ever invented i call it prison lol but yeah we go unprotected
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we rarely, if at all, used protection when he was out
when he gets out... umm i think we'll eventually go back to that
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Old 02-17-2009, 01:28 PM
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I dont believer i would not use protection; until i inted to have children with him, only because im not ready to bring another life to this world, and it completely terrifies me to get pregnant and not be able to take care of my baby the way i want to.

1) i need him out of parole/probation
2)show me he can be man enough to take care of me and our baby
3)we are financially stable & emotionally ready to be parents


before that, i simply can't.
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Old 02-17-2009, 02:51 PM
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Before we used protection because we were not ready for children but now no we both have been tested and we are going to get tested together when he comes home so we will not be using protection.
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Old 02-17-2009, 03:00 PM
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For about the 1st month me & my man used protection from there on we both were tested & were both clean so we do not use protection any longer.
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Old 02-17-2009, 04:19 PM
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Unprotected, I trust him and he trust me. Plus condoms make sex truely hurt, and I have my IUD and we will be using spermicide so I am not worried about pregnancy.

When I had my IUD they automatically test you and my man has been the only perons I have been with for years.
He got tested when he went in and they automatically test him when he gets out.

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