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View Poll Results: How often does her ask for sexy pics?
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Old 09-11-2016, 02:43 PM
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My husband is always asking me to send him sexy pics of myself, he asks at least a few times a month. I usually only send them every few months and I find it INCREDIBLY annoying. Was just wondering how normal this is?
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Mine never asks. He knows how many hands they go through and would never want me to feel disrespected. He knows what I look like naked all he has to do is close his eyes and there I am. If your annoyed by it tell him how you feel. I'm sure he will understand
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I think asking after you've said no is disrespectful to you. I think if you wouldn't post it on Facebook then you probably shouldnt be sending them to a prison.
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My husband is always asking me to send him sexy pics of myself, he asks at least a few times a month. I usually only send them every few months and I find it INCREDIBLY annoying.
Was just wondering how normal this is?
Mine never EVER said, yo ma , send me almost nudie/sexy pix of you. lol i would do it in a round about "tasteful way but he never ever ask/demanding sexy type photos from me , always satisfied with "every day looking pix of me."Says that is MOST beautiful to him."and i love him more for that.

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If he ask you to yes the point of exascerbating level, i would tell him STOP it. and just cut it out NOW. Simple as that. Your regular nice pix if he trulyl IN love with you, and respect you, should be more than enough."

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I have sent my man just a few pix of celeb pix that him and i BOTH like and really that is it(a few)and no adult-film type photos only if i wanted to and never have at all(four years in prison he has done without that from me)and has hundreds of pix of me that smother him to death he says over and over lol so i never had to. Now if he was a P.H. (a prison hustler) and only want em' 2 sell or exchange(sexy adullt film type pix) etc., for everything from a few bucks $ to a ciggie or two or honey buns or other things lol i think it is ok...(MEANING from adult site or something like that) But, NEVER of me ...He don't trust c/o's at all who always "compliment him on all my regular pix,so he would not want me "floatin'around like that with more "sexy type pix."


I think if your man ask 1x or 2x, ok why not. But honestly, when it become annoying i would stop it quick and let em' know.
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Mine never asks. He knows how many hands they go through and would never want me to feel disrespected. He knows what I look like naked all he has to do is close his eyes and there I am. If your annoyed by it tell him how you feel. I'm sure he will understand
Never mine is the same way. He hides the Polaroids we take cuz he doesn't want inmates looking lol. He can wait for the sexiness once he gets home.
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to clarify, mine is not demanding anything from me.. If I say I don't feel like it he is quick to drop it... but will always ask again a few weeks later, and that is the part that annoys me.
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Lol my man asked me to send a few and I did. They were classy lol.
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He already has so many pictures of me and he always wants more. When he was out he had a ton of pictures of me on his cell phone too, so it's normal for him. Don't really care who sees them- even had the guy at the drug store who processed them try to keep some- now I just print them myself.
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Mine has never asked me to but he sure is appreciative when I send them anyway lol!

He would never ask me because he is very respectful and he knows that if he would ask me he's not just asking for himself to see them, but the CO's as well. He likes to keep me to himself. The photos I do send however are pretty classy. I would never send photos in anything less than underwear that could pass for a bikini (alright I sent him a few of me in a corset once but it covered a lot).
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In my humble opinion it is not a question of disrespect if both enjoy it and are mutually into it. I like to send pictures to him and he's like a little kid when he gets them...the trick for me is that I keep my face out of any sexy photos -- so who cares if the COs see my butt

To each their own as with everything; every relationship is different --- but OP, if it annoys you and is not something you want to do, then you need to put a stop to it.
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Don't really care who sees them- even had the guy at the drug store who processed them try to keep some- now I just print them myself.


I print mine at home too...
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Mine never asks for sexy ones and I'm afraid to send them because of his conviction. I did send pool pictures of me in a bikini and they let him have them and I make sure I wear clothes that are flattering.
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Mine asks once or twice a month too. I keep telling him that he already has photos and that I can only come up with so many poses. And so many outfits. But he doesn't seem to care - he wants more.
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Well when my ex was in shock I sent him pics of our boys hanging out at the pool. I was in some of the pics in my 2- piece well his command leader saw and called a bunch of guys over to check me out and ask my ex how did he manage to mess us up. I was mortified. The thought of them all checking out my boobs had me embarrassed
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Just a word of advice, ladies, don't send anything too provocative, I've seen fights because someone's commented on someone's pics.
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Broken up now- but he asked ALL the time even though I sent some.
He wouldn't shut up about it and it got the point I was getting furious- I mean it was constant.
I'm getting mad just typing this haha
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I sent Sean 10 in one envelope and 8 in another. He got the 10 and the second envelope never made it to him. :-( Nothing was showing, I was covered so I don't know why they didn't make it to him.
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My husband is always asking me to send him sexy pics of myself, he asks at least a few times a month. I usually only send them every few months and I find it INCREDIBLY annoying. Was just wondering how normal this is?
Same! It gets really annoying when I do send him some and he immediately asks for more!

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Never mine is the same way. He hides the Polaroids we take cuz he doesn't want inmates looking lol.

My LO does the same thing. We took ONE at the last visit (long story) but I hate taking them, but I promised him one.... he keeps it under his pillow and caught a guy trying to look over his shoulder at it. He was not thrilled.

As far as what I send, they are modest, face - nothing I wouldn't want my family to see. He has made subtle requests, however, which I refuse to honor and he knows it. Too many people see that stuff coming in through the mail. And his mail is SO screwed up there, I can't even guarantee he would get it : /
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I had said no before but having the same issue. I just can't stand how I look right now & he requested sexy pictures for his birthday this month. He is pretty stubborn. We can't talk on the phone where he just got moved to. I feel bad cus the last facility didn't allow photos so he has been without pictures for 9 months. I haven't seen him in 11 months. So I feel shy allover again.
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Never. He's an SO and is afraid of getting in trouble. I've sent him a picture with some cleavage and he got it, but he doesn't want me to send more. He also said he wants something to look forward to seeing for the first time when we get married.
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He doesn't really ask me because he knows that sort of thing annoys me.
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I send my fiance sexy pics all the time
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I'm not even "allowed" to say or write the word SEX. So no, he's never asked.
Must be on a hair-trigger? LOL

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I voted "rarely." Because he does ask here and there, but it's not often at all. Considering how long we've known each other, how long he's been in, how often I write and send normal every day photos... Yes, I would say it's rare that he asks for "sexy" photos.

I've never sent anything that I couldn't show my family, though. I would like to think that I have kept "sexy" photos classy. I don't show a whole lot, because I am just a bit reserved like that anyway. He knows that. He's perfectly happy with that.
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