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Old 12-16-2017, 10:54 AM
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So, my boyfriend is slightly irritated because his father hasn't taken the time to find an apartment for him to parole to. He's kind of a slacker. So, he goes worst case scenerio is I'll either call Ben's sister or one of my friends and parole there. I'm thinking like why would you call someone's sister? I don't know if he was talking about the one who is married or the other one who used to like him but that pissed me off.
Another thing is, I feel he could also be trying to make me jealous because why else would he bring that up to me and then tell me, "you swallowed the hook now. You're mine..mine!" I'm like I don't know buddy lol I have the hook in my hand still. He's like no, you are mine. Okay, so why tell me some stupid crap like you are going to parole to her house? I don't know. What do you think?
He's trying to make me jealous or he could actually be serious? He also has told me in the past that he loves how I fight over him, it shows I care and love him a lot and know what I want. So, that's also why I feel maybe he's trying to make me jealous.
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Old 12-16-2017, 10:58 AM
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It sounds very immature and manipulative to me.
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Old 12-16-2017, 11:43 AM
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So, my boyfriend is slightly irritated because his father hasn't taken the time to find an apartment for him to parole to. He's kind of a slacker. So, he goes worst case scenerio is I'll either call Ben's sister or one of my friends and parole there. I'm thinking like why would you call someone's sister? I don't know if he was talking about the one who is married or the other one who used to like him but that pissed me off.
Another thing is, I feel he could also be trying to make me jealous because why else would he bring that up to me and then tell me, "you swallowed the hook now. You're mine..mine!" I'm like I don't know buddy lol I have the hook in my hand still. He's like no, you are mine. Okay, so why tell me some stupid crap like you are going to parole to her house? I don't know. What do you think?
He's trying to make me jealous or he could actually be serious? He also has told me in the past that he loves how I fight over him, it shows I care and love him a lot and know what I want. So, that's also why I feel maybe he's trying to make me jealous.
Here is an idea...why don’t you ask him? Sounds like your relationship is based on jealousy and revenge (fighting over him) and possession. Each of those on their own is not good for a long lasting relationship. Put them all together and you have a recipe for disaster. You both need to grow up.
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Old 12-16-2017, 11:46 AM
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Put this thread and the other together and it sounds like you're spinning out. We can't tell you what his thinking is, but I can tell you that you've got a whole lot of mistrust and instability invested in this relationship.

How long have you been together?
Have you lived together before?
How long has he been inside?
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Yes he sounds immature....i think he says these this to get you upset.
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It's not a healthy relationship. It's not a good relationship. It's not a safe relationship.

You are NOT his, you are your own, and he should never seek to take 'ownership' over another human, nor should you fight over him. If each of you wants to stay, fine; if either wants to leave, that is also fine and permissible. Ownership is not.

You've got to get over this junior high mentality.
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Both threads of yours that I've read now have been eye-rollers. You guys sound bored. Can't you think of something interesting to talk about instead of playing "poke-the-bear"? Seriously, this is high school stuff. He wants you to "fight over him", you get off on the idea of him telling you that you can't do stuff...

When was the last time you talked about something that wasn't yourselves?


Also.. just an FYI - your humongous font detracts from the readability of your posts.
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I don't know about the jealous thing, but I do know they will do anything to survive. He will do whatever it takes with whoever will help him.
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This is the kind of stuff I encountered in my junior high school relationships .. even then I could see it was not indicative of a mature, loving guy, the kind I REALLY liked! Those immature guys were forgettable, cute but forgettable.

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I'm with all the others here, it sounds like kindergarten games and maturity, grow up and stop playing games. This and your other thread(s) are all saying the same thing: he's immature and playing games and you are playing right into his shit.
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